Friends are just bad news

Sapphyre

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It hurts the most because about 5 years ago i had promised my self I wouldn't make friends.. but I let my guard down and for a few years we were close as close could be.. now I'm back to being a no one

I'm so sorry you've been so hurt by people. Trust me when I say I know how you feel. No matter what happens with your current friends, though, remember that when you build walls you keep out the good people along with the bad.

I know how hard it is to trust people and let them into you life after you've been hurt enough times, but God is in control, and He only has your best in mind. Try giving over your hurt from past friendships to God. Name them all. God will take the hurt and turn it into peace and a foundation for trust.

Praying for you, sister.
 
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I'm so sorry you've been so hurt by people. Trust me when I say I know how you feel. No matter what happens with your current friends, though, remember that when you build walls you keep out the good people along with the bad.

I know how hard it is to trust people and let them into you life after you've been hurt enough times, but God is in control, and He only has your best in mind. Try giving over your hurt from past friendships to God. Name them all. God will take the hurt and turn it into peace and a foundation for trust.

Praying for you, sister.

She's right Son. Lifting a prayer as well!! :prayer:
 
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I feel like a No one..

Give it to God, hun. Tell Him how you feel, and trust that He can change your heart. I've learned that as long as I remember that even when all other people abandon me, God's there holding me. :hug:
 
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Life has a way of being cruel sometimes.. It never hurts more when something happens than when it's close to home- family, friends.
It can make you feel like you're nothing.. you're little.. no one cares. I've been there ,felt that way; I'm not just trying to imagine it. The thing to remember is that no matter what- you ARE someone. You'll make it through this and somehow you'll get friends. whether it's because you're able to patch it up with these people or you obtain different friends I don't know. I DO know however that having friends is an awesome part of life that should not be avoided.
Strap in and hang on.. it's going to be bumpy because life's a rollercoaster. Just remember, rollercoasters go up too.
 
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I hate to bump this up again but I'm so confused with everything right now.
My friends are back in my life trying to be a part of my life.. but i cant even talk to them about what i need them for cuz it would complicate life.. just gahh
*hides in a corner somewhere*
 
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