Hi I am just wondering if anyone has any traditions in their family. Also, how do you feel about them?
My mother in law (who I love dearly, she is a strong Christian and has always been there for my husband, son and I) seems to insist that we have lunch at her place every Sunday afternoon. This was OK when we were living with her (as we were there already), then when we moved out we were on that side of town, about 5 mins away. It was also good when my son would go down for his nap in the spare room, there is a portacot all set up there and some of his toys, so he was happy. However, we weren't really going to church every Sunday (that is another story) and it was OK, I didn't mind spending Sunday with everyone. My brother-in-law and his wife are there every week too.
Now that we are going to church every Sunday, we live 20 mins away, some Sunday evenings my husband has to work, and my son doesn't nap every day, it is just becoming too hard every week. I am begining to find it a real drag to be out all day, then my husband has to go to work. There is no time for us to hang out just the 3 of us. I have had the last 2 weekends free, with no Sunday lunch as we have had dh boss for lunch the first weekend, last weekend was my son's birthday. I explained to my mum in law, that I wasn't coping with every Sunday, she just didn't seem to understand. Yes this Sunday we are heading over there. She is so excited and said "now things can get back to normal" However next weekend we have another birthday party and a Christmas party. No way am I going to mum in laws for lunch.
I know things are going to change, I am going to be an Aunt in January (they are living with mum in law as they are broke and can't afford to rent) so my son won't have his spare room to nap in if he needs to, as the new baby will be in there. Not only that, I am sure my sis in law, is probably going to want to try and have some space. She has been asking me for how to be a good mummy advice, that is really strange because 2 years ago, it was me asking everyone about what it is like to be a mum.
I am not necessarily asking for advice, but if you've got some, send it my way! I just need to vent a little. Thanks for reading this if you've got this far. lol
My mother in law (who I love dearly, she is a strong Christian and has always been there for my husband, son and I) seems to insist that we have lunch at her place every Sunday afternoon. This was OK when we were living with her (as we were there already), then when we moved out we were on that side of town, about 5 mins away. It was also good when my son would go down for his nap in the spare room, there is a portacot all set up there and some of his toys, so he was happy. However, we weren't really going to church every Sunday (that is another story) and it was OK, I didn't mind spending Sunday with everyone. My brother-in-law and his wife are there every week too.
Now that we are going to church every Sunday, we live 20 mins away, some Sunday evenings my husband has to work, and my son doesn't nap every day, it is just becoming too hard every week. I am begining to find it a real drag to be out all day, then my husband has to go to work. There is no time for us to hang out just the 3 of us. I have had the last 2 weekends free, with no Sunday lunch as we have had dh boss for lunch the first weekend, last weekend was my son's birthday. I explained to my mum in law, that I wasn't coping with every Sunday, she just didn't seem to understand. Yes this Sunday we are heading over there. She is so excited and said "now things can get back to normal" However next weekend we have another birthday party and a Christmas party. No way am I going to mum in laws for lunch.
I know things are going to change, I am going to be an Aunt in January (they are living with mum in law as they are broke and can't afford to rent) so my son won't have his spare room to nap in if he needs to, as the new baby will be in there. Not only that, I am sure my sis in law, is probably going to want to try and have some space. She has been asking me for how to be a good mummy advice, that is really strange because 2 years ago, it was me asking everyone about what it is like to be a mum.
I am not necessarily asking for advice, but if you've got some, send it my way! I just need to vent a little. Thanks for reading this if you've got this far. lol