For the record, I have yet to see anyone respond to the Scriptures I've posted at the beginning of this thread.
Now it could be argued that the stony ground Christian is in fact saved minus persecution or trial, but that raises a whole other set of complications. My biggest objection is why would God allow someone to live who had chosen Him, but He knew they were going to fall away when the trail came? If God is truly a loving God, wouldn't He allow a mercy killing in this instance? Surely it would not be argued that dying an early earthly death as opposed to eternal death would be the choice.
If we make God in our own image, then and only then can we fully and accurately answer each of these questions you raise. The answers would be wrong, of course, because the questions are flawed in that they assume God can be trapped in the corner of human logic.
Why was I born here in the U.S. and have heard the Gospel from a very young age, when someone else in a third world country will live their entire life without ever hearing the Gospel? If God loves everyone equally then why the disproportion?
I'd be careful with this train of thought. To say that because some are born into certain circumstances while others are not then that must mean God does not love equally seems to be extremely presumptuous. Again, pitting finite human logic vs. an INfinite all-powerful God is precisely what Paul talks about in Romans 9. It goes both ways here. Just as we cannot presume to know the mind of God fully, nor can we say He loves you, you, you and you but not you because you're not elected. For God so loved the elect that He gave His only begotten Son, that whomever He has sovereignly chose through no choice of their own will never perish...?
--Then they asked him, "
What must we do to do the works God requires?"
Jesus answered, "
The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent."-- John 6:28-29
God chose what family I was born into...no man made that decision. Please...no analogies of mentally handicapped children. God is either all powerful or He is not and God chooses who will be born where and with what difficulties they will be born with or born into.
Yes He chooses where we are born but it's a stretch to go from that to 'God chooses my salvation with no choice of my own'. Repeatedly Scripture does not support that. I recommend that you read this story if you haven't already;
http://christianforums.com/showthread.php?t=7300062
When an unreached tribe of Alaskan Native Americans turned their backs on Shamanism--and not before--, God raised up a prophet to give them a means to follow the true God. This is but one story of undoubtedly many others like it.
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?book_id=2&chapter=33&verse=19&version=31&context=verse
Yet this passage is silent on why God chooses one person and not the other. Look at Noah. Noah was righteous and found favor in God's eyes. Notice how God did not choose an unrighteous wicked man and his family instead of Noah to save.
Now some would say...yes but if we are willfully sinning then God will not choose us as objects of His mercy.
Hosea 3:1
1 The LORD said to me, "Go, show your love to your wife again, though she is loved by another and is an adulteress. Love her as the LORD loves the Israelites, though they turn to other gods and love the sacred raisin cakes."
God chooses.
That was the Old Covenant, based on the law. One cannot live a life of willful sin and enter Heaven. Hebrews 10:26-27 talks about this.
--For if we go on sinning willfully after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins, but a terrifying expectation of judgment and the fury of a fire which will consume the adversaries.--
Romans 9:16
16 It does not, therefore, depend on man's desire or effort, but on God's mercy.
This is the promise of Christianity....that God chooses us and that His choice is not based on our desire, effort or ability to choose Him. We believe that God has chosen us. We accept that we have entered into His grace on faith not because we willed it to be so, but because He willed it to be so. Our belonging to God does not rest in our choosing God, but in Him choosing us.
Again, one must take the Bible in its entirety. The verses highlighting those who lost their salvation do not and cannot contradict with this one since the Word is infallible. In the Old Testament even the chosen Israelites had to work out their salvation and follow the law. Just because they were chosen does not mean they were automatically headed for eternal life.
From Luke 16:
19"There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. 20At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores 21and longing to eat what fell from the rich man's table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.
22"The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham's side. The rich man also died and was buried. 23In hell,[
c] where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. 24So he called to him, 'Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.'
25"But Abraham replied, '
Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. 26And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been fixed, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.'
27"He answered, 'Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my father's house, 28for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.'
29"Abraham replied,
'They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.'
30" 'No, father Abraham,' he said, 'but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.' 31"He said to him, 'If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.' "
Abraham calls this man a son, and his brothers had the Law, which means this man was a descendant of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. But he did not live righteously and follow the Law and sacrifices for sin like he should have. Yes he was a Jew but he still had to do his part. Obviously he did not so he ended up in Hell.
Romans 11:29
29 ...God's gifts and his call are irrevocable.
There is nothing in this passage referring to salvation. This is about the Jews and their significance in the world. Did Jews who rejected their Messiah keep their salvation?
And just a few verses earlier;
Romans 11:
22Consider therefore the kindness and sternness of God: sternness to those who fell, but
kindness to you, provided that you continue in his kindness. Otherwise, you also will be cut off. 23And if they do not persist in unbelief, they will be grafted in, for God is able to graft them in again.
There are conditions to salvation. Will one continue in the love and mercy of God or reject it?
This post is long enough already. I'm waiting to see someone respond to the verses I mentioned.