Hi!
So i've been dating this girl for a while and both of us have committed to honor Christ in our relationship by following his commandments because I truly believe by doing so God will bless us.
We have been discussing marriage/children/more serious questions and she revealed to me about sister (born male transitioned to female) and I was a bit shocked. She immediately mentioned she doesn't condone the behavior and the mother doesn't condone it either but because it's family they continue to show love to this person.
When we discussed children, she mentioned that she wanted the children to have a healthy relationship with her sister. I became a bit concerned as we both agreed that there is a spirit over this individual and I wouldn't want that influencing my children and having them believing it's ok to and acceptable.
It's a tough situation because it really is tearing us apart. I care about her but im fearful for my potential children to be influenced by this individual. Am i right for this thought? What are some suggestions? Im trying not to sound like a bigot but I believe sin is sin and wouldn't want a strong relationship to be built because of the influence.
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Bell186
So i've been dating this girl for a while and both of us have committed to honor Christ in our relationship by following his commandments because I truly believe by doing so God will bless us.
We have been discussing marriage/children/more serious questions and she revealed to me about sister (born male transitioned to female) and I was a bit shocked. She immediately mentioned she doesn't condone the behavior and the mother doesn't condone it either but because it's family they continue to show love to this person.
When we discussed children, she mentioned that she wanted the children to have a healthy relationship with her sister. I became a bit concerned as we both agreed that there is a spirit over this individual and I wouldn't want that influencing my children and having them believing it's ok to and acceptable.
It's a tough situation because it really is tearing us apart. I care about her but im fearful for my potential children to be influenced by this individual. Am i right for this thought? What are some suggestions? Im trying not to sound like a bigot but I believe sin is sin and wouldn't want a strong relationship to be built because of the influence.
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Bell186