What I gather from the information you shared, he seems a little eager to please you, to give you what you would want, and this (at least to me) would be a turnoff. Perhaps he's sensing your rejection and thus tries a little harder, at his own expense if he must. I've been guilty of doing that very thing once upon a time, sensing I was unwanted and trying to blot it out by being extra accommodating just so I wouldn't have to bear the pain of a final rejection, as if it were in my power to change their mind about me. But in the end, that just makes it all worse. I wouldn't have a man's respect, and worse, I wouldn't have my own respect. I remember writing a blog on this very subject of why some nice guys finish last. Yes he's nice and has great qualities and puts you on pedestal etc etc, but a guy who just does that too MUCH would be a little hard to respect because he wouldn't seem real to me. It'd be hard to single out when he's being pretentious or genuine. While I'm certainly not suggesting that nice guys are prone to being pretentious, when they're just TOO nice that they lose their individuality, I would feel like there's not a moment for a challenge in the relationship. He'd be too scared or unwilling to confront me about something he might not like or whatever.
On another note, though, and personally speaking, I was never physically attracted to any of the men I was semi-involved with until after I got simply comfortable with spending enough time with them, save for just ONE. He was the only one I felt physically attracted to from the get-go, so much that I was often like a bumbling idiot around him. Obviously the attraction helped things move along a little faster, but it didn't make that man any better for me than the others. For the others, the attraction grew pretty much every time after a bit of time, interaction, and just hanging out. But it did always grow. Always. Namely because their personalities were like beacons I couldn't ignore. Never even thought I'd fall as hard as I did for the last one. Amazing man. So to suggest that one must ALWAYS break away a potential relationship because of lack of attraction isn't any more true than saying one should ALWAYS stick it out just to see. It really just depends on the situation, the guy, and everyone's interests and intents laid out right on the table.
But I feel compelled to also say that I've also noticed that I can almost be "tricked" into being attracted to men, and usually by my own doing, (such as my personal situation at the point in time I met them, like being vulnerable or lonely) so even THAT can further complicate matters. In the end, the best thing to really do is rely on the Holy Spirit to keep the mind and heart unclouded. Or just to follow the ever-reliable female intuition, which is totally underrated.
Anyway, my two cents.
