I have been a widow now for ten years. It has not been easy by no means, but I can say with the help of the Lord, I have gotten this far. I just want to encourage those who have recently lost your husband/wife by letting you know that even though today seems extremely dim, there will come a tomorrow when you can actually go on with your life without him/her. For now it seems your days are empty because that one particular person was a part of your life. You shared so many things together. For you, life seemed to come to an end, but for others around you, even those that were there the day your loved one departed, their lives continued on as usual. Your life will too, if you allow the Lord to help you through it. If there is someone out there that would just like to cry via this thread, please know I want to help you through it. May one day you be able to have that joy you once had. It is there just for you from the Lord.
Christian Widow
Christian Widow