I will say though if someone is having sex twice a week just to protect the marriage, it won't end well. Sex just becomes a act at that point. Its no longer an emotional bonding love filled thing.
I wouldn't agree with that. It does sound like a drag just to be on the receiving end of 'duty sex'. But let's say there is a husband and wife who don't have the same sex drive. Partner A is always saying 'no', then reads I Corinthians 7, and decides to stop that. Partner A sees that Partner B is happy with sex twice a week, even though Partner A only gets the urge about twice a month. So Partner A puts their whole hearts into pleasing Partner B as an act of love without any kind of resentment. It's all very passionate. Partner A actually gets into the act and enjoys it after a few minutes, anyway, but just requires some warm-up time for that.
I don't see that as leading to divorce.
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