I agree “the human spiritual nature is weaker than God and can be corrupted.” So Adam and Eve had this “human spiritual nature” the same as all of us, so why did our nature have to change in order for us to sin?
What I mean is "the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience" (in Ephesians 2:2) effected Adam and Eve's nature so they became able to disobey. While they were God's "very good" creation . . . I understand that God's "very good" creation could not of its own nature choose to do what is not good. However, as I consider, their nature was not immune to evil like God is > James 1:13.
And so, a point of this, as concerns how I personally understand "total depravity", is I think that we of ourselves, even if we were perfect creations like Adam and Eve, we also would not have a chance against Satan and his evil spirit. So, we all are in the same boat, needing how God alone is able to make us stable in His love. And this means becoming . . . each of us becoming . . . "one spirit with Him" (in 1 Corinthians 6:17). In oneness with God, each of us can share with God in His own strength and immunity to how evil would try to effect Him and us. In His love, we have His almighty immunity, including against fear >
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love." (1 John 4:17)
Can we think of it like this: Humans instinctively have a desire to survive (this is good and gives value to life), but that would also require: self-awareness, self-preservation, and some degree of selfishness. This selfishness would go against being selfless (totally Loving like God), so did Adam and Eve instinctively have selflessness or did God hold it back from them or was it just not possible to give it to them from their creation?
First > humans now have their self interest . . . now that humans are in sin. But Adam and Eve were not always how humans have become. And in the sin condition, humans have been slaves of "fear of death" > Hebrews 2:14-15. In "fear of death" ones are insecure and therefore not feeling taken-care-of, and so they can be mainly or only about watching out for their own selves. But in God's love, we do not have this fear; and so we can generously run our cups over to others, without feeling we will run out of resources or be unsafe (1 Peter 3:13)
Being selfless (helping others with no expectation of getting anything from it) is not human nature and if it were instinctively placed in a being it would not be this “love” by choice, but a robotic action, so how do we get this “Love”?
The Bible has not said it is robotic for God to bless us with how His love has us become. If you have been dead in sin, you already are dead; while being love-dead, we have been robots and puppets of the devil, maybe we could say. So, if God changes you to become alive in love, why accuse Him of making you a robot? This could be mixing up God and the devil; God makes alive, but the devil uses and controls and wastes people.
A thing is that God knows that if He changes a love-dead person into a really loving person, that person will appreciate this; but while the person is selfish, his or her way of filtering a message about love will have the love-dead person interpreting the message the wrong way.
I myself have been in denial about how I have been a whatever you want to say. And people would confront me, and I would be in denial, then God would change me so I am alive in love. And I am not complaining!!!
So the new born child of two strong Christians is not depraved and/or “infected by the spirit of sin”?
I consider that the child has an advantage, if the parents are mature Christians. They might pray for the child and even spend time talking with the child . . . while the child is unborn. Then the born child has their example of how to relate in love.
But, theologically, I can not make a one-size-fits-all statement about how things will be spiritually for each unborn child of a mature couple in Jesus. Usually, by the way, people have their children while they are younger couples. But I consider what Paul says in 1 Corinthians 7, about how the children of a Christian are clean. So, I am personally open about this.
Why was Jesus not depraved or “infected by the spirit of sin”?
Because Jesus is the Son of God . . . "the image of God" (2 Corinthians 4:4) with nothing but God in that image
And God "cannot be tempted by evil", we have in James 1:13. So, because Jesus by nature is God, He can not be tempted by evil. His nature has almighty immunity against howsoever evil would try to effect and infect Him. And we who are in Jesus have Jesus as our new inner Person growing in us, more and more sharing with us His own almighty immunity > Galatians 4:19, 1 John 4:17.
So, this feeds into our discussion about "total depravity". We in ourselves have been human persons, not almighty with immunity against evil and sin and the dominating and dictatorial passions for pleasure and revenge and comparing and self-righteously criticizing and unforgiveness. So, we totally depend on God to change our nature so we share in nature with Jesus in us making us new creatures of love > 2 Corinthians 5:17. Because of our own human nature, especially since it already has been corrupted (Ephesians 2:2), there is no way our selfish character is going to get us to choose to become truly loving. So, yes it is depraved as well as dependent.
Are you not placing at least some of the blame for your sinning on Adam and Eve and/or your parents and/or God?
I have offered how any of us would have done no better!
I would have done the same thing and therefore started the same whole mess. And I note how our Apostle Paul says "we" "were by nature children of wrath, just as the others", in Ephesians 2:3. So, from this, I see that no one of us has been any better than anyone else; and so each of us would have done the same thing, in the garden. And no one on this earth, also, then, has been somehow superior to others, so he or she has gotten oneself to choose Jesus while others haven't . . . by the way. Again, this supports, in my personal logic, that each of us totally depends on God in order to choose Jesus and at any time to choose right > also considering Philippians 2:13.
I would go on to say a mature adult has very limited use of free will, but really only needs it to make one free will choice: “to accept or reject God’s charity”.
From this, I understand you could mean that one mature in love is going to make mainly the choice to live in God's love; because the person has matured in God's love; by becoming a love person, his or her nature is limited to free willing what is loving. How well have I butchered what you mean, here, or rightly represented you?
When your child first “sins”, do you look upon it as a “fall” or as a transition into another phase of their life? Is it part of their maturing and growth?
Well, it depends on which way the child is going. There are ones who are in the process of gaining correction so they get more and more clear of sinning and are learning how to love. Others could already be getting "worse and worse" (in 2 Timothy 3:13).
A point is that we need to pray to God for how He is able to bless our children . . . whether we believe in free will or total dependence or total wickedness or whatever. Do what we need to do! God is so better able to do our children good, than we are; so trust Him for all which is possible with Him.
So who are you “blaming” for their “first corruption”?
A fair question, but I am "scratching my head"
because my answer probably won't make me look good. So, let me try not to let that be a factor.
Apparently, the LORD blamed Adam, Eve, and Satan. And each got one's consequences. This is the easy-out answer, since this shows how the LORD Himself blamed
But I do understand that Adam and Eve did not have a chance against Satan. But they did get consequences. They were judged. And so I understand that I do not need to be theorizing about this. I will reap what I sow. And only God is able to make me successful in real loving, including really pleasing Him. It is not only about blame; if we stay in less than God's love, as much as we are weak in less than God's love, we are going to be messed by "the spirit who now works in the sons of disobedience" (in Ephesians 2:2). And what we need is not blaming and arguing theory, but to simply do what God's word says to do about this > trust in Jesus, if one has not (Ephesians 1:12), and seek our Father for His personal correction > Hebrews 12:4-11 < of His love's perfection > 1 John 4:17.
So, I am not blaming God, even if He could have stayed with Adam and Eve and kept that thing from happening. What did happen is a fair warning of what can happen with us, without God; and I think we all have sampled this, already, more or less. So, if we just blame and accuse God, who has us doing this . . . instead of trusting Him for all He is able to do with us, like 1 Peter 5:7 says to do?
And what else could I expect from Satan, in the matter? I'm not sure blaming is relevant. I think mainly we need to see how this is an object lesson of our need for God. Adam and Eve had been actually in personal conversation with the LORD; yet, they were able to do what they did. This can show how we need more than to have God speaking to us, and doing mighty wonders. We need how He actually changes our nature so we are with Him in His love and leading. We can not afford to be left on our own, even in perfect circumstances like in the garden.
So, who to blame and whether God is fair is not relevant. He is our only and really good resource. And Jesus says that only God is good, right? So, though creatures have been "good" in some creature way, we have not had the goodness, even in perfect circumstances like in the garden, to get ourselves to be and do the good which is possible in sharing with God.
So . . . I offer how I get what people are saying about what God would do if He was "fair". But that has not happened, has it? And the Bible gives us so much about all God is able and willing to do with us; so why throw all this out, just for the sake of a few words of arguing by ones who are not doing us anything close to as good as all which the Bible guarantees God does with His children? Have the ones arguing against God given us anything better than all which God's word guarantees to us who trust and obey Jesus? Not to my knowledge.
Ro. 9 is a great topic and I would love to discuss with you, but off this topic.
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