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Not because I say so--because the definition of inferiority is clear, and those who put forth the idea that women should always be relegated to a subordinate rank because they didn't happen to be born with a male anatomy don't seem to understand that definition.
Do you think our modern definition for inferiority has any real bearing upon God's intent from the beginning? Do you think the writers of modern dictionaries had God's order for the family in mind when wrestling with describing the meaning of words in modern usage?
You seen to be basing your conclusion on the idea that God's intent for the order within the family somehow ties into modern definitions for worth of individuals. I don't see the connection. The Lord inspired it to be written that, in Christ, there is no male nor female. That same Lord also inspired it to be written that the ORDER, not WORTH, within the family is to exist, which happens to be the headship of the husband, as is the relationship of Christ with His Church. Christ's relationship with the Church didn't end with the death of the last apostle, or the death of the Roman empire, so where's the substance in your argument?
This senseless push to force upon the husband's headship an alignment with definitions that have to do with worth teeters on the edge of what I call the martyr syndrome. If there exists a measure of worth on the basis of superiority versus inferiority between two people, you have no argument where scripture is concerned. The Lord already cut that one off at the pass. The Bible completely disqualifies any such association between headship and inferiority, but in the face of utter defeat, you seem to prefer insisting that there's no such disqualification. Anyone can deny the obvious to the point of their very death, but that will never have any lasting implications upon that over which you have no power.
Why do you prefer kicking aginast the goad? Is there some agenda behind all this? What really is your point?
How does saying that a man's covering is Christ, but a woman's covering is her husband NOT make her inferior?
You're ripping bits and pieces out from their proper context in order to piece together this totally unrecognizable tapestry of confusion. Christ is the Head of ALL true believers, not just husbands. That's made clear in the fact that there's no male nor female in Christ. Why can't you seem to get the obvious in all this. In the family STRUCTURE, there are distinctions of function, but not in Christ.
Where do you see any desparity in this?
I have a friend who is married--to assume that she is in some odd hierarchy where she needs an extra "covering" of authority because of her gender is absurd. WE ARE ALL COVERED BY CHRIST AND CHRIST ALONE.
You'll have to describe your usage of the term covering, because it seems that you take words to mean something quite different from their original definition.
Definition of "inferior":
1.lower in station, rank, degree, or grade
2.lower in place or position; closer to the bottom or base
3.of comparatively low grade; poor in quality; substandard
4.less important, valuable, or worthy
5.acting or performing in a way that is comparatively poor or mediocre
So, let's see, saying that a woman--because she was born a woman and not a man--must be under the authority of her husband (assuming, of course, she has a husband), definitely puts that woman under definition one and here, and I would argue that you could even apply definition four (because it's the next logical step--if she is not capable or allowed to take a position of authority based on her anatomy, and only males can take that position, it brings into question female worth).
This is an exercise in subjective alignment. You're subjectively aligning with headship external definitions peculair to a modern, English dictionary. Inferiority in one area of functionality doesn't make one inferior in all areas one chooses to force upon the example. If you think it does, then please explain your rationale behind that.
1.lower in station, rank, degree, or grade
I have no problem admitting that the husband is superior in station, or rank. However, I have a serious problem with subjectively forcing upon this the idea that the following logically applies:
4.less important, valuable, or worthy
This is a giant leap across a chasm that's far too wide for you to cross so easily. The scriptures have clearly drawn a line of distinction between being inferior in rank by way of function within the family, and the worth and value argument. You can't erase that line simply because you don't like the former, and therefore drag the latter across that line in order to poison the well of logic. Your reasoning is incoherent, and therefore inconsistent with the facts.
The point is, if women, regardless of their talents and strengths and gifts, are always placed in a position where they must assume the role of subordination, then they are by definition inferior.
Your point is invalidated on the basis of worth. The wife is never commanded within scripture to subordinate herself in every respect to her husband. The husband has no power to command his wife to deny the Lord, nor to take the life of another person, or even her own. The husband has no power to command his wife to do that which is sin. The husband has no power over his wife at all. Christ always remains her Lord and Master.
What you seem to have missed in all this is that a wife's godly submission to her husband is ultimately submission to God. That doesn't mean that the husband stands in the place of God for the wife. The authority the husband has originated FROM God, which has nothing to do with laying greater worth upon the husband. Children are also commanded to obey their parents. That doesn't make them inferior by way of worth to their parents, or anyone else walking this earth. Their obedience to parents is obedience to God. The husband's authority, therefore, isn't something he has by nature, mostly because we've all sinned, and are therefore worthy of death.
Therefore your worth argument is completely meaningless in all this. The husband's authority originates from a Source that is above him, not on the same level as himself, or beneath himself.
If another mortal man told me that I'm the authority over my wife, I'd reject that installment because I'd then expect her to submit to me on an inferior basis. Her submission would have no lasting benefit. However, the One who created us all, He bestowed a mantle upon the shoulders of the husband that carries with it an enormous responsibility.
I still remain baffled as to why the anti-headship crowd seems to think that the mantle of authority upon the husband is a benefit to anyone, and therefore to be desired and demanded by rebellious women. That mantle doesn't make the husband better or superior in worth to the wife. At least some of the anti-headship defenders had the common sense to avoid that argument, for which I admire them, but you fell head-long into that pit. Why?
Headship is a heavy burden, and thus carries enormous responsibility and ramifications up to the very day of judgement. It's not a benefit that adds worth or value to the one over the other. This has nothing to do with worth. To say that authority denotes worth or value is a purely dishonest assesment of the reality. This has to do with the burdens of living in a fallen world, and therefore the necessity for an authority structure within the family.
Guess what? I'm inferior to my wife in the arena of bearing forth children. You'd demand that I was being rediculous if I were to argue that men are therefore inerior to women on that basis. Why? Simply because of the physical realities.
Does the fact that you're not arguing with something that doesn't have a physical limitation make your case that much stronger? Who are you trying to fool? Both arguments are equally foolish. The only difference is that the one is an easier target for your bullets simply because it doesn't hinge upon a physical limitation that makes the distinction so obvious.
Go figure.....
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