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What are some anti-Catholicism experiences you have had?
What do you do to avoid these attacks or to counter them? 
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Annabel Lee said:Too many to keep track of. Though I should add, it's all been online.
In real life, people are basically decent.
I think the anonymity of the internet can cause people to drop pretenses and show their true colors.
CeeBee said:Oh yeah I forgot also from two of my closest friends. (Baptist) neither who are religious...
Holly3278 said:There is a Fundamentalist Baptist church around here that uses the whole "harlot of Babylon" stuff. I have also heard the "Catholics worship mary" thing a ton of times. Both instances in real life.
Annabel Lee said:Oh I believe you. I've heard horror stories from a lot of Catholics.
Maybe it has something to do with living in southern Cal. Everyone is basically accepting in the neighborhood I live in.
Within a one mile radius, we have a Catholic Church, Church of Latter Day Saints, an assortment of protestant churches and a Islamic Center.
No problems.
Annabel Lee said:Oh I believe you. I've heard horror stories from a lot of Catholics.
Maybe it has something to do with living in southern Cal. Everyone is basically accepting in the neighborhood I live in.
Within a one mile radius, we have a Catholic Church, Church of Latter Day Saints, an assortment of protestant churches and a Islamic Center.
No problems.
Holly3278 said:What are some anti-Catholicism experiences you have had?![]()
AMDG said:I'd say that most are simply unintentional reiterations of someone else. Completely unintentional. Like asking a decent question but ending it with something like "I know you Catholics worship the Pope" or "I already know what Christians believe, now I'm asking you RCC." That one is guaranteed to be like fingernails rasping against a chalkboard to me. However, I can actually handle those anti-Catholic remarks because they aren't intentional, but not so some of the other nasty "on-purpose" ones. I've actually been lectured by someone because they claim that we Catholics "worship Mary" and so are "idolators" or that we Catholics do weird things and have "canned prayers". (Yes, this was in person. Was so angry I could barely catch my breath--simply refused to even talk with one person anymore.) And the anti-Catholicism in regular society just bothers me altogether. You know how the media bends over backwards to not offend others, but it's "open season" on Catholics--jokes are made at Catholic expense, television shows feature Catholics in the worst light, and more--even ebay sees nothing wrong in auctioning off a Consecrated Host.
BillH said:It's pretty rare that people will be venemously anti-Catholic to my face -- there's a lot to be said for various standards of politeness.
The worst was during the West Coast Walk for Life a couple of months back. Some of the counter-demonstrators were just absolutely viscious -- talking about how I supported the rape of innocent children, how I wanted to oppress women, etc. I just handled it at the time by holding my head high and kept on walking. There's no point in feeding such behavior.
More often, I come across simple ignorance about what the church actually teaches. There's a wonderful quote from Bishop J. Fulton Sheen that I believe went, "There are not over a hundred people in the United States who hate the Catholic Church. There are millions, however, who hate what they wrongly believe to be the Catholic Churchwhich is, of course, quite a different thing."
In both cases, it's best to assess how willing people are to genuinely listen to counterarguments. If they seem so, they explain why they are wrong as charitably as possible. If not, just move on. In all cases, pray that the person in question might be converted.
cool2bCatholic said:A girl in one of my classes said that she was "sick of the Catholic Church" and so I asked why and she said because the new Pope was a Nazi...so I tried to explain to her the difference between being forced into a Hitler Youth program and actually supporting the slaughter of innocent lives, but she said she "didn't want to hear it" and walked away.So I just prayed for her, what else can I do?
If you really think about it, the only reason people are anti-Catholic is because they are misinformed, cuz if they truly understood everything then they'd be Catholic!So we just need to pray that God will open their hearts and give them an opportunity to learn about His beautiful Church!
May the Lord bless and keep you!
Angela