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Mayflower1

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on purpose. :D My friends and I always joked about it because I wanted to stay single and never date or anything. But now, I am changing and so are my thoughts and feelings on certain matters. :)
 
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I've only been on one date since I moved back to OK last summer. Since my move was for a new job, I decided to focus on that for the moment. It keeps me really busy. This is my first true weekend off in months.

Sometimes I feel that I would really like to find a girl to go out with. But the reality is, most of the time it's just not that big of a deal to me.

Coach
 
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on purpose. :D My friends and I always joked about it because I wanted to stay single and never date or anything. But now, I am changing and so are my thoughts and feelings on certain matters. :)

Now I'll run them off by accident because I absolutely know nothing about guys, never had them as friends, take everything literally, and get nervous very easily. :)

Well, as your thoughts and feelings change, your reactions/interactions with guys can change, too. :)
 
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I've only been on one date since I moved back to OK last summer. Since my move was for a new job, I decided to focus on that for the moment. It keeps me really busy. This is my first true weekend off in months.

Sometimes I feel that I would really like to find a girl to go out with. But the reality is, most of the time it's just not that big of a deal to me.

Coach
I think that it's normal/healthy to go through seasons in our life where relationships are less of a focus (if we're single).
 
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2 weeks ago and it was a blind date and i was really excited about it until i met him. He was boring and doesn't do anything- literally. I don't know many single Christian guys that are interesting to me right now. Bleh
A boring date is worse than no date at all. :o
 
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Well, as your thoughts and feelings change, your reactions/interactions with guys can change, too. :)
I guess so. So when do you know you are ready to go out on a date. :D
 
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true, but there was no potential for anything more. He doesn't have a job, he didn't go to college, he was homeschooled his own life, he was just blah. I felt like i was babysitting. I think he liked me but i don't want to go on anymore dates with him. He was a nice person but the unmotivation thing really was a turn off. The girl that set me up; I don't think she knew much about him or me for that matter.
 
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