Darling you can ask anything you like, any time you like.
And I can do this.
And I will then give you an answer; the Bible is not God. The Bible is not the foundation of my faith; Christ is.
God himself; Father, Son and Holy Spirit, is the 'reasoning' behind my beliefs. Or, as the Blessed Julian says:
Thou wouldst know the Lord's meaning in this thing? Know it well; Love was his meaning.
Which happens to be fully in accord with the words of the blessed Paul, who says even if we quote Scripture itself and forget God's love, we are making just so much meaningless noise. Love is
always the context of every single verse of Scripture; God's love for us, and our love for our brothers and sisters. Take away this love, and you take away the presence of God himself, and are left with just so much noise, very often comprising a whole heap of human failing, mistake, bigotry and prejudice.
In other words, stop looking for the 'biblical explanation', which is not worth the paper it is written on, and instead find the love. Because when you find that love, Christ is present.
I agree that quoting Scripture in a legalistic fashion that loses sight of the sum of the law (Love God, love your neighbor) is just as just as useless, if not moreseo, than citing opinions without reasoning. But, I disagree with the idea that "the biblical explanation is not worth the paper its written on." When used properly the biblical explanation can be used to help us to understand what love looks like in a given situation. For example, in our discussion of the passage in question, I don't believe that it is loving to tell a person that he or she has complete freedom to damage his or he body) whether by self-injury, suicide, drugs, excessive alcohol, excessive food, etc.) without moral consequence.
Certainly, love requires that we exercise discernment. I am not going to cram Scripture down the throat of a hurting self-injurer, because I know that most people who intentionally self-injure already realize that their behavior is unhealthy and hurts both them and God. I aslo realize that self-injury is a symptom of mental illness, and that if it were as simple as telling the person to stop hurting themselves, they would have figured that out by now. By the same token, it would be no more loving of me to tell the person that, if they want to cut themselves, that is fine, because it's their body to do with as they please. Love requires that I help them, as much as they are willing to be helped, to receieve the help that they need to overcome the destructive behavior. And, one way that I come to this understanding of what love is in the situation, is by reading Scripture.
Neither extreme is loving. If we moralize, without grace, to make people do as we think they ought, then that is not love. When we avoid telling people what we believe to be true, whenever it will be uncomfortable for the other person to hear, then that is not love. Love requires that we speak the truth, at least to the extent of our own understanding, with grace and mercy.
Applying to this to the O.P., I personally don't see anything wrong with tattoos piercings, as long as they are God and self-honoring. My AA sponsor has a Jack Daniels tattoo on his belly. He has now been sober for 11 years. Obviously, if he could go back and make the decision over again, he would not get the tattoo; he is stuck with a remnant of a lifestyle that he used to live. But, he has learned to use his tattoo as an aid to his sobriety, as a reminder of the type of stupidity that ensues when an alcoholic drinks. I think this illustrates why relatively permanent adornments, such as tattooing and gaugeing, should demand a special degree of prayer and consideration by Christians. But, I see nothing in Scripture and logic that would suggest that there is anything immoral about such "decorations."
Obviously, such things, like anything can be taken to an unhealthy extreme. If all of your spending money is going to the tattoo parlor, then this is a problem. If this, or any other obsession, inhibits generosity, then that is a problem. But,
any behavior, whether normall healthy or not, can become an unhealthy and idolatrous obsession.
Which is what you think I did? Wot fun!
I disagree, but it's really not worth arguing about.