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In our increasingly humanistic society, most people have lost a sense of destiny. And for those who believe they have a destiny, especially believers, most either have no idea what it is or believe that in God’s sovereignty, He will bring it all to pass in His own time.
This becomes very obvious when I minister on the subject. I’ll give an invitation by asking the question, “How many of you here don’t know for sure what God’s will is for your life?” It’s not unusual to see ninety percent or more of the people stand. I think that’s tragic. It doesn’t have to be that way.

You were created by God, you didn’t evolve. And, you were created with a specific destiny. But before I say more about that, I want to counter an extreme error in the body of Christ today. It’s a way of thinking that prevents people from discovering and fulfilling their destinies.

There are some who believe that God, in His sovereignty, controls everything in life. They believe that whatever He wills comes to pass and that nothing happens unless God wills it. If that is true, then they are attributing every tragedy, birth deformity, heartbreak, divorce, terrorist attack, all hatred, murder, and anything else you can think of to God.

That just isn’t true. Scripture clearly teaches that God has given man the authority to make his own decisions and choices. It isn’t a question of God’s sovereignty; it’s a question of who we rely on when making decisions.

Proverbs 3:5 says,

“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.”

When we begin to trust in and lean on our own understanding and start exalting our own wisdom above the wisdom of God, we open the door to tragedies.

I believe in the sovereignty of God, with its proper meaning. But it’s important to understand that God is not orchestrating our lives like pieces on a chessboard. He has predetermined a very specific plan and purpose for every person’s life. However, you have to make a choice.

Will you seek God’s destiny for your life and then do it, or will you insist upon doing your own thing? Unfortunately, in our self-indulging society, the answer to that question for many has been to do their own thing. That’s the reason I believe so many people have embraced evolution.

Evolution is not fact; it’s simply a theory that conveniently removes all personal responsibility and accountability to a creator.

Although evolution is not the issue for most Christians, they still go through life doing their own thing. Then, when everything falls apart, they come to God asking why He let this happen. God is not the source of their problems, and as much as I like to blame the devil, he isn’t either. It’s their own self-centeredness that leads to the grief we experience.

God made you with a purpose in mind, and you only have one opportunity, one life in which to fulfill it. No matter how talented or how gifted, until you realize you have a destiny and are willing seek God with all your heart to discover it, you will never reach your full potential.

Before you were ever born, before you ever demonstrated any talents or abilities, God created you for a purpose with a destiny. Look at these scriptures.

Jeremiah 1:5 says,



“Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations.”

In Galatians 1:15 we read,



“But when it pleased God, who separated me from my mother’s womb, and called me by his grace.”

Both the Prophet Jeremiah and the Apostle Paul knew that God had a predetermined plan for their lives, where all of their gifts, abilities, and talents would be used.

We also know from Scripture that John the Baptist was filled with the Holy Spirit while he was, what the world would call, a six-month-old fetus. I personally hate that word because it’s an attempt to dehumanize a child. God did not fill a hunk of tissue; He filled a living human being.

Throughout the Scripture are many examples of God’s preordained plans for people, and we know that He is no respecter of persons (Acts 10:34). So what He has done for others, He will and has done for you.

Fulfilling God’s will in your life first begins with the understanding that it’s wisdom to know His will. Next is understanding that you were not created to be self-sufficient but God dependent.

Ephesians 5:17 says,

“Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.”

The Bible says in Jeremiah 10:23,

“O LORD, I know that the way of a man is not in himself: it is not in man that walketh to direct his steps.”

Ephesians 5:17 is a direct command. He would not have commanded it if it were not possible to know. That would be unjust. Some who read this may take offense, but if you don’t know God’s will, you aren’t acting wisely.

God never created you to be independent; He created you to be dependent upon Him. That is why it is not in a person to direct their own life. Let me give you a simple example.

What if you were hired by a company that didn’t have job descriptions for anyone? Can you imagine the chaos and conflict that would occur if the daily activities of all the employees, including yourself, were left up to the discretion of each individual? It would be a mess.

In a way, that is basically what’s happening in society today—people are doing their own thing. Without direction from God, people find themselves unfulfilled, unproductive, and plagued with all kinds of self-inflicted problems.

God has a purpose for your life, He has a destiny for you to fulfill, but Satan wants to kill, steal, and destroy that plan. You get to choose. Will God win in your life, or will it be the devil? If things are going wrong for you, I can guarantee you it’s not God that caused it to happen.

Jeremiah 29:11 says,

“For I know the thoughts I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.”

God’s plans for you are all good, not evil. So, if your life is a mess, it’s because you have not followed His plan. But don’t lose hope if that’s you, because God isn’t mad. His expected end for you hasn’t changed. He is able to plot a course from where you are right now to where He wants you to be.

I don’t care what has happened or how far off-track you are, God can put you back on course. Everything about you was created by God so that you could fulfill the expected end, your destiny. Your gifts, your talents, the way you look, your race, and even where you were born have a role in His plan. You were not an accident. The Bible says God knew you before you were in your mother’s womb.

Once you discover God’s plan for your life, it carries with it a supernatural ability and an anointing that will cause you to flourish. You are no longer working from just your own ability and talent, but you’re operating out of obedience, and that is where the blessing and anointing of God are found.

Prior to discovering God’s purpose for my life and drawing on His ability to fulfill it, I was afraid to speak to a Sunday school class of fifteen people. One of the first times I was asked to preach, I prepared three messages and then preached them all in five minutes. It was pathetic. But once I became dependent on the Lord, He began to minister through me with power, and my ministry began to flourish.

Fulfilling your destiny all begins with knowing God’s plan for your life. But, as long as you can live without knowing His will for your life, you will. I am convinced you can’t find it accidentally; you will need to seek it with all your heart. And when you find it, that’s just the beginning.

That is why I have just completed a new series called How to Fulfill Your Destiny. This series will take you from learning God’s will to fulfilling it and from knowing the general will of God to discerning His specific will for you.

You will also learn that decisions do determine your destiny, so it’s important to make good ones. Bad ones have certainly derailed the destinies of many people. There’s a right way and a wrong way to make decisions. This teaching will help you learn to make them right.

Next to salvation, this should be the most important pursuit of your life. So don’t wait any longer—start seeking God now.




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God gave me a destiny I had long ago thought impossible.
He gave me a loving DH, 2 adorable children, an ability to play the piano, and a gift for computer languages....
my destiny is to be a helpmeet, mother, pianist and technical support for the church...

....and onsite tech support for DH while he's in seminary ;)
 
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I started to respond until I realized it was a cut and paste job. I will not enter into debate with a view I think is error through a third party. Justinstout; if you are prepared to defend the theology behind this cut and paste then put it in your own words.
 
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Justinstout, how can you explain why there are so many calvinist in the world who believe that man does not have his free choice to salvation, but God predestined who He would save and who He would Let parrish, How can we as christians worship two different Gods. Someone is Wrong. Help me out.
 
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Keith Van Horn said:
Justinstout, how can you explain why there are so many calvinist in the world who believe that man does not have his free choice to salvation, but God predestined who He would save and who He would Let parrish, How can we as christians worship two different Gods. Someone is Wrong. Help me out.

Hi Keith,
I honestly don't know why a lot of people believe that God looks into the future and says "I plan for Fred to be damned to hell for all eternity.. oh, but I want Susan to be in heaven with me.. and I choose for Amanda to burn for eternity.. but I want Dennis to get saved." That's a stupid concept that portrays a sadistic freak of a god. I definitely do not serve that god. I love and serve the God of the Bible Who desires that all come to repentence. I would not serve the god that many extreme calvinists present to people. It's no wonder people are rejecting the "Christian" faith by the millions. Who wants to serve a god that "predestines" some of his own creation to be damned for eternity? What a wicked interpretation of Scripture that is.


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justinstout said:
Hi Keith,
I honestly don't know why a lot of people believe that God looks into the future and says "I plan for Fred to be damned to hell for all eternity.. oh, but I want Susan to be in heaven with me.. and I choose for Amanda to burn for eternity.. but I want Dennis to get saved." That's a stupid concept that portrays a sadistic freak of a god. I definitely do not serve that god. I love and serve the God of the Bible Who desires that all come to repentence. I would not serve the god that many extreme calvinists present to people. It's no wonder people are rejecting the "Christian" faith by the millions. Who wants to serve a god that "predestines" some of his own creation to be damned for eternity? What a wicked interpretation of Scripture that is.


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Justin
That too is a misrepresentation of what most Calvinists believe. People go to Hell because they deserve it not because God predestined them to. The truth is that it is a wonder that God saves any. It is God's salvation and He does have the right to give it to whom He will. If He chooses to withold it from some that doesn't mean that He is unjust or capriciuos it only means that He is merciful because He does give it to some. Your misrepresentaion does depict a sadistic freak but that certainly isn't the God of Calvinism. Frankly I am growing very tired of the blatant mischarachterization(sp?) of the God of Calvinism.
 
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mlqurgw said:
That too is a misrepresentation of what most Calvinists believe. People go to Hell because they deserve it not because God predestined them to. The truth is that it is a wonder that God saves any. It is God's salvation and He does have the right to give it to whom He will. If He chooses to withold it from some that doesn't mean that He is unjust or capriciuos it only means that He is merciful because He does give it to some. Your misrepresentaion does depict a sadistic freak but that certainly isn't the God of Calvinism. Frankly I am growing very tired of the blatant mischarachterization(sp?) of the God of Calvinism.

Umm.. I have read quotes from John Calvin where he stated that God predestined some to eternal life and some to be damned to hell. Nothing could be further from the truth. When God predestines something that means it is His absolute will and His desire. If not, then why would He predestine it to happen? There's a huge difference between predestination and foreknowledge. God does not choose and will that some people go to Hell. That's a complete lie. That describes a sadistic freak who is not the true God of this universe. My God does not sit back and say "I plan for Fred to be damned to hell for all eternity.. oh, but I want Susan to be in heaven with me.. and I choose for Amanda to burn for eternity.. but I want Dennis to get saved." That is NOT my Father!
 
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Look at the word predestination as it is used in the Scriptures. It is always in connection to people and salvation never to things. That is a completely different word, foreordination. It is also never in context about people being predestined to damnation. That is simply a false accusation.
 
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mlqurgw said:
Look at the word predestination as it is used in the Scriptures. It is always in connection to people and salvation never to things. That is a completely different word, foreordination. It is also never in context about people being predestined to damnation. That is simply a false accusation.

Either way, God does not "foreordain" or "predestine" people to be damned to rot in hell for eternity. Just because God knows whether or not a human being will reject Jesus Christ does not mean that He willed or desired for that person to reject Him.

Dictionary definition of PREDESTINE:
  1. To fix upon, decide, or decree in advance; foreordain.
God does NOT do this when it comes to a person's salvation.
As I said, there's a huge difference between predestination/foreordainment and foreknowledge.


Dictionary definition of FOREKNOWLEDGE:
  1. knowledge of an event before it occurs
I don't deny God's foreknowledge of a person's salvation.
I guess what it comes down to is that I believe Jesus Christ died not just for my sins but for the sins of the whole world... not just for a few people that God "chose" not to damn!
 
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justinstout said:
Umm.. I have read quotes from John Calvin where he stated that God predestined some to eternal life and some to be damned to hell. Nothing could be further from the truth. When God predestines something that means it is His absolute will and His desire. If not, then why would He predestine it to happen? There's a huge difference between predestination and foreknowledge. God does not choose and will that some people go to Hell. That's a complete lie. That describes a sadistic freak who is not the true God of this universe. My God does not sit back and say "I plan for Fred to be damned to hell for all eternity.. oh, but I want Susan to be in heaven with me.. and I choose for Amanda to burn for eternity.. but I want Dennis to get saved." That is NOT my Father!
I am sure it isn't. You simply cannot equate what is termed Calvinism only by what John Calvin wrote. You make a claim that he says something but do not back it up with quotes in context. I am very aware that you very possibly have read misquotes of him taken out of context from those who wish to discredit him. If what you say is true then give the refence in his works in their context. You have been misinformed( or mislead) into a fallacious understanding of the teachings of Calvinism. Have you ever actually read John Calvin's works or only quotes? I have read a great deal of his writings and do myself disagree with him on many things but I do not base my views of him on something somebody told me about him.

As far as God not chooseing and willing that some go to Hell then why aren't they saved? Is it because God can't save them unless they allow Him to? Does man actually control God?
 
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Since you characterize my God as a sadistic tyrant how about this? The God of Arminianism is a wimp and powerless to do anything without man's permission. He wants what He can't have and desires what he can't bring to pass because man is in control. He wishes and hopes and trys but is constantly thwarted because he just can't have his way as he would like. He wants tosave everybody but can't actually save anybody unless they do something that allows him to. Should I continue?
 
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justinstout said:
Either way, God does not "foreordain" or "predestine" people to be damned to rot in hell for eternity. Just because God knows whether or not a human being will reject Jesus Christ does not mean that He willed or desired for that person to reject Him.

Dictionary definition of PREDESTINE:
  1. To fix upon, decide, or decree in advance; foreordain.
God does NOT do this when it comes to a person's salvation.
As I said, there's a huge difference between predestination/foreordainment and foreknowledge.


Dictionary definition of FOREKNOWLEDGE:
  1. knowledge of an event before it occurs
I don't deny God's foreknowledge of a person's salvation.
I guess what it comes down to is that I believe Jesus Christ died not just for my sins but for the sins of the whole world... not just for a few people that God "chose" not to damn!
So the dictionary decides what the Scriptural definition is? Foreknowledge is used in the Scripture in reference to a special relationship not a knowing before. Adam knew his wife Eve. They had an intimate relationship. Christ knows His sheep, He has an intimate realtionship with them. He didn't know those who come to Him having done many mighty works in His name. Of course He knew all about them but He didn't have an intimate special relationship with them.
 
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As far as God not chooseing and willing that some go to Hell then why aren't they saved? Is it because God can't save them unless they allow Him to? Does man actually control God?

I honestly can't believe that someone would even ask this question. So you believe that just because people aren't saved that it's because God didn't will for them to be saved? Wow. That's what I call circumstance theology. God has already provided salvation for mankind, but God does not override a person's free will just so that He can save them. That cannot be found anywhere in the New Testament. No, man does not "control" God, but man does "control" man. Believing that everything that happens is God's will is such terrible theology. How can anyone look around and see deformed bodies, babies with birth defects, bodies eaten up by cancer, people dying of starvation, people dying and going to hell... and then turn around and say that all of it is God's will for us. I simply cannot bring myself to do that. People are rejecting Christianity by the droves because of this misrepresenation of God. It's actually the reason why Charles Darwin studied for the ministry and then later rejected the Christian faith.. because someone presented their false concepts of God to him. He simply could not serve the god that they had presented to him.


I would rather not discuss this anymore. It's obvious that we both already know what we believe and that isn't going to change. We simply have different interpretations of Scripture and we have totally different views of our heavenly Father.

It was nice discussing this with you.

I love you brother,
Justin


P.S. I never stated that I was "Arminian". I don't see a choice between Calvin and Arminius presented in the Bible. :)
 
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justinstout said:
I honestly can't believe that someone would even ask this question. So you believe that just because people aren't saved that it's because God didn't will for them to be saved? Wow. That's what I call circumstance theology. God has already provided salvation for mankind, but God does not override a person's free will just so that He can save them. That cannot be found anywhere in the New Testament. No, man does not "control" God, but man does "control" man. Believing that everything that happens is God's will is such terrible theology. How can anyone look around and see deformed bodies, babies with birth defects, bodies eaten up by cancer, people dying of starvation, people dying and going to hell... and then turn around and say that all of it is God's will for us. I simply cannot bring myself to do that. People are rejecting Christianity by the droves because of this misrepresenation of God. It's actually the reason why Charles Darwin studied for the ministry and then later rejected the Christian faith.. because someone presented their false concepts of God to him. He simply could not serve the god that they had presented to him.


I would rather not discuss this anymore. It's obvious that we both already know what we believe and that isn't going to change. We simply have different interpretations of Scripture and we have totally different views of our heavenly Father.

It was nice discussing this with you.

I love you brother,
Justin
It is called the consequences of sin. It is fine with me if you do not wish to discuss it any longer. I hold no malice toward you at all.
 
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