Yes or no lord?!

[ProjectMR2]

I fell in love with this girl name April. She and i had a perfect relationship, then things started going bad. I ended up breaking up with her against my will. I prayed over and over about getting back to gether. Finaly 2 months later or never talking we see each other and she calls me. The lord answered my prayer and we got back to gether... now... things are getting bad again and it looks like we may break up for good. I've prayed over and over about our relationship improveing... but things aren't getting any better. If the lord is going to break us up... why did he answer my prayer for getting us back to gether?

right now i am praying over and over to let us work out our problems and stay to gether but its just not looking very good... now, i have nothing but faith in the lord becaues i have done and said all i can do.

 

[the_man]

why did he answer my prayer for getting us back to gether?

Perhaps He did not.

If I were you, I'd pray that I was in the center of His will in this aspect of your life specifically. Then I would wait until His direction is clear.

 

[fluffy_rainbow]

Maybe He got the two of you back together to prove to you it's not meant to be. Maybe you both need to try harder. I'm not sure. I mean, what sort of issues are coming up that makes you feel a permanent split is inevitable?

 

[Wakeup2god]

I personally think that sometimes the writing is on the wall, when folk start falling out and breaking up after a short period it's usually simply means they're not right. When we want something enough we can conjur up our own answers. Is there anyone who you can speak direct to, maybe a pastor or someone who's opinion you respect. The heart is decietfull. Look at the cold hard evidence. Ask her what she really wants from the relationship. Do you have an end goal or are you simply dating? This is a life decision, you have to look beyond your feelings today.

Be blessed.

 

[InTheFlame]

Hmmm... sorry, but I've got to state the obvious. There's no such thing as a perfect relationship, and if things start 'going bad' then it was probably nowhere near perfect right from the beginning. I suspect what you're really meaning is more along the lines of 'the relationship made me feel really great... then it started making me feel less great, then terrible'.

Have you asked God these questions? -

- what can I do to improve this relationship?
- what do I need to learn about relationships?
- who should I talk to about this relationship?
- what am I doing wrong in this relationship?
- why is this relationship going bad?
- do I have subconscious beliefs that are causing some of the problems in this relationship?
- what are my expectations of this relationship?
- am I loving this person the way you want me to?
- what can I do to learn more about relationships?
- what can I do to learn more about myself?
- is this highlighting areas that I need to grow in?