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If she has truly repented and is truly saved.... then yes.... God does not hold her guilty of her sins anymore, but sees her though the blood of Christ which covers her......
Then why should I or any man, mere humans judge such a one and say "No, your unworthy of knowing love because of your past" we when all have sinned in different ways ourselves?
to answer your question more simply: Yes, if He loved her, and wanted to foster that deeper relationship... but it would have to be an honorable relationship with honorable intentions and boundaries clearly set....
would I personally? If She were the one to break me from being single and be worth dating.... yes
I think that sometimes it is easy for us to say yes, because Jesus himself saved prostitutes so in our phycie we can say yes, but in our flesh its like.... uh... you still have reserves. But for all you know this woman could be a God fearing woman who is pure now, spotless, and the man could have the problem with impurity.
That's a tough one. I would love to say yes, but it would be a really hard thing to do when it came to our marriage night. These kind of things don't really hit you until the relationship moves to that level, and then all sorts of nuances come up. Not just with marriage and the honeymoon, but each time you want to do something new, or special and you realise that ground has already been trodden by someone else. I imagine it would be hard not to be jealous or hurt in that kind of situation.
However saying that, sex is great, yet doesn't single-handedly make a great marriage. There is a lot of satisfaction and a great feeling of closeness in becoming involved with someone, and becoming their special person, their trusted friend and love. I imagine where one aspect of a relationship struggles, it can be reinforced in other areas. Maybe with time and patience those old bonds to past one-night partners can be broken, and a new stronger one can be forged between you.
I can't say as I would succeed at the task with any certainty, and I would have to really think hard before giving it a shot and entering that persons life, otherwise I could end up doing more damage.
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