unfortunately I don't check reason at the door, and if you'd actually read my post and not give a sarcastic reply, I mentioned that I don't support abortion. I think its murder. But abortion and contraception are not destroying us, because the average family still has 2 kids. It is terrible and 100% unjustified but we are not aborting ourselves out of existence as someone implied. Those population statistics are very interesting indeed, but regardless of thew question of size, we are not in a society (america i'm referring to) that allows families to have huge numbers of kids. So the options are have lots of kids and suffer the consequences, dont have sex (which is bad seeing as sexuality is a gift from God), or use contraception.
I wasn't being sarcastic. I may have sounded angry, but that's because I find it despicable that anyone tries to divorce procreation from sex, which IS a gift from God. However, as it is a GIFT, it should not be abused, especially by contraception. You imply that it is unthinkable for a couple to abstain from sex. Let me tell you, no one has or will ever die from not having sex. You also imply that having a large amount of children is bad ("
have lots of kids and suffer the consequences"). Sex is a gift from God partly because it produces children, which are also beautiful and precious gifts from God! You are looking at this issue in the earthly perspective. What you must do in order to understand God's will and the Church's teachings is to look at it through the Godly perspective. "
and if you'd actually read my post and not give a sarcastic reply, I mentioned that I don't support abortion." Contraception leads to abortion, as both use the mindset that children are burdens. So, by supporting contraception, you are basically supporting abortion. Both prevent
God-given life. You need to realize that God has a plan, and it is beyond human understanding. Ever heard the phrase "if God brings you to it, He will get you through it?" Likewise, If God gives a couple 9 children, He will give them all the graces they need to support them. Sex involves 3 persons: the husband, the wife, and God. Do not be so foolish as to think that we control life! God does, and if we let Him be in charge, we have nothing to worry about.
"The way to plan the family is Natural Family Planning, not contraception. In destroying the power of giving life, through contraception, a husband or wife is doing something to self. This turns the attention to self and so destroys the gift of love in him or her. In loving, the husband and wife must turn the attention to each other. Once that living love is destroyed by contraception, abortion follows very easily."
- Mother Teresa
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I am supposing, then, although you are not lying [with your wife] for the sake of procreating offspring, you are not for the sake of lust obstructing their procreation by an evil prayer or an evil deed. Those who do this, although they are called husband and wife, are not; nor do they retain any reality of marriage, but with a respectable name cover a shame. Sometimes this lustful cruelty, or cruel lust, comes to this, that they even procure poisons of sterility . . . Assuredly if both husband and wife are like this, they are not married, and if they were like this from the beginning, they come together not joined in matrimony, but in seduction."
- St. Augustine
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No Christian married couple can want to block the well-springs of life. For their love is based on the love of Christ, which entails dedication and sacrifice. . . Moreover, as Tobias reminded Sara, a husband and wife know that 'we are children of saints, and we cannot come together in the way of the gentiles, who do not know God.' "
- St. Josemaria Escriva
God bless you and Pax Christi!
Angela
PS-I recommend
http://pureloveclub.com/chastity/index.php?id=7&entryid=90 to help you better understand the Church's teaching on contraception.