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Work, God's Call, and College, NEED ADVICE!

Kalli

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Does anyone out feel the same way I do about college. Let me take you back.
Newly minted marriage, my husband and I, decided before we were married to both attend a Christian college. We had great GPAs and are very active in our church. We had a scholarship and marriage housing. Sounds great? Wrong! We moved in the summer b/4 classes started, and had everything go wrong. From a faulty washer and dryer, leaking 3 times all over the floor, to problems with the mantience staff not helping, to strict guidelines on what we could not do, to being told we could afford it to having to pay 3,000 a piece for a year! That was 6 grand! We couldn't afford it and that was the last straw, after much tears, and prayer we moved back home, he is continuing his Bachelors online, I tried from the same place but it didn't work out for me (lots of struggle).
So here I am, 22, and trying to pass College Algebra for the 3rd time to get my A.A that I started @ 18! At that time I thought I'd go for my bachelors, Lord knows I've tried since then! However I cannot find anything I'm interested in except I love to write things for the Lord. I would love to be the next Max Lucado or Joyce Meyer, not for the money or fame, but for the way God uses these people and their extraordinary gift. I believe in my heart that I can, however I wonder if college is neccessary. I know in order to write, (can't you tell I love it), you do not need a degree, but I wonder if it would help. I would preferably go back online because of 1) availability, my husband and I are looking at moving in the summer to another state and I do not want to wait for residency to kick in and cannot afford to pay out of state. 2) cost-plain and simple.
I feel very called to do something for God in my life and my devotionals are good, however I think that Lord wants me to go further, what that means I have no idea, but I pray with time and humbleness I can find out!
What do you all think? By the way, I'm unemployed as well, sadly. I have had some good jobs but can't sit behind a desk all day (ironically I can write though, but I devoted that soley to God Almighty). I need something to bring home a paycheck!
Is anyone in the same boat? Feeling weird about college/ what to do with their life and struggling to find a job? Have you been there? If so, let me know what helped you!

Thank you so much. I wanted some Christian people to answer it, because you truly know what it means to be a Child of God.
Blessings!!
 
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I know exactly how you feel. I desperately want to do something music-related but with college nearly over I see my opportunity and time quickly coming to an end. Much like you with writing, I don't care if I'm famous or make a lot of money; I just want to make great music that touches others and pleases God.

It never hurts to have a degree and I'm earning one so at least I can have some type of job, even if it's not what I'm really crazy about. At least you know there are those of us out there who aren't terribly thrilled with college and really want to do something bigger than ourselves.:)
 
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Wow, yeah! I'm happy not to be alone. We are not of this world, maybe that's why college is so unappealing. I'm thinking about going to college online to get a degree in Communication to learn desktop publishing, public relations and to hone my writing skills. I think people can make it without college and I would but I can't do anything with a Transfer A.A! Otherwise I'd stop! God has a purpose and calling for everyone, if you have time read 12 Ordinary Men by John McArthur-great book, puts a lot of things in perspective. Blessings through our struggles!
 
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You seem very spiritual. Wish I had some definitively helpful advice to give. I'm nothing but Captain Obvious here, though: Don't despair, keep at it, live within your means, etc. I have no experience not being able to afford college or struggling in Mathematics -- I'm a Physics/Mathematics doublemajor at MTSU, with upper-middle-class parents and student loans, so we're in different "boats" so to speak.

Perhaps there is a local church that could use your writing skills. Dunno. Godspeed.
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Hey all, I had some great advice given to me this weekend. Although we've probably heard it time and time again-wait. Wait on the Lord for what your supposed to do. Now this doesn't mean to sit idly by but it means to do things that need to be done, do some work on your part, but don't get in God's way. This is still a work in progress for me and pray that all of you all will wait upon the Lord for guidance and direction.
 
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I'm in the same boat, sorta. Got my associate's, had an inspiration crash, had trouble with getting work, the place that did hire me closed, and now I'm wondering what next. Getting a bachelor's degree is on the table, but I don't know what it's going to be in, where it's going to be from, or how I'm going to pay for it. Christian college would offer some benefits, but I'm not sure yet. I'm seeking what to do with my life right now. It's frustrating, I used to have this clear sense of purpose and mission, and I just don't anymore.
 
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Here's what gets me through. The twelve disciples were no scholars, they just had passion. The ark wasn't built in a day, yet saved the human race through one's man's belief. Paul could've just kept on killing, instead he evanglized a whole continent. All these things and more weren't without criticism, and yes, even doubt. We are all humans, we don't understand everything and some things we aren't meant to understand. I don't think rushing our "plans" is the answer. If it the piece doesn't fit, don't get out a hammer, ask Jesus for guidance and He'll make it fit but you have to allow Him, not just want it your way because it might not ever fit the way you do it. "Isa 55:8 For my thoughts are not yourothoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD. "

I still struggle with my purpose, with myself, but I know I'm not my own, I am God's, for I am bought with a price, Jesus Christ.

My hope is filled on nothingless than Jesus' blood and righteousness, I dare not trust the sweetest frame but wholly lean on Jesus name. On Christ the Solid Rock I stand all other ground is sinking sand!

We'll make it, just keep those eyes and hearts on Jesus!
Blessings!
 
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