That could be a case for some. Personally though I like to stay clear of such explanations. As someone in the bdsm community I often hear people say similar things about me. Which isn't true in the slightest. Not everyone who is into an alternative attraction is mentally broken.
The woman previously changed her last name to Liberty because she was seeing the statue of liberty in a love relationship. She has now decided to settle down and has become engaged to a chandelier.
https://nypost.com/2019/07/19/woman-plans-to-marry-91-year-old-chandelier-named-lumiere/
Some quotes:
“I know a lot of people think my attraction to chandeliers is strange, but I’m not crazy.”
People often can’t understand that this is just a natural orientation for me, that I can find the beauty in objects and can sense their energy,” she said. “I’m not hurting anyone by entering into a relationship with them, I am simply just following my heart.
It is equally erroneous to dismiss psychological possibilities or assign BDSM qualities en masse. The behaviors we’re discussing are on the fringe for mainstream and alternative communities. This isn’t the norm for either.
So, are you visiting these 'fetish communities' in a professional capacity or for other reasons? Many of the statements you make are those that would/should come from someone trained in psychology/psychiatry as opposed to opinion or personal experience is why I ask; one carries more weight than the other. If in a professional capacity then I would ask you to provide studies from medical journals that support your position.I'm sure some people in various fetish communities are mentally ill, I just don't think its very beneficial to focus on that aspect. From the fetish communities I visit, most of them are bombarded with such accusations and they find it frustrating.
I will say though, the people who are actually being open about their various attractions and being activists are probably more prone to being mentally unbalanced compared to the rest of their group. To admit to various fetishes in public will often resort with backlash and lost friends and the minds who are willing to go through that fire might be aided with a less than sound mind. Plus, many people in the fetish communities lack proper psychological care. Not that their fetish itself makes them ill, but they're born in a world that generally does not understand them and as a consequence they have little resources to provide them guidance so over time some might develop mental health problems.
So, are you visiting these 'fetish communities' in a professional capacity or for other reasons? Many of the statements you make are those that would/should come from someone trained in psychology/psychiatry as opposed to opinion or personal experience is why I ask; one carries more weight than the other. If in a professional capacity then I would ask you to provide studies from medical journals that support your position.
I'm sure some people in various fetish communities are mentally broken, I just don't think its very beneficial to focus on that aspect.
To admit to various fetishes in public will often resort with backlash and lost friends and the minds who are willing to go through that fire might be aided with a less than sound mind.
I'm not speaking in a professional capacity. I doubt there are studies proving either way for the most part.
If she can hold down a job. Her craziness isn't hurting anyone.
It's always been a standard. Back in the older days. People would think this person is weird. And move on.Is that the new standard?
M-Bob
After telling their kids to stay far away from them of course........It's always been a standard. Back in the older days. People would think this person is weird. And move on.
Of course. I'm not really defending her. I just remember as a kid. There were weird people. I personally seen them crazy, but no worse, than typical adults.After telling their kids to stay far away from them of course........
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