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plainswolf said:While reporting abuse is always the right thing to do
Carrye said:The problem isn't whether or not to report, but the attitude with which the person reports. Is it arrogance smeared on the walls? Or righteous anger?
So many of these liturgy threads miss the big picture, and encourage people in their academic or spiritual pride. It also makes me sad that there are so many Catholics willing to jump on the "why the Church stinks" bandwagon, yet fail to see (or at least discuss) more positive things.
We talk about the media being negative and polemic. We should look in the mirror.
plainswolf said:Actually no attitude at all, but a simple, benign letter stating what took place and continued to take place. The reply was "Stop worrying about the Masons."
plainswolf said:Thankfully in the last decade things became better, and much better under the new bishop we got abit over a year ago.
Carrye said:The problem isn't whether or not to report, but the attitude with which the person reports. Is it arrogance smeared on the walls? Or righteous anger?
So many of these liturgy threads miss the big picture, and encourage people in their academic or spiritual pride. It also makes me sad that there are so many Catholics willing to jump on the "why the Church stinks" bandwagon, yet fail to see (or at least discuss) more positive things.
We talk about the media being negative and polemic. We should look in the mirror.
The Church sure doesn't stink. She's beautiful. But some priests could stand to be reminded of just how beautiful she is.Carrye said:The problem isn't whether or not to report, but the attitude with which the person reports. Is it arrogance smeared on the walls? Or righteous anger?
So many of these liturgy threads miss the big picture, and encourage people in their academic or spiritual pride. It also makes me sad that there are so many Catholics willing to jump on the "why the Church stinks" bandwagon, yet fail to see (or at least discuss) more positive things.
We talk about the media being negative and polemic. We should look in the mirror.
Well I may be interpreting differently, but I haven't seen any clear cases of (1) - or the associated attitudes you listed - in this thread.Carrye said:How do you get anyone to do what you want? One of two ways:
1) Beat them over the head into submission.
2) Non-violent means.
(2) seems more effective. So how does one do that? Pray for a spirit of humility. Write to him. Go talk to him. Love him as a brother. If he does not take your charitable fraternal correction, then humbly approach the bishop.
I'm certainly not suggesting that people should sit back and accept liturgical inventions (where they are truly so, and not simply a result of one's own distaste). I'm suggesting that people not go in with their torches blazing, wearing their "if you only knew how much better I am than you" t-shirt.
Absolutely. If you start raising concern over abuses, you're going to get ostracized by someone and get labeled a trouble-maker, holier-than-thou, etc., no matter how charitably you voice your concerns.plainswolf said:While reporting abuse is always the right thing to do, such as if your parish was reserving the front row for the Masons among other things, be prepared to be treated like a pariah in your own parish, have these very accusations thrown at you and looked upon with scorn by your own priest. In either case, your darned if you do and darned if you don't, either way you'll get the very same things hurled at you.
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I don't understand where this is coming from. I've never seen this type of attitude in the parishes I go to. I haven't talked to a single Catholic in real life that thinks "the Church stinks," regarding liturgical abuses. I have, however, heard my own parish's administrator ridicule people who, in the past, wrote the bishop, describing abuses such as female servers (before they were allowed).Carrye said:The problem isn't whether or not to report, but the attitude with which the person reports. Is it arrogance smeared on the walls? Or righteous anger?
So many of these liturgy threads miss the big picture, and encourage people in their academic or spiritual pride. It also makes me sad that there are so many Catholics willing to jump on the "why the Church stinks" bandwagon, yet fail to see (or at least discuss) more positive things.
We talk about the media being negative and polemic. We should look in the mirror.
*scratches "visit Vatican" off of list of things to do*our pope doesn't have a brigade of prostitutes hanging out at the Vatican
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