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winning the heart
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eatenbylocusts
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For me:
Step 1: He must acknowledge Christ as his saviour or I won't go out with him.
Step 2: I need to hear about how he is active in his church and how he tries to submit to God in all areas of his life, including his finances.
I want someone with a sense of humor, who has similiar views on spending, debt, etc. He has to be responsible and have a decent job.
If there's some chemistry and we start going out on a regular basis then I'd like to hear from him at least once a day. This could be an email, text message or whatever, but this lets me know that he's thinking about me. My bf and I usually communicate in some fashion 2 or 3 times a day and we always talk to each other before we head off to bed.
Step 1: He must acknowledge Christ as his saviour or I won't go out with him.
Step 2: I need to hear about how he is active in his church and how he tries to submit to God in all areas of his life, including his finances.
I want someone with a sense of humor, who has similiar views on spending, debt, etc. He has to be responsible and have a decent job.
If there's some chemistry and we start going out on a regular basis then I'd like to hear from him at least once a day. This could be an email, text message or whatever, but this lets me know that he's thinking about me. My bf and I usually communicate in some fashion 2 or 3 times a day and we always talk to each other before we head off to bed.
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To win my heart you'd have to be my fiance! 
Now for a serious idea or two?
The only thing I can think of that my fiance won my heart by doing was simply NOT GIVING UP. This is not something I recommend tho as it doesn't break your and her heart in the process. His method of doing it was pretty much that he wanted to me to be his, and if he kept trying, he'd have better odds of winning. The fact was, the friendship and his patience won me over, along with someone asking me the day we started going out, "Is the the friend you want for life, or a man you can't live without?" I said the first. I corrected to the second about 2 days later, and confirmed with saying yes to his proposal 2.5 months later..
Ok enough about me... if you are together, love on her. If you aren't get closer to god (actually do that anyway!) and just ask others advice on it (preferably a pastor or spiritual leader). Oh and don't propose as quickly as my fiance did... it messes lives up!
Now for a serious idea or two?The only thing I can think of that my fiance won my heart by doing was simply NOT GIVING UP. This is not something I recommend tho as it doesn't break your and her heart in the process. His method of doing it was pretty much that he wanted to me to be his, and if he kept trying, he'd have better odds of winning. The fact was, the friendship and his patience won me over, along with someone asking me the day we started going out, "Is the the friend you want for life, or a man you can't live without?" I said the first. I corrected to the second about 2 days later, and confirmed with saying yes to his proposal 2.5 months later..
Ok enough about me... if you are together, love on her. If you aren't get closer to god (actually do that anyway!) and just ask others advice on it (preferably a pastor or spiritual leader). Oh and don't propose as quickly as my fiance did... it messes lives up!
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radhead
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First step: Ask her out and treat her like a lady.
Second step: Tell her she's the one you're dreaming of.
Third step: Take her in your arms and never let her go.
Step by step you'll win her love.
- Advice from Eddie Rabbitt
Second step: Tell her she's the one you're dreaming of.
Third step: Take her in your arms and never let her go.
Step by step you'll win her love.
- Advice from Eddie Rabbitt
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Arclight610
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ahhh, how to "wooo" a girl. Always treat her with respect, be very curtious, make her feel like a princess, and just be yourself.
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