Winking?

HeatherJay said:

If it does fall to you to confront her about it, maybe you could do so in a way that won't offend her and cause more trouble than necessary. Maybe say, "Hi there. Could we talk? Look, my hubby is a really shy guy, and I'm sure that your winking and stuff is harmless, but it really makes him feel uncomfortable and he worries about what others might think when you do it. So, like I said, I'm SURE that you don't mean anything by it, but could you please try not to direct that kind of attention at him?" Something like that so she doesn't take your getting involved as a confrontation or that you're accusing her of anything (even though you have your suspicions that it's not harmless). Just play up the fact that your husband is just the old-fashioned, proper sort, and he's not at all comfortable with that kind of interaction with other women.

I don't know...it seems like it might blow up into something major if you confront her and accuse her of flirting...especially if she's well connected within the business, ya know?

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