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Guys what shoul i do, i am going to auto school and my teacher gives us this book in which we write down stuff like code, number of class and for example he tells us to write T12 even though we didn't do that lession that day, that is lying, I feel so guilty but I don't have the courage to tell him that plus it is really expensive and my father already started with payment. What should i do?
 

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If you do not write something down most of the time no one will know or care. If you are asked to explain why you didn't write it down, you can say that you weren't sure what writing it down meant. If it meant that you received a lesson that you actually didn't, you can say so and sort of force the teacher to face it.

You might also tell him that if he wants to write it down, he can. You can't be responsible for his lies only your own.

By the way hell is the destination for those who do not believe in Jesus, not for Christians who occasionally sin.
 
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Driving school, to drive auto/car, code is the number of class and the subject we are learning
As @Tolworth John said, that is not a Heaven/Hell issue; being Saved is.

In America, we have to pass a written test and a driving test to get a driver's license.
If your class gets you to pass whatever tests you have to, your instructor has done his job.
If it does not, he has not.
 
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Could you study it anyway? Asks questions if you have any?

Maybe the school expects the course work to be covered in a particular order but he believes that a different time is better for that particular material to be covered.

No matter encourage you to study and prepare for the career you've selected. "Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters,..." Col 3:23
 
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Guys what shoul i do, i am going to auto school and my teacher gives us this book in which we write down stuff like code, number of class and for example he tells us to write T12 even though we didn't do that lession that day, that is lying, I feel so guilty but I don't have the courage to tell him that plus it is really expensive and my father already started with payment. What should i do?

Why is your question whether or not you'll go to hell? What is it that you've done that prompts the question? You've said you've lied but I don't understand how, exactly, this has happened in writing down T12 instead of the correct day code.

Are you a born-again child of God? Do you know you are? If so, how?

If you are a born-again child of God, why are you afraid of going to hell? Why would you think that after being adopted into God's family, He would kick you right out of it again?

1 John 4:16-19
16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world.
18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
19 We love because he first loved us.
 
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Why is your question whether or not you'll go to hell? What is it that you've done that prompts the question? You've said you've lied but I don't understand how, exactly, this has happened in writing down T12 instead of the correct day code.

Are you a born-again child of God? Do you know you are? If so, how?

If you are a born-again child of God, why are you afraid of going to hell? Why would you think that after being adopted into God's family, He would kick you right out of it again?

1 John 4:16-19
16 So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him.
17 By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world.
18 There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love.
19 We love because he first loved us.
Because I wrote in the book/document information that is a lie
 
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Because I wrote in the book/document information that is a lie
We are not saved by works, but by faith. You fear that if you do a tiny error, you lost your salvation. Which is untrue.

We are not saved by our perfection, we are saved by Jesus' perfection.

I recommend to learn some basics of Christianity to get more peace.
 
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Because I wrote in the book/document information that is a lie

Right. That's important, and this apparent cover-up for the instructor's intentional shortchanging of your education or preparation looks like more than what some people might call a "little white lie."

So, yes, you are caught in a difficult position. Before we can make good suggestions, though, I'd need to know exactly what the facts of the matter amount to.

IS it the case that the instructor is intentionally cheating on the course of study you're paying for and deceiving the government that licenses drivers, if that's what this leads to...OR is it possible that the print materials leave the instructor with some options and he's not really cheating anyone by opting to spend time on one part and less time on some other?

Have there been many lessons and important ones that he's said for you to write off, or are they few and intended for situations other than your group is dealing with, etc.--the kind of check-list on which other forms tell you to write "not applicable?"
 
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Right. That's important, and this apparent cover-up for the instructor's intentional shortchanging of your education or preparation looks like more than what some people might call a "little white lie."

So, yes, you are caught in a difficult position. Before we can make good suggestions, though, I'd need to know exactly what the facts of the matter amount to.

IS it the case that the instructor is intentionally cheating on the course of study you're paying for and deceiving the government that licenses drivers, if that's what this leads to...OR is it possible that the print materials leave the instructor with some options and he's not really cheating anyone by opting to spend time on one part and less time on some other?

Have there been many lessons and important ones that he's said for you to dismiss, or are they few and obviously optional or of little importance to your overall preparation?
Well idk he say for example "write down T12 in your document" (which represents certain lesson) and we end up not doing that lession.
 
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Well idk he say for example "write down T12 in your document" (which represents certain lesson) and we end up not doing that lession.
Yeah. It looks to me that we don't know if he's cutting corners wrongly or if he's been given options and your form asks that no item that's listed be left blank.

And of course we here don't know what that example you gave us dealt with. Was it about how to turn on the headlights...or was it about driving an 18-wheeler semi truck downhill, which the instructor knows is an item meant for a different set of students.
 
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Yeah. It looks to me that we don't know if he's cutting corners wrongly or if he's been given options and your form asks that no item that's listed be left blank.

And of course we here don't know what that example you gave us dealt with. Was it about how to turn on the headlights...or was it about driving an 18-wheeler semi truck downhill, which the instructor knows is an item meant for a different set of students.
Well for example T12 stands for the actions driver takes when he has car on the road, and we wrote that code T12 in the document/book even though we didn't do that lession that day :/
 
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