Why someone's life is so difficult?

[CrystalTurquoise]

Why I had it more difficult than the vast majority of people I know? Why other people had everything from the start- a good home, a loving family- and I had to fight all my life to get scraps? Why not even now that I am old this fight keeps going on?

Why the Lord "selected" me for more pain and more struggle?
When I will finally learn whatever lesson I am supposed to learn?
Where is justice in all of this? What is the reason of this?

If it is to make me wish to die, then it is accomplished. (no I am not going to do anything stupid, I am a mother! I will stand it as I have always had. But I have no joy left in my heart)

 

[Pavel Mosko]

Well I hate to say it but this is a pet topic of mine due to my own life struggles, but here are two things that really helped me personally in recent years.


What is the Meaning of Failure for the Christian? | Reasonable Faith

 

[Basil the Great]

Sadly, there is no real good answer to these questions. We all know people who have suffered more than their fair share in this life. Despite what some here may tell you, only God knows the answers to these questions. Let us hope that you get an extra reward in Heaven for what you have endured in this life.

God bless.

 

[sandman]

Why I had it more difficult than the vast majority of people I know? Why other people had everything from the start- a good home, a loving family- and I had to fight all my life to get scraps? Why not even now that I am old this fight keeps going on?

Why the Lord "selected" me for more pain and more struggle?
When I will finally learn whatever lesson I am supposed to learn?
Where is justice in all of this? What is the reason of this?

If it is to make me wish to die, then it is accomplished.

You don't know what others have been through..... which is not to minimize your challenges.
But in short "the just shall live by believing..." We are where we are because of what we believe in and of ourselves. Changing the attitude and mental picture of ourselves is the beginning of changing your circumstances. Accepting what God truly desires for you which is not death, but is to walk in resurrection perfection and appropriating the abundant life.
You are no good to God dead He wants yo to live life to the fullest He has provided in His Word.

 

[eleos1954]

Why I had it more difficult than the vast majority of people I know? Why other people had everything from the start- a good home, a loving family- and I had to fight all my life to get scraps? Why not even now that I am old this fight keeps going on?

Why the Lord "selected" me for more pain and more struggle?
When I will finally learn whatever lesson I am supposed to learn?
Where is justice in all of this? What is the reason of this?

If it is to make me wish to die, then it is accomplished.

It's not over yet my friend ;o)

Rest in Him .... and focus on the world to come.

God isn't "picking" on anyone and His divine justice will indeed end this worldly mess .. but is yet to come.

endurance and patience

James 5:8
You also, be patient. Establish your hearts, for the coming of the Lord is at hand.

Romans 5:3 ESV / 970 helpful votes
More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance,

There are people in the world that don't even have access to good drinking water ..... perhaps compare yours situation to them .... or others in the third world countries that have it much much worse.

Go read the book of Job

May the Lord show you what you do have .... rather than what you don't and bring you peace.

Hang in there my friend .... a better world IS coming.