Dear paraklettos. Yes, Jesus died that we might live, but Jesus did much more for us, Jesus told us what God really wants from us.
In Matthew 22: 35-40: God is Love and God wants Loving sons and daughters. Jesus told us: " The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all our hearts, with all our souls, and with all our minds. The second is like it: Love our neighbour as we love ourselves. Here is what we have to do:
"Ask and ye shall receive," we ask God for Love and Joy, then thank God,
and share all Love and Joy with our neighbour." ( Matthew 7: 7-10

Our neighbour is all we know and all we meet, friends and not friends. We keep asking God for Love and Joy, then we share all Love and Joy with our
neighbour. God will see our loving efforts, and God will approve and Bless us.
The Bible tells us to: " Repent and to be Born Again." We have to give up all our selfish wishes and wants, and start loving and caring for our neighbour.
Love is very catching, and we will find that soon we are changing into the
sons and daughters, which God wants us to be. Love is a Christian`s strong
weapon, with love we can overcome all angry and loveless behaviour.
We might stumble and forget often, but then we ask God to forgive us, and carry on loving and caring.
God wants our Love freely given, and NO conditions tagged on, Love for God our Heavenly Father, and love for our neighbour AS WE LOVE OURSELVES.
I say this with love, paraklettos. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.