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Why do I feel discouraged? Need Advice?

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The time when I was the most successful was when I was with God completely. For a few years now I am I having a hard time rebuilding a strong relationship with God. I am struggling with self-doubt. I don't know what is wrong. I fluctuate now. It is affecting all areas in my life. I try to feel better but then I get discouraged. I am having trouble putting my faith in God. It is almost does not matter what I do I just can not achieve this. I don't know what is wrong with me. It hard for me to get things done and focus. How do you keep your faith strong? What should I do? Why am I feeling this way? I need good advice. Thanks.
 
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We all go through times of self doubt. We should doubt our selves. It is God who we should trust. In our spiritual walk, we will go through valleys. But, the Lord is always with us. Like in the footprints poem - when we do not see Him, it is because He is carrying us.
By myself, I cannot keep my faith strong.
I have to have other members of the Body.
To be a Christian is not an individual thing, but a corporate matter.
We have to be built up together with other Christians in the Lord.
I call sisters and pray with them or they call me. I go to a sister's prayer meeting during the day once a week if I am not working that day and enjoy the Lord with the sisters. I participate in a home group meeting one evening a week and enjoy the Lord with the families who come to that. I serve with the high school sisters and go to the young people's meeting on many Saturday nights and enjoy the Lord with the young people.
I read the Bible and pray as often as I can or as often as I get around to it and I enjoy the Lord then too. I listen to hymn CDs in my van and enjoy Christ in the hymns.
I pray that you will find a way to enjoy Christ with other people. :prayer:
 
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I am trying but not completely because I don't feel like no matter things will not change.
I been struggling with this for quite sometime.

Satan is always out to make us think that nothing changes even with God. It is a deterrent he uses to keep us away from God. It is a common feeling when we don't put the Lord first in everything and neglect our time with God.

Satan is the father of lies, the author of confusion, while the Lord is the source of wisdom and author and finisher of our faith.

I too have felt the way as you do when I am not spending as much time with God as I should, or not putting Him first. But the Lord is always there waiting, and whenever I turn to Him and am obeying Him, there is much more joy and peace, and I find my mind is the most clear in this.
 
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I am struggling with self-doubt. I don't know what is wrong. I fluctuate now. It is affecting all areas in my life. I try to feel better but then I get discouraged.
Good Bible study will help with this. Whether you agree with it or not, it will let you know what is right and wrong.

I am having trouble putting my faith in God. It is almost does not matter what I do I just can not achieve this. I don't know what is wrong with me.
On this problem, don't look at your faith at all. Look at God's character. He never changes (James 1:17), He is loving (1 John 4:8-10), He never leaves us (Hebrews 13:5b), and that's just for starters. He's also strong enough to handle anything.
 
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Greetings.

Lots of good advice in this post. One thing I have learned as a Christian is that only one thing is really needful in our lives. We are so caught up in the things of this world, the cares of life, our wants, desires, expectations, demands, and problems that we can very quickly lose sight of the one thing that is most important for us to keep our focus on.

When our eyes are fixed on Jesus, we can feel as if we could walk on water. When we take our eyes off Him and fix them on the things of this world, we begin to sink. Many Christians have unbelief in their life that they are not even aware of. After the intial experience of finding Jesus wears off, those areas of unbelief will begin to bubble up. That is not a bad thing, because that is the way the Holy Spirit works in us to santify us.

The problem is that the church today does not teach us how to work thorugh our unbelief. Discipleship is the way to continue on the journey to follow Jesus and work through each barrier of unbelief on this journey, one step at a time, one truth at a time. Go to uncommondisciples.org and go through the two series "Knowing God" and "Follow Me".

The primary problem in the Christian chruch today is that we are often not living the truth we proclaim to believe. For instance, many will say, "of course I trust God". They believe they trust God but they really don't. When you look at the amount of fear, doubt, worry and stress in the life of the average Christian, how can they say they trust God. When fear, doubt, worry and stress are present, faith has flown away. At that instance we have stopped believing that God is able.

Mike

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I'd just like to thank everybody who posted some advice in this thread, because I've been through the same experiences as the thread starter recently, and you guys have helped me a lot! :)

Incidentally, this is my first post, and I'm loving the forum already.
 
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