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Why Believe in Perpetual Virginity?

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If you read Paul in context (Gal 1) he is talking about going up to Jerusalem to be with Peter, in which context he speaks of the other Apostles, the twelve.

James, the Lord's brother, was the bishop in Jerusalem. Makes total sense that he would be there with the twelve.

Why would Matthew refer to Mary as the mother of James and Joseph rather than as the mother of Jesus, if in fact it were Jesus' mother? Especially at Jesus' death?

I'm not sure. But it appears that he may have done this very thing.
 
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James, the Lord's brother, was the bishop in Jerusalem. Makes total sense that he would be there with the twelve.

But now you're begging the question, for James the apostle may well have been a relation of Jesus, a "brother." (link)

I'm not sure. But it appears that he may have done this very thing.

Eisegesis. A strange reading to help support a theory which is in need of support.
 
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But now you're begging the question, for James the apostle may well have been a relation of Jesus, a "brother." (link)

Possibly. Or perhaps you're begging the question by ruling this option out, assuming that Mary was a perpetual virgin.

Eisegesis. A strange reading to help support a theory which is in need of support.

Possibly. Or maybe interpreting the phrase "brother of the Lord" to mean something other than "brother of the Lord" is the true Eisegetical error here.
 
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Possibly. Or perhaps you're begging the question by ruling this option out, assuming that Mary was a perpetual virgin.



Possibly. But so is interpreting the phrase "brother of the Lord" to mean something other than "brother of the Lord".

It is demonstrable beyond doubt that "brother" in the Middle East is not limited to direct siblings. It is true to this day.

To further dissuade your strange reading of Mt 27:56, see Mark 15:40-41, which proves beyond all doubt that it is a different Mary and that Mt 13:55 is not referring to siblings of Jesus. The "other" Mary is commonly thought to be Mary's sister, and her children would be Jesus' cousins.

This is another good source.
 
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It is demonstrable beyond doubt that "brother" in the Middle East is not limited to direct siblings. It is true to this day.

Ok. But "brother" also most usually means "brother". So while it may be possible for this word to refer to someone other than a brother, the best explanation is that it refers to a brother. Unless, of course, one assumes perpetual virginity. But, again, this would be begging the question.


I don't see how this rules Mary the mother of Jesus out.
 
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they teach that load of rubbish to shore up their even worse false teachings of the blasphemy of worshiping her as the abomination call the queen of heaven . they defend it showing their devotion to this despicable idolatry and thus display their disdain for the only begotten son of god casting him off as unimportant by elevating another to the office of mediator .but there is but one " the MAN" Christ Jesus .thus scripture displays that a woman can NEVER hold such an office in ANY form .
 
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There is lots of evidence so long as one admits that when Mary the mother of Jesus appears in the Gospels she is not identified as "Mary, the mother of James and Joseph," (Matthew 27:56) or as "Mary the mother of James the younger and of Joses, and Salo′me, who, when he was in Galilee, followed him, and ministered to him" (Mark 15:40-41). There could hardly be any stranger way to refer to the protagonist's own mother.
 
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Also, James and Joseph the "brothers of Jesus" (Matthew 13:55) are explicitly accounted for as being the sons of another Mary in Matthew 27:56
Why would Matthew refer to his father (the carpenter) and his mother (Mary) and then refer to someone else's children? The plain meaning here is that Matthew is referring to his immediate family members. Anything else is special pleading.
 
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Why would Matthew refer to his father (the carpenter) and his mother (Mary) and then refer to someone else's children? The plain meaning here is that Matthew is referring to his immediate family members. Anything else is special pleading.

If Matthew 27:56 and Mark 15:40-41 did not exist then I think your argument could hold up. But even then, the context is simply locating Jesus as a local, known person. Whether the "brethren" refers to direct family members or not does not change the thrust of the passage. Even if they were more distant relations the purpose of the charge would still be accomplished.
 
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For the sake of argument let us assume that James the Lord's brother is not Jesus' literal brother. Let's also assume that "[Jesus'] brothers" in John 7:5 are not literal brothers. Let's even assume that Mary, the mother of Jesus, had no other children than Jesus.

This still would not be sufficient grounds to conclude that Mary was a perpetual virgin. So why believe that she was?
 
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Why did she have no other children than Jesus? It seems that you have inevitably shifted the burden of proof to yourself, which tends to answer your question.

Here's a question: where did the tradition come from, both in the East and in the West? Why do all the oldest Churches hold to it?
 
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Why did she have no other children than Jesus? It seems that you have inevitably shifted the burden of proof to yourself, which tends to answer your question.

Well, to be clear, I don't believe that she had no other children. But I can think of a few possibilities:
  1. Joseph died early on.
  2. Mary and Joseph never conceived for some reason - perhaps barrenness. This would make Mary similar to Sarai in that regard.
  3. Mary and Joseph had other children that are never mentioned in Scripture.
I just don't see why we need to conclude a strange doctrine like perpetual virginity.

Here's a question: where did the tradition come from, both in the East and in the West? Why do all the oldest Churches hold to it?

I don't know. Why does that matter?
 
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1 & 2 make more sense than 3, given scripture's mild interest in Jesus' relations.

I don't know. Why does that matter?

Because the traditions closest to the event are unanimous.

From this source:


There is substantial theology behind Mary's perpetual virginity, but the parts that would most interest you are exegetical analyses describing Mary as the new Ark of the Covenant. Without digging up any old notes, some of that can be found here. Here is a short snippet:

 
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Roman Christians believe in the perpetual virginity of Mary.
As do the Syrian, Alexandrian, Byzantine and Eastern Orthodox Christians. As did Luther, Zwingli, Bullinger, Latimer, Cranmer, and Wesley (among others).

This is the doctrine that not only was Mary a virgin at the time she conceived Jesus, but that she remained a virgin throughout her life.

Why believe this?
Because it's true.

I understand that the Roman Church teaches this doctrine, and that this reason alone is enough for assenting Catholics to accept it.
Indeed.

But there doesn't seem to be any basis for this belief in Scripture...
Not explicitly, but what's there supports the belief.

...and I don't understand what is gained by believing it.
You don't understand what is gained by conforming one's belief to the truth?

To me it seems rooted in a medieval error that virginity or even celibacy is somehow holier than sex and marriage.
Except that the evidence shows that it's was the universal Christian belief from the beginning of Christianity until the Protestant Reformation.
 
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Um, do you know what is being referred to when I and others say "the Incarnation"?
Yike, I didn't mean incarnate at all. What I meant to say was, was she conceived immaculate?
 
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1 & 2 make more sense than 3, given scripture's mild interest in Jesus' relations.

Agreed. I think it would be strange if Mary and Joseph had other children and they are never mentioned in Scripture. However, I also believe that they did and that these children are mentioned in Scripture.


Well this is really what I'm interested in. What substantial theology hinges on this doctrine?
 
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On this subject, it occurs to me and ask this:

If a Catholic doesn't believe in this teaching, are they still considered a full status Catholic?
 
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I believe that you're right in thinking it such an error.

Sex can be magnificently holy.
 
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[QUOTE="chilehed, post: 70759276, ] Except that the evidence shows that it's was the universal Christian belief from the beginning of Christianity until the Protestant Reformation.[/QUOTE]

What evidence shows from the beginning. The earliest I can find this being mentiined is the 4th century atleast 200+ years after Mary would have been dead. So these theologians would have as much 1st hand knowledge of such a thing as we do today. Through Scripture and Church history.
 
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I don't speak for the RCC, but the ever-virginity of the Theotokos was revealed within the Church from the beginning, by the Power of God, and is still being revealed by the Power of God in the Church even as I type this.
 
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