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Why Believe in Perpetual Virginity?

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Stare decisis.
 
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the principle of stare decisis has always been tempered with a conviction that prior decisions must comport with notions of good reason or they can be overruled
Seems like the ECFs were a pretty reasonable bunch. Lacking new evidence to the contrary, the historical decision is upheld. Got any new evidence?
 
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In the case of widowed woman (Theotokos) it was the responsibility of her biological Son to take her in and provide for her after the death of her husband. Since Jesus was Mary's only biological son, she was to be without a son to take care of her because of Jesus' ministry of being the crucified, resurrected, ascended and glorified Lord. This is why just before Jesus died he gave his mother his beloved disciple John to be her son in His stead. (John 19:26-27) Jesus was The only son born of His mother. But now she has as many sons and daughters as there are brothers and sisters in Christ.

"When Jesus therefore saw his mother, and the disciple standing by, whom he loved, he saith unto his mother, Woman, behold thy son!
Then saith he to the disciple, Behold thy mother! And from that hour that disciple took her unto his own home."
 
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Indeed, Matthew 1 describes the Lord Jesus as Mary's 'firstborn' Son.
I was my mom's firstborn son even for the years I was an only child before my brother came along. To be 'firstborn' does not mean that there has to be a 'secondborn'. Could be an only child. The 'firstborn' argument against Mary having other children SHOULD be seen as deficient. Strangely it comes up again and again by people who think it has validity.
 
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It doesn't matter because it's not written, and it's not written because it doesn't matter.

That sounds like really circular logic. Obviously you believe that computers or smartphones matter, otherwise you would be unable to join this forum. But they are not written about in the Scriptures, so you should say about computers, cell phones, automobiles, polycloth clothes, roads made of asphalt, kitchen appliances, and the plethora of other things that most people take for granted in the 21st century.
 
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I find semantics and linguistics interesting. Do those terms I asked about before mean the same thing?
Depends, I suppose, on the context. Thus my point about getting dirty at work today. Is sex 'dirty'? Is sex sinful? Is it sinful to be dirty or dirty to be sinful?
 
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An interesting article on the topic, from a Catholic perspective, using Scriptural theology. The Sacred Page: A Biblical Basis For Mary's Perpetual Virginity?

In short:
- There are passages in the Book of Numbers which seem they can be interpreted as talking about vows of virginity taken by women.
- It is highly plausible that Mary took such a vow.
- Such a vow would be perpetual rather than temporary.
- It seems highly plausible that Mary's perpetual vow of virginity means she was perpetually a virgin.
 
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What would the purpose of it be? How would sexuality in a proper context defile a person? It doesn't make any sense.
 
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