Why are you Single?

kitcatkzb · Dec 15, 2008

Hello - I'm new here and came across this thread and thought I'd jump in.

I'm single for several reasons:
1. My last relationship failed - I made some stupid mistakes and we just weren't a good fit after 4 years.

2. I think God has something bigger planned for me.

3. I needed to focus on me for a while and learn who I am since I've put my life on hold for guys for way too long.

4. And, I think I needed to find happiness within myself first.

5. I needed to get my life back right with God.

6. God is in control of finding my soulmate...not me anymore.

Looking forward to getting to know everyone on here!

Toodles!

brebre · Dec 15, 2008

Welcome and those reasons are????

That_Guy_Josh · Dec 15, 2008

Skip this box, I'm new to this whole thing and cannot figure out for the life of me how to delete my messup so I just edited this post instead. Thanks.

kitcatkzb · Dec 15, 2008

brebre said:
Welcome and those reasons are????

sorry - somehow it posted before I got my reasons put in...so I edited it. See above. Thanks!

brebre · Dec 15, 2008

Ah I gotcha!!! Wonderful reasons btw!!!

That_Guy_Josh · Dec 15, 2008

Gwendolyn said:
I'd like to stay single for awhile in order to get a better handle on who I am and what my goals are. I don't want to get side tracked, and because I'm all over the place right now, dating would inevitably sidetrack me. I want to make sure that I have a solid plan of action set up for myself - get degree, get job, become financially independent.

(Male Speaking Here) I think this makes you more attractive to the opposite sex anyway. I look for more then a pretty face and a good personality, someone who has their act together is a definite requirement for me. So with that being said, good luck with that!

leothelioness · Dec 15, 2008

I'm single because I think it's just not the right thing for me at the moment. I'm just at a really bad place in life right now and I have some things to sort out before I can start dating, and that alone is probably enough to make me an unattractive prospect.

brebre · Dec 15, 2008

It wouldn't be unattractive, but I believe it could make a man pursue you more than they originally would have been. Just a guess

Tinkerbell33 · Dec 15, 2008

Many, many reasons. Here is a list:

1.) Lack of confidence.
2.) Not finding decent guys.
3.) The only guys who like me are creeps or desperados.Why else would they like me?
4.) The guys I end up liking probably don't like me back.
5.) Not mentally or financially ready for a relationship.
6.) No desire for relationship.
7.) God has other plans for me.
8.) I feel sick at the thought of someone liking me.

Tinkerbell33 · Dec 15, 2008

Niels · Dec 15, 2008

Because I'm not in a relationship.

WileyCoyote · Dec 15, 2008

brebre said:
Why are you Single?

I answered this question on a similar thread and my answer is the same now as it was then.

leothelioness · Dec 15, 2008

brebre said:
It wouldn't be unattractive, but I believe it could make a man pursue you more than they originally would have been. Just a guess

So, it might make a man pursue me even more to know I'm a complete screw up? lol. j/k.

brebre · Dec 15, 2008

Miles said:
Because I'm not in a relationship.

Oh my goodness!!! No way!!!!!

mina · Dec 15, 2008

I guess i haven't met the right one yet. Guys either ignore me , or make fun of me. I haven't met anyone that i was enough for and who truly loved and respected me, except for my ex and he was afraid to commit to me.

E.C. · Dec 15, 2008

brebre said:
I am just curious as to why many people are staying single.

My answer to my own question is that God has not shown me the guy he wants me to be with. I am not looking for a guy, I am trusting God that if there is someone he wants me to be with, that he will show me in due time.

God bless

1) the part of the county I live in has a... terrible selection.
2) I'm too poor to take a girl on a date. (see signature about college bill)
3) I don't have a driver's license.
4) I don't have time.
5) relationships are not exactly a 'high' priority in life right now.
6) there's nothing to do in this part of the county except racing, smoking dope and being extremely promiscuous.
7) I find too much amusement in harassing my friends that are not single!

deliciousBass · Dec 15, 2008

E.C. said:
1) the part of the county I live in has a... terrible selection.
2) I'm too poor to take a girl on a date. (see signature about college bill)
3) I don't have a driver's license.
4) I don't have time.
5) relationships are not exactly a 'high' priority in life right now.
6) there's nothing to do in this part of the county except racing, smoking dope and being extremely promiscuous.
7) I find too much amusement in harassing my friends that are not single!

Hate to break it to you, but $1000 is a drop in the bucket. You could easily finance your entire college education (10s of thousands of dollars) and be in some real debt.

And what part of Washington do you live in? I lived in WA up until 2002... I thought there was plenty to do in Seattle Just not a very travel friendly place. And terrible selection? Hehe yeah, I guess that's true lol. I find there are more attractive women here in VA.

JonMiller · Dec 15, 2008

I owe over 60k in student loans...

JM

brebre · Dec 15, 2008

I'm working my way through College and not paying a cent.

E.C. · Dec 15, 2008

deliciousBass said:
Hate to break it to you, but $1000 is a drop in the bucket. You could easily finance your entire college education (10s of thousands of dollars) and be in some real debt.

And what part of Washington do you live in? I lived in WA up until 2002... I thought there was plenty to do in Seattle Just not a very travel friendly place. And terrible selection? Hehe yeah, I guess that's true lol. I find there are more attractive women here in VA.

I would almost kill to live in Seattle.

In the mean time, stuck in Puyallup.

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