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Who Are You?

What is your worth?

[font=Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,Geneva]Your uniqueness is a gift, a gift from God, and therefore to be treasured.

[font=Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,Geneva]God made people different. [/font][font=Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,Geneva]He loves variety -- just look at nature.

[font=Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,Geneva]It is culture and society that try to force us to conform to a uniform model. That's not God's plan. It's not how he made us to be. People want conformity because they're afraid. That's not a good reason.[/font]

[font=Trebuchet MS,Helvetica,Geneva]Unique means one-of-a-kind, and we're all that. Just look at our faces.[/font]

[/font]Everyday I see people who are hurting not knowing their worth in God, who abuse drugs, trying to find love, self-worth in bad relationships & sexual pleasures, self-harming, depression. Sometimes we let other people tell us what our self-worth is instead of what God says.


You are uniquely created by God and have a purpose that only you can fulfill. Isn't that amazing to think about? A person created an planned by God with a purpose. Paul captured that thought in his letter to the church at Ephesus: "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them" Ephesians 2:10. That verse describes every individual.

For You formed my inward parts...
I will give thanks to You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
Wonderful are Your works,
And my soul knows it very well.
My frame was not hidden from You,
When I was made in secret,
And skillfully wrought in the depths of the earth;
Your eyes have seen my unformed substances;
And in Your book were all written
The days that were ordained for me,
When as yet there was not one of them.
~Psalm 139:13-16


As you wake up each day, remember that God has a plan and purpose for your life! He has revealed His deep love for you in His Son. He wants you to come to Him and let Him care for you.
Resist belittling thoughts or calling yourself names. Mistakes and failures are a part of life. Forgive yourself and talk to yourself as a good friend would.
Realize also that Jesus wants to be your best Friend and that He has forgiven and accepted you and you can never be separated from His love.
Accept compliments without suspecting insincerity. Realize that others can see qualities in you that you may not notice. Know that God loves you as a unique and special person..Don't be envious of anybody else's possessions, opportunities, or positions. Realize that others feel insecure and inadequate in new situations, too. You can do things that others can't.
Doom and gloom needn't be everyday occurrences. Things aren't so serious that they need to drag you down for long. Look for positive aspects and outcomes. See certain things as a challenge. Realize that the Lord promises to be with you, help you and to not ever to forsake you.
God has indeed given you gifts and talents. God can work through you in special ways.Take proper care of yourself spiritually as well as physically. Have a regular Bible time and prayer time everyday.

He loves you!
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NEVER FORGET!!

Lord, your love knows no bounds, no limits, no distinctions. We thank you for your individual love for each of us. Help us to know our self-worth through You. No matter what our outward looks, education, race and color, economic and cultural diversity is Lord, help us to accept our uniqueness and to use how you created us to be as a testament to You and your glory. Amen

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When the world turns us away, the Lord never, ever does. And that He wants to be our best friend. As the world says no to us, than that is when the Lord says yes to us. As He is never, ever an God of no at all!!
 
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I don't know who I am or what use I have on earth. I don't know why I'm here. I don't feel I have any value or worth to contribute to anything. I feel absolutely absurd.

But God loves me. He has a plan for me. I believe that. I have no idea why he does. I marvel that he has the patience to endure someone as ridiculous as me.
 
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Mr.Cheese said:
I don't know who I am or what use I have on earth. I don't know why I'm here. I don't feel I have any value or worth to contribute to anything. I feel absolutely absurd.

But God loves me. He has a plan for me. I believe that. I have no idea why he does. I marvel that he has the patience to endure someone as ridiculous as me.


god always love ya..and will always be there..he'll never leave ya out of his sight...
i'll pray for you and the rest here tonight....god will give ya a job ..or work
to fullfil his plan..so...keep ya head up..haha
 
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koban4max said:
god always love ya..and will always be there..he'll never leave ya out of his sight...
i'll pray for you and the rest here tonight....god will give ya a job ..or work
to fullfil his plan..so...keep ya head up..haha

God loves you all and will always love us. And all of us will rest in Him no matter what occurs.
 
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He loves us even when we're complete morons (like me) who do things, make promises to Him with good intentions then screws up and does something completely different. He has shown me that this week through some of His family. I'm still waiting on a Miracle but I guess it's all in His timing...which can be a tough period to go through.
 
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I never doubt that the Lord God stops loving us, but what if he only blesses us when we are obedient to him?

Is that a whole nother issue on it's own?

I love God with all my heart, but I feel like he won't truly bless me in life unless I show obedience with a genuine heart. Not that he doesn't bless me because I sin, but reading through the Bible, and seeing how God blessed certain people because they had a pure heart, will he bless me with his intentions only if I am obedient.

I go through life comtemplating this, because I know I slip into sin everyday, and wholeheartedly believing that I am stuck, and will never get anywhere with him, because it's the same thing over and over.
 
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silkamilkamonico said:
I never doubt that the Lord God stops loving us, but what if he only blesses us when we are obedient to him?

Is that a whole nother issue on it's own?

I love God with all my heart, but I feel like he won't truly bless me in life unless I show obedience with a genuine heart. Not that he doesn't bless me because I sin, but reading through the Bible, and seeing how God blessed certain people because they had a pure heart, will he bless me with his intentions only if I am obedient.

I go through life comtemplating this, because I know I slip into sin everyday, and wholeheartedly believing that I am stuck, and will never get anywhere with him, because it's the same thing over and over.


I know exactly what you mean. I wonder though...I do stupid things every day and sin but in my heart I am tortured because of it. So does that mean my heart is pretty much in the right place but I am weak and letting the world slip in and make things chaotic? :scratch:
 
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A good & loving parent doesn't stop loving a child when the child does wrong. What the parent does is encourage/nurture/instruct the child how to see their problem, change the problem and learn from their mistakes.

Our loving Heavenly Father is no different. :angel: His word instructs us that, yes we do mess up but he doesn't stop loving us and he encourages us to see what we done wrong, confess it and learn from our mistakes.

God has given each one of us talents and spiritual gifts that are our own "uniqueness" as part of the body of Christ. Those talents and gifts are what shapes us. They're not to hoard or use them selflishly but to work as a team with other believers as the body of Christ. The stinky times in life should also shapes us to what we need to be. God uses certain things to get our attention for our benefit or to help others with similiar problems.
Understanding your personality type, spiritual gifts, talents will help you see your purpose God has for you. :angel:

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Pray without ceasing 1 Thessalonians 5:17
Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee. Psalm 119:11

 
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All of my "righteous acts are like filthy rags"..."By myself I can do nothing"..."because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world."..."I can do all things through Him who strengthens me"...Anything that is good that I do is not me, it is Christ. Anything that I do that is bad is me. Ro 7:17 As it is, it is no longer I myself who do it, but it is sin living in me.

Ro 7:18 I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.

Ro 7:19 For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.

Ro 7:20 Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.

All I have to offer God is my life, in service unto Him. For He can do it without me, and will (if He so chooses). But I want to be the tool that He will use to touch the lives and hearts, to bring more childeren into His Kingdom. For His Honor, and His Glory.
 
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