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Which STD Factory Are You Dating?

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Let's look at the numbers because each represents real children and teens - and adults who still don't get it. All the information below is from the CDC's web site.
CDC - STD Fact Sheet

Chlamydia is the most frequently reported bacterial sexually transmitted infection in the United States. In 2011, 1,412,791 cases of chlamydia were reported to CDC from 50 states and the District of Columbia, but an estimated 2.8 million infections occur annually. A large number of cases are not reported because most people with chlamydia do not have symptoms and do not seek testing. Chlamydia is most common among young people. It is estimated that 1 in 15 sexually active females aged 14-19 years has chlamydia.

People get chlamydia by having sex with someone who has the infection. “Having sex” means anal, vaginal, or oral sex. Chlamydia can still be transmitted even if a man does not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. People who have had chlamydia and have been treated can get infected again if they have sex with an infected person. Chlamydia can also be spread from an infected woman to her baby during childbirth.

Genital herpes infection is common in the United States. Nationwide, 16.2%, or about one out of six, people aged 14 to 49 years have genital HSV-2 infection. Over the past decade, the percentage of persons with genital herpes infection in the United States has remained stable. Transmission from an infected male to his female partner is more likely than from an infected female to her male partner. Because of this, genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately one out of five women aged 14 to 49 years) than in men (about one out of nine men aged 14 to 49 years).

Gonorrhea is a very common infectious disease. CDC estimates that, annually, more than 700,000 people in the United States get new gonorrhea infections and less than half of these infections are reported to CDC. In 2011, 321,849 cases of gonorrhea were reported to CDC. How do people get gonorrhea? People get gonorrhea by having sex with someone who has the disease. “Having sex” means anal, vaginal, or oral sex. Gonorrhea can still be transmitted via fluids even if a man does not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. Gonorrhea can also be spread from an untreated mother to her baby during childbirth. Any sexually active person can be infected with gonorrhea. It is a very common STD. In the United States, the highest reported rates of infection are among sexually active teenagers, young adults, and African Americans.

There were 46,042 new cases of syphilis in 2011, compared to 48,298 estimated new diagnoses of HIV infection and 309,341 cases of gonorrhea in 2010. Of new cases of syphilis, 13,970 cases were of primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis, the earliest and most infectious stages of syphilis. In 2011, 72% of P&S syphilis occurred among men who have sex with men. There were also 360 reports of children with congenital syphilis in 2011.

Syphilis is transmitted from person to person by direct contact with syphilis sores. Sores occur mainly on the external genitals, vagina, anus, or in the rectum. Sores also can occur on the lips and in the mouth. Syphilis can be transmitted during vaginal, anal, or oral sexual contact. Pregnant women with the disease can pass it to their unborn children.

That's just the short list and let's not forget about HIV/AIDS which has an incubation period of up to ten years. STDs like Chlamydia show no signs and that's how it ends up being passed around. It's not uncommon for females or males to have two or three STDs at a time. A teen or adult gets one or two and passes it along. Now, do you think my caption, ''Which STD factory are you dating?'' isn't on point?
Devvy Kidd -- Which STD factory are you dating?
 

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Well,

the good news is that most of the STD's you listed are curable. :p

but seriously, simply only being sexually active with people who have been tested for STDs is another way to go about it. I get tested yearly, and I only get involved with people who are likewise tested and I always use a condom and I only have sex while in monogamous relations so my odds of catching something is fairly low... Yes, not 0, but low enough to where I don't lose any sleep at night...
 
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Now, do you think my caption, ''Which STD factory are you dating?'' isn't on point?

I thinks it rather off as a way of talking about creatures made by God - along the same lines as people going on about heathens etc as if they forget that we are all sinners and its only through God's grace that we've been brought to faith.
 
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Sounds like a load of poop to me. :p

There are worthwhile points to be made, but that is just childish. They even manage to get communism in there.

For one, I am glad that my parents didn't talk to me about sex. It would have been SO awkward. I learnt safe sex from school, and no sex from the church. Worked for me.

If teenagers are going to have sex, then condoms need to be easily available, without embarrassment. Anything else will lead to more STD's and abortions.

An easier way to avoid an STD is to just not have sex until your married. If you both virgins then you both win! My fiance has only had sex one time. Just as I have. No STDs here.

You're not a tiger anymore XD
 
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Thankfully for me I have had a good comprehensive sex education in high school, as a result I get tested twice a year, use a condom properly, and avoid having casual sex with persons I would consider to be at risk.

So far so good, likely (not guaranteed) to remain STD free, and in the meantime enjoying great sex. Can't have asked for a better setup.
 
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An easier way to avoid an STD is to just not have sex until your married. If you both virgins then you both win! My fiance has only had sex one time. Just as I have. No STDs here.

I can't fathom marrying someone who I'm not sexually compatible with. Sex is a huge part of marriage and a big reason why many marriages fail.

Good news is that on average, people will be sexually compatible. So, odds are on your side if you and your significant other are both virgins getting married...

Bad news is, when people AREN'T sexually compatible, boy does it cause problems :(

In fact, I would argue that if you aren't sexually compatible, odds are the marriage is not going to last...
 
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An easier way to avoid an STD is to just not have sex until your married. If you both virgins then you both win! My fiance has only had sex one time. Just as I have. No STDs here.

Marriage is no guarantee or do you not have the stats on infidelity?
 
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Let's look at the numbers because each represents real children and teens - and adults who still don't get it. All the information below is from the CDC's web site.
CDC - STD Fact Sheet

Chlamydia is the most frequently reported bacterial sexually transmitted infection in the United States. In 2011, 1,412,791 cases of chlamydia were reported to CDC from 50 states and the District of Columbia, but an estimated 2.8 million infections occur annually. A large number of cases are not reported because most people with chlamydia do not have symptoms and do not seek testing. Chlamydia is most common among young people. It is estimated that 1 in 15 sexually active females aged 14-19 years has chlamydia.

People get chlamydia by having sex with someone who has the infection. “Having sex” means anal, vaginal, or oral sex. Chlamydia can still be transmitted even if a man does not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. People who have had chlamydia and have been treated can get infected again if they have sex with an infected person. Chlamydia can also be spread from an infected woman to her baby during childbirth.

Genital herpes infection is common in the United States. Nationwide, 16.2%, or about one out of six, people aged 14 to 49 years have genital HSV-2 infection. Over the past decade, the percentage of persons with genital herpes infection in the United States has remained stable. Transmission from an infected male to his female partner is more likely than from an infected female to her male partner. Because of this, genital HSV-2 infection is more common in women (approximately one out of five women aged 14 to 49 years) than in men (about one out of nine men aged 14 to 49 years).

Gonorrhea is a very common infectious disease. CDC estimates that, annually, more than 700,000 people in the United States get new gonorrhea infections and less than half of these infections are reported to CDC. In 2011, 321,849 cases of gonorrhea were reported to CDC. How do people get gonorrhea? People get gonorrhea by having sex with someone who has the disease. “Having sex” means anal, vaginal, or oral sex. Gonorrhea can still be transmitted via fluids even if a man does not [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. Gonorrhea can also be spread from an untreated mother to her baby during childbirth. Any sexually active person can be infected with gonorrhea. It is a very common STD. In the United States, the highest reported rates of infection are among sexually active teenagers, young adults, and African Americans.

There were 46,042 new cases of syphilis in 2011, compared to 48,298 estimated new diagnoses of HIV infection and 309,341 cases of gonorrhea in 2010. Of new cases of syphilis, 13,970 cases were of primary and secondary (P&S) syphilis, the earliest and most infectious stages of syphilis. In 2011, 72% of P&S syphilis occurred among men who have sex with men. There were also 360 reports of children with congenital syphilis in 2011.

Syphilis is transmitted from person to person by direct contact with syphilis sores. Sores occur mainly on the external genitals, vagina, anus, or in the rectum. Sores also can occur on the lips and in the mouth. Syphilis can be transmitted during vaginal, anal, or oral sexual contact. Pregnant women with the disease can pass it to their unborn children.

That's just the short list and let's not forget about HIV/AIDS which has an incubation period of up to ten years. STDs like Chlamydia show no signs and that's how it ends up being passed around. It's not uncommon for females or males to have two or three STDs at a time. A teen or adult gets one or two and passes it along. Now, do you think my caption, ''Which STD factory are you dating?'' isn't on point?
Devvy Kidd -- Which STD factory are you dating?
Well, one could be like Billy Idol "Dancing With Myself', won't have to worry about VD and STD's then! ^_^^_^ P.S. Anyone remember that old commercial "VD is for Everybody" from 1970's era? Back then, differernt sexually transmitted diseases were generically called VD (venereal disease), not STD. "Everyone can share VD....".
 
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I can't fathom marrying someone who I'm not sexually compatible with. Sex is a huge part of marriage and a big reason why many marriages fail.

Good news is that on average, people will be sexually compatible. So, odds are on your side if you and your significant other are both virgins getting married...

Bad news is, when people AREN'T sexually compatible, boy does it cause problems :(

In fact, I would argue that if you aren't sexually compatible, odds are the marriage is not going to last...

Sounds like you've gotten caught up in the worship of sex. When you're not bogged down by Hollywood sexuality you can see things as they are: if the round peg goes into the round hole then it's a fit. Did you ever stop to think that if you're both virgins on the wedding night that you're both a blank slate and can develop your sexuality together...thus making you a perfect fit? The more people you fornicate with the less compatible you'll be with any given person because every person is the product of their own experiences. When you and your wife have 100% the same experiences then voila!

A truism is that being sexually involved is like slapping a piece of tape on your arm. The first time it sticks nice and well. When you rip it off it really hurts. Next person it doesn't have as much stick, and doesn't hurt quite as much when it's ripped off.

The mind is such that when you marry you shall compare your wife to other women in bed, even as it's happening. Because of the way the brain works it's inevitable. I wonder how she would feel if she could see your mind when that happens.
 
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I think it's affectionate. :p

"Oh come here, you STD factory, you." ;)

Its like the comment about the wonderfully named perfume called 'Tramp' - giving it either tells the woman you love that she reminds you of a smelly vagrant or that she is a prostitute!
 
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Its like the comment about the wonderfully named perfume called 'Tramp' - giving it either tells the woman you love that she reminds you of a smelly vagrant or that she is a prostitute!

What woman didn't grow up hoping to be a tramp or prostitute? :D
 
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