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I am a former mod, and I cared.

Because I cared about the human beings behind the avatars and screen names, I was forced into a pretty epic moral quandry which I'm not allowed to talk about publicly.

So I resigned.

Couldn't tell ya where everyone else is, but I do know that Sacredsin and Morningstar care...they just can't take action until they're done training.
 
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I suppose i will be one of the first to be afected by the reports...

Well, i will say it now... i call them like i see them.

It has never been my intention to insult anyone, but sometimes I get too confrontational when discusing (usually when I'm angry). Its also a little hard to belive for me the level of disconection from the world that some poeple show in this forums.

I am willing to listen, and i like to talk, only i hate it when people answer me with prerecorded messages, ideas so prefabricated and so contrary to my own it just gets me into fight mode.

What im saying is... I will not moderate my language, I use hard words because i often feel ofended by the ideas presented in this forum, but i will try to get the fighting mood as controled as posible.
 
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randomman, I know what post you refering to but in my opinion your post (here) actually began the roller coaster process by upsetting everyone, so if you wonder why people may be a little out of line maybe you should also consider what you say next time, if the other guy should be punished soo should you be for your post.
 
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can we get some control over the increasing insults and bigotry
I am telling you if it was muslims launching attacks and insult no one woud need to report, you would get the mods in action straight away,like robots. I got warning emails and bans and deleted posts for far less than those insults launched at muslims on here, You write something targetted at a christian and you get warned for flaming, a christian insults you as much as he wishes and you keep on reprimanding him the mods see nothing.Shows you the double standards
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randomman, I know what post you refering to but in my opinion your post (here) actually began the roller coaster process by upsetting everyone, so if you wonder why people may be a little out of line maybe you should also consider what you say next time, if the other guy should be punished soo should you be for your post.
Yeah a muslim should consider what he says, but not a christian he can launch post after post of attacks and not consider what he says.
 
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how was posting a bishop's will asking for peace between muslims and christians (among other things) launching 'post after post' of attacks?

you can't just carry grudges over from other conversations and ruin different threads because you are angry... this is what perpetuates the negative atmosphere here, nobody can just let things slide.
 
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how was posting a bishop's will asking for peace between muslims and christians (among other things) launching 'post after post' of attacks?

you can't just carry grudges over from other conversations and ruin different threads because you are angry... this is what perpetuates the negative atmosphere here, nobody can just let things slide.
I wasn't refering to him and that post.There are some on here who get away with a lot because they are christian
 
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I wasn't refering to him and that post.There are some on here who get away with a lot because they are christian

........Yeah a muslim should consider what he says, but not a christian he can launch post after post of attacks and not consider what he says.
Salam. I have been reported many more times by fellow Christians than from non-Christians.
Shake hands with my Bro here :D

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I am a former mod, and I cared.

Because I cared about the human beings behind the avatars and screen names, I was forced into a pretty epic moral quandry which I'm not allowed to talk about publicly.

So I resigned.

Couldn't tell ya where everyone else is, but I do know that Sacredsin and Morningstar care...they just can't take action until they're done training.
Greetings HoD. As far as I can see, you have always been, not only caring, but also compassionate and full of wisdom and wit.
I for one am glad to have you here!!! :hug:
 
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You write something targetted at a christian and you get warned for flaming, a christian insults you as much as he wishes and you keep on reprimanding him the mods see nothing.Shows you the double standards
Peace
yaqovzadeek
aka James the just

Works the same way with Jews too. Things can be said
about us, but no actions taken.
But I am not complaining. This is after all a Christian forum,
even if this is the NCR section, and they have a right to
dictate the rules and regs regarding what we say about
their faith. We also have the responsibility to be sensitive
to their beliefs. There are plenty of other forums a person
can go to if they wish to express their displease with
Christians or Christianity. Here we need to be respectful.
 
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Works the same way with Jews too. Things can be said
about us, but no actions taken.
But I am not complaining. This is after all a Christian forum,
even if this is the NCR section, and they have a right to
dictate the rules and regs regarding what we say about
their faith. We also have the responsibility to be sensitive
to their beliefs. There are plenty of other forums a person
can go to if they wish to express their displease with
Christians or Christianity. Here we need to be respectful.

This seems to be the case with non-Christians. I've been reported several times for the silliest reasons. I can understand for things like breaking a couple of rules. But I was reported because I 'supposedly' attacked someone 's beliefs. :confused: Just because this is a Christian forum, that does not mean Christians have monopoly over it. It's not just here that non-Christians need to be respectful.

Yeah a muslim should consider what he says, but not a christian he can launch post after post of attacks and not consider what he says.
Yeah, like ChavaK said it's like with this generally with non-Christian. I've gotten to the point now where it doesn't seem to matter if I consider the things I say, because it's going to come off as offensive either way.
 
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I've been reported several times for the silliest reasons. I can understand for things like breaking a couple of rules. But I was reported because I 'supposedly' attacked someone 's beliefs.

I have a few posts reported-who hasn't, LOL- that when
you read the post, and the reason it was reported, there
was absolutely no connection at all. Like they had
reported the wrong post or something. I guess some
people just like to cause problems or are hypersensitive.


Just because this is a Christian forum, that does not mean Christians have monopoly over it.
Here I disagree- their house, their rules.

It's not just here that non-Christians need to be respectful.
Yes; everyone should be respectful of each other. But I
believe we as non-Christians, being in their house, should
be extra respectful. You don't insult your host, unless you
want to get thrown out of the house :)



 
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Be careful of trying to protect non-Christians. It has been my experience that this is one of the things most likely to tick off at least some of the mods. And dont insult a mod even if they are acting in sinful manner.
 
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