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When will the pain end?

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Hi Somescarsneverheal,
My heart goes out to you. I too know the pain of losing a baby. I lost my baby this past July.
I don't know that the pain ever goes away, but it does lessen. It takes time to process and mourn the loss, for some it is easier than others.
I still get sad when I think of the little life my body rejected, but I know that Jesus is looking after my baby and caring for it until the day when we are united in heaven to meet for the first time.
(((hugs))) to you.
 
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I'm so sorry you lost your child. I, too, lost a child a long time ago. It was horribly painful as I'm sure you are suffering this way now, too. The pain does lessen with time. I am praying for your healing dear one.
 
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The pain lessens in severity but it never goes away totally. I don't think I would ever want it to go away. I don't think about the baby we lost everyday anymore, but I do remember them often. It doesn't sting like it used to, but it is still bitter. hugs to you
 
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i don't think it ever goes away, i just think it gets easier to deal with it.

I had a miscarriage as well. i posted about it a few night ago. For me a guy named Daniel keeps coming to me through dreams or when i am out somewhere.He is always holding a baby.the other day he said it was mine and my fiances baby.

it's a girl and she is beautiful,looks just like her mama and daddy! it makes me want another little girl so much.

I think it's easier for me to cope with just for the fact that i get to see my baby.
 
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Will the pain of a miscarrige ever go away???????????????

Hi friend.. Through time, ur local hospital find support groups for miscarriage and miscarriage depression. Ask ur family dr. For med.s for ur condition. Talking to ur hubby about ur situation helps also. Crying..
Asking ur hubby lets get away for s while. Change of scenery helps.
Get ur mind off it. Get u and hubby doing stuff.. Beach,... A lot if hugs snd bonding :-(. Hi and plezd to meet u.
My heart goes out to u both.

Would u like some..

Also who would like some also..
 
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