I usually pack, or start packing my bags around the 6 months marker, as I have had a couple of unplanned hospital stays, and it is frustrating giving DH lists of things that I want, for them to be either forgotten, or the wrong things brought up.
This is my list that I take. As I have private hospital cover I usually stay around 5 days, so I take, 3-4 feeding nighties, a couple of comfy outifts that I can feed from for the daytimes. Disposable undies, lots of maternity pads, breast feeding pads, breast creams, 4-5 feeding bras, personal care items usually new and packed waiting, so I don't have a last minute race around collecting them, something special to pamper myself with, pain killers, (I get LOTS of afterbirth pains, and the nursing staff dole them out only under duress), a bag of prunes, (which I eat to help with the first motion), bible, hand sewing, thankyou cards etc. As the hospital covers all the things needed by the baby, I only have to worry about clothes to go home in.
I'm sure there are few extra things that I will think of, but these are the main items that are a must for me. As I have only 4 weeks to go, my bags are well and truely packed and ready to go.
Tracey