1 Corinthians 13:8-13 said:Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part; but when the perfect comes, the partial will be done away. When I was a child, I used to speak like a child, think like a child, reason like a child; when I became a man, I did away with childish things. For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face; now I know in part, but then I will know fully just as I also have been fully known. But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but the greatest of these is love.
What is "the perfect"
Lets take this passage in context. What is the context... the context goes way back to chapter 12:1 which says "Now concerning spiritual gifts..." The context is about spiritual gifts.
Paul opens this passage listing off the spiritual gifts then he uses an analogy of the function of spiritual gifts with body parts and saying we are all one body made up of different parts. In verses 15 and 16 he uses examples of body parts of the foot, hand, ear and eye. He does not include all body parts but it is not need to make his message clear. These are just examples of how spiritual gifts can be thought of as different body parts but one body.
Paul continues in the same context and now pulls in his analogy to spiritual gifts saying not all of the same spiritual gifts but we all work together as one body. While making this connection he again begins to list up a bunch of spiritual gifts saying things like "All are not apostles, are they?" or "All are not prophets, are they?" He does not exhaustively list out all spiritual gifts that he previously mentions but similar to his "body parts" analogy his message is clear. His exemption of some spiritual gifts is not to assume these gifts are also exempted from this general message and if you think that then you have missed the point. The message is that all spiritual gifts act in a similar manner and demonstrate different parts in the body of Christ.
1 Corinthians 13:1-3 said:If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. And if I give all my possessions to feed the poor, and if I surrender my body to be burned, but do not have love, it profits me nothing.
Now Chapter 13 starts and this is the famous love chapter. Remember this is still in the same context as chapter 12. Paul goes on to say that without love spiritual gifts are meaningless and he uses a few examples in style as chapter 12 but not the exhaustive list of spiritual gifts. His examples are tongues, prophecy as spiritual gifts and he also uses faith. Now the intention of Paul is not to say that love only works on these examples but his intention is to include all spiritual gifts and it is not just limited to tongues or prophecy. Paul is saying that all spiritual gifts need to be demonstrated with love.
Now we get into the quote scripture at the beginning in verses 8-13. Again Paul uses some examples of spiritual gifts but in the same context and same spirit as his other examples he does not exhaustively list them off. His point is to say the spiritual gifts have their limits and when we are made complete and perfect we will no longer need these spiritual gifts. This is just not limited to tongues, prophecy or knowledge Paul is talking about all spiritual gifts and that what the context is addressing.
If Paul intended to mean that certain gifts would be no longer available then I think he would have been a little more clear. Paul was not in the habit of writing in code but at the same time he wasn't writing to children. We have to give the context he was writing to a little bit of credit but we can't just add layers of meaning to it turning the meaning into something that just is not clear.
What is the perfect... well it may be a matter of dispute but what I do know is the perfect has not come yet. We do not see God "face to face" so until that happens all spiritual gifts are in full operation. Why then don't we see them? Well it I suppose that depends on who you talk to. When we box God into a set of rules we limit how he can work. He still works but we remove the freedom the spirit has when we try and control how he is suppose to work explaining away simple text likes these that is just showing love is needed in spiritual gifts and trying to discredit them because of a tradition that we have grown up with. Read the text for what it is and it naturally says that all gifts require love, they are limited, and all will be done away with when perfection comes.