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What was the sin of Onan?

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Levirate marriage is when the brother of a deceased man is obliged to marry his brother's widow. It was practiced in the Ancient Near East, Asia, India, etc.

In God's mind, the Messiah was supposed to come from Judah. Genesis 38:

That was Onan's levirate duty. Jesus could have been a descendant of Onan, but Onan did not cooperate. He missed his big chance to be in the lineage of the Messiah.

9 But Onan knew that the offspring would not be his. So whenever he went in to his brother’s wife he would waste the sperm on the ground, so as not to give offspring to his brother.
That wasn't masturbation but coitus interruptus.

10 And what he did was wicked in the sight of the LORD, and he put him to death also.
The Lord put Onan to death because he refused to impregnate his dead brother's wife.

What was the sin of Onan?

It wasn't masturbation. It wasn't the practice of coitus interruptus. Specifically, Onan sinned for refusing his levirate duty.

See also Why did God punish Cain and Onan so differently?.
 
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Whew, this is a little heavy bro.

So, Onan was not messing with his sword (a roundabout way of saying "jerking off"), he refused to impregnate his dead brother's wife? Onan should have followed through.
 
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Whew, this is a little heavy bro.

So, Onan was not messing with his sword (a roundabout way of saying "jerking off"), he refused to impregnate his dead brother's wife? Onan should have followed through.
Yes, I think the story was hijacked by those who wanted to make it about masturbation. But it is clearly instead about refusing to continue the lineage of his brother.

KT
 
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Yes, I think the story was hijacked by those who wanted to make it about masturbation. But it is clearly instead about refusing to continue the lineage of his brother.

KT
I agree with you, even though jerking off is still a form of lust.
 
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Yes, I think the story was hijacked by those who wanted to make it about masturbation. But it is clearly instead about refusing to continue the lineage of his brother.

KT


I agree, I also see Gods restorative hand in the the customs of their world. The dignity of Tamar, she was to bear children, which for her and their way of life, brought value to her person. Instead Onan relegated her only to an object of pleasure. God is interested in the dignity and value of all humanity.
 
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