i had a big fallng out with my best friend two months ago because of alot of reasons but the main one was because i went to talk to someone becuase i was finding life hard and needed someone to talk to. my friend got upset that i couldnt come to her and also because i didnt take her with me but took someone else with me who i wasnt really close to. we havent spoken for two minths now i have spoken to her over emails and we decided to talk at school but we coudnt be close ever again but the problem is she doenst talk to me and i really miss her as a frined what should i do?
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what should i do?
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First I think you should make it clear to yourself why you didn't go talk to her and why you didn't take her with you. Once you're honest to yourself, you need to be honest with her. Then I'd apologize to her for any harm caused, whether it was intended or not on your part. If she can't accept your apology, I suppose there's only so much you can do. Friendship needs work from all parties to work.
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AndreayCard4
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I have experienced the same thing. The best thing to do is pray to God. He will give you the strength and the courage to talk to your friend! But make sure you do it in person! Avoid phones and emails, as using them could make it worse and things can be taken wrong!
You are in my prayers
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I agree that you should pray to God for help with this. Ask God to soften her heart and forgive you, not that you did anything wrong. Proverbs says: A gift given in secret soothes anger, and a bribe concealed in the cloak pacifies great wrath.
Maybe send her a gift?
Take care, Tapero
Maybe send her a gift?
Take care, Tapero
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clycleader
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Good luck. I'll pray too.
Maybe in time, things will become clearer for both of you. Maybe the friend misses you too?
Maybe in time, things will become clearer for both of you. Maybe the friend misses you too?
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