What should I do?

[Chloe Williams]

Ok, well I think that this lady that I work with may be bulemic (sp?). I mean she is real thin (but she is also only 5'0'') and my grandpa (my boss lol) said he noticed she spends alot of time in the bathroom, especially after we eat lunch. Then last week she got sick and had to go to the hospital and the doctor said she had an inflamed esaphagus (sp?) that could be cause from vomiting. So what I want to know is: Should I say something to her? I haven't known her that long, so I don't know if she would get offended if I mentioned it.
Any advice (and prayers) would be greatly appreciated.

 

[madison1101]

I would lovingly speak with her and just tell her you were concerned about her. If you know of any resources for bulimics you could share them with her. If you are also eating disordered, you could confide that to her as well. Let her know she is not alone and that God cares about her as well. If you are not comfortable doing that, you could maybe just give her a card with a little note in it.

It is thoughtful of you to care for her this way.

 

[luv4godremains]

I'll be praying, and I think that madison's advise was spot on, you cn't bug her about it, but if you show her your concerned and worried, that you care in little ways like that, then she may know that if she needs to talk to someone, you are there for her, and that yuo care!