What should I do

[Crain]

Well I'm seeing someone that I hope god has given me. She's the pastor's only daughter and I like her alot. However, last week I went to go tell her parents that we are seeing each other(a month after we got together, she would not tell them) and I had to sit down and talk to the pastor about this. Well his main objective was to make sure we do things right. Which I am ok with... however he talk to daughter about it and she got loud with him and somehow provoke him to anger when he was just sitting down talking to her in front of people. And she got loud, somehow disrespected him and according to her he slap her. Then a few days ago, she left a text message on the phone saying that I should not stop giving my brother in law my cell phone to use because theirs is shut off(tuff times). Well I did not get the message first, my brother in law did because he had the phone at the time. And somehow it offended him and now she is barred from my house(I live with my sister and him, they're married).
Now its down to saying sorry and she will not do it. I really wonder what is the right thing to do? I want to do the right thing and she does to. But she will not say sorry to them and end this. I need help on what to do. Plus when I do talk to her she keeps me out on alot of things. I want to her to be accepted around my house but now she's saying she do not even care if that happens. I'm lost and hurt the sametime... I need some advice. And jus remember this is the pastor's daughter.

 

[Glorianna]

Sorry, I only have one word of advice for you and it's probably not what you're looking for but it's the best thing to do in any situation. PRAY.

 

[TJMan2050]

Amen Glorianna, I got a little lost in yours (Crain's) deal there, but like Glorianna said, you just got to pray! God will show you and hopefully her and whoever else is involved as long as they are after God's will what is right, and I pray it will all work out. God bless...

 

[hugnluvable]

Hi Crain.... yeah it'd be good to PRAY!

You kinda emphasized the fact to me that she is the "pastor's daughter". Pastor's daughter or not, you have feelings for her and she has feelings for you. Pastor's daughter or not, she has a father who wants to protect her and doesnt want her to get burnt.

Pastor or not... he's a HUMAN BEING! Pastor's daughter or not... she's a HUMAN BEING! And God knows that we are so not perfect.... yet! Sometimes we dont like being in the wrong when we may have made a little bit of a mistake and sometimes saying sorry can be the hardest thing to ever say.

I'd talk to your brother in law about it all... tell him how you feel and explain the reason for the text message. If he and your sister can see how its frustrating you they should understand the situation tad better.....

Love, hugs and prayers
Erica
xxx