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What should I do about him?

Countryangel707

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Ok so me and my now ex-boyfriend dated for 4 years. I broke up with him because he was a bit harsh and wanted sex. We didn't get to see each other much and I know that was hard on the relationship. I wasn't allowed to date until I graduated high school and my parents did not like him or his family at all and forbid me to see him. I knew I would soon be graduating High school this past June and I was scared of my parents finding out everything and told him it was over. So I went behind their back to see him. I asked him the other day if we had sex if he would want to get back together and he said yes. I didn't respond until the next morning basically telling him I would be praying for him and that he should really wait till marriage and that I wanted a relationship based on God not sex. I told God that I was all His now and that I didn't need a man to fall in love with and that I wanted to fall in love with Him(Jesus). So should I completely leave him? Stop being friends and everything? Where I am going to college he lived 5 minutes from so we will see each other more. I have been trying to talk to him about God and salvation and he said he don't know if he believes the Gospel or not. He like myself grew up in a Christian home, but his family quit going to church about a year ago according to him. I do still have feelings for him and care about him but I don't know what to do . I know that some people you can't change and I just pray for him.