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Ive been reaching out or trying to with a kid from work..that thread is the story and theres latest post of why im worried,ive screwed i up cuz of my mental state..
I'm about to call it quits. Last few days been very stressful with him,i think i've ruined the whle thing and its too late. I am a very worried paranoid person ok. On Friday i sent him a few txts telling him and asking him about why somtimes he tells little double stories and that i wish hed be honest with me about even little stuff. Cuz he was telling me different things on phone and text wasnt makin sense so i sent him txts on that friday night,and didnt get response,well saturday i just kinda gave him the silent treatment and avoided him,because it was kinda awkward and i was kinda ticked. But i txted him after he got off work and asked him what was up. He said he just bought a new phone charger and his phone died the previous day,friday. Guess tht was kinda his way of telling me thats why he didnt answer those texts i guess,so i felt bad for ignoring and avoiding him at work. So then we exchanged a few more texts bout the phone charger. Then yesterday from 4pm-10pm i sent about 6 kinda random texts about xbox,but he didnt answer. This morning i sent 3 txts asking him if he worked 11am3pm cuz i was going to walmart so id be able to give him lift. no answer. When i went to walmart he ws on his break sitting down and so i said hey and sat with him and talked few mins about random stuff,though he seemed in kinda weird mood. Then i did some shopping and went through his line and he was in a very good chipper happy mood with everyone and stuff. Surprised me. After work he told me he was gonna drive his dads possibly. So i sent a txt kinda joking and said not to wreck it joking around. then i sent txt asking if he ended up driving it,no answer. Then i sent him txt telling him i just bought game at xbox,no answer,and finally sent him txt askin him if he was getting my texs. SEE! I Am a paranoid freak,i dont have the mentality to help this kid. Because i sit here and he hasnt answered txts snce ysterday afternoon when i know he has his phone,and the longer he goes without answering,the more i wanna txt and find out whats going on. Im worried ive pushed him away or that hes upset at me for some reason or avoiding/ignoring me. I mean we;ve had pretty long texting sessions before but just today for some reason he wont, and i sa w him at wamart on his phone,then called someone after work AFTER i sent him txt askin bout drivin van. He just SUCKS at texting and getting back to people as it is,and when he doesnt text all day,ugh. I dont know what kinda prsonality i have,but..and its hard to take break from him even if i take break from txting cuz i work with him,like 5 days week.
Ive been reaching out or trying to with a kid from work..that thread is the story and theres latest post of why im worried,ive screwed i up cuz of my mental state..
I'm about to call it quits. Last few days been very stressful with him,i think i've ruined the whle thing and its too late. I am a very worried paranoid person ok. On Friday i sent him a few txts telling him and asking him about why somtimes he tells little double stories and that i wish hed be honest with me about even little stuff. Cuz he was telling me different things on phone and text wasnt makin sense so i sent him txts on that friday night,and didnt get response,well saturday i just kinda gave him the silent treatment and avoided him,because it was kinda awkward and i was kinda ticked. But i txted him after he got off work and asked him what was up. He said he just bought a new phone charger and his phone died the previous day,friday. Guess tht was kinda his way of telling me thats why he didnt answer those texts i guess,so i felt bad for ignoring and avoiding him at work. So then we exchanged a few more texts bout the phone charger. Then yesterday from 4pm-10pm i sent about 6 kinda random texts about xbox,but he didnt answer. This morning i sent 3 txts asking him if he worked 11am3pm cuz i was going to walmart so id be able to give him lift. no answer. When i went to walmart he ws on his break sitting down and so i said hey and sat with him and talked few mins about random stuff,though he seemed in kinda weird mood. Then i did some shopping and went through his line and he was in a very good chipper happy mood with everyone and stuff. Surprised me. After work he told me he was gonna drive his dads possibly. So i sent a txt kinda joking and said not to wreck it joking around. then i sent txt asking if he ended up driving it,no answer. Then i sent him txt telling him i just bought game at xbox,no answer,and finally sent him txt askin him if he was getting my texs. SEE! I Am a paranoid freak,i dont have the mentality to help this kid. Because i sit here and he hasnt answered txts snce ysterday afternoon when i know he has his phone,and the longer he goes without answering,the more i wanna txt and find out whats going on. Im worried ive pushed him away or that hes upset at me for some reason or avoiding/ignoring me. I mean we;ve had pretty long texting sessions before but just today for some reason he wont, and i sa w him at wamart on his phone,then called someone after work AFTER i sent him txt askin bout drivin van. He just SUCKS at texting and getting back to people as it is,and when he doesnt text all day,ugh. I dont know what kinda prsonality i have,but..and its hard to take break from him even if i take break from txting cuz i work with him,like 5 days week.
