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What is L.O.V.E.? (Matthew 22:36-40)

What is love to you in 3 words or less?

  • Noun - an emotion

    Votes: 3 25.0%
  • Verb - an action

    Votes: 9 75.0%
  • Both - emotion and action

    Votes: 3 25.0%
  • Emotion more than action

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Action more than emotion

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    12
  • Poll closed .

GosDontez

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this is exactly why God called me to full time study of Biblical Love and as a result to teach it, because Christians have no real understanding (by and large) of what it is or why it's important.

James 3:1, comes to mind:

Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly.

Someone Once Said, "the most dangerous job on planet earth is a pastor. Because they're the ones who feed the soul of the people. And 'God help you' if you're doing it wrong."
 
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amen, not enough people take the warning seriously...
 
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Thanks.
 
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I like it. But it's not a verb, nor a combination of noun and verb. It is just a noun. Biblical love is not a noun alone, my friend

Alrighty, then.

So, Zoey....as I have done with my study, tell me...

What is love to you in 3 words or less?

(And feel free to question my method. It's madness is the 2nd cousin to the logic of a psycho. Hence.....psychological. )
 
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3.....is a magic number. (School House Rock)

So here are 3 "sayings" related to the purpose for my study.

1. For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints. (1 Corinthians 14:33)

2. If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough.
- Albert Einstein -

3. Someone Once Said, "the fusion of the con is already in abundant supply. Therefore, strive for clarity.....and simplicity because the glass is always half full."

"And may the Schwartz be with you!"
 
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how would you describe God in relation to these three quotes? The first is easy...fits everything God does including Love but what about the other two? Can you really explain God? Is God clear and simple given this passage...1 Corinthians 13:12?
 
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So humility is not performed out affection?
 
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So humility is not performed out affection?
yes and no like most of the questions you ask about Love. If you humble yourself out of Love for God it involves some emotion but it is more times than not according to scripture something that God has to do in us despite ourselves. In addition, humbling ourselves is an act of obedience and not emotion. I really think you are too hung up on emotions to see what is being said to you.
 
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A...thesaurus? (Dont' mind me, I just had to get a little quip in there at least once...)

Yes, Morpheus was on to something ...

I don't think I can add much if anything to what you nicely [and prophetically] slapped down like a gauntlet. You've got my attention... but I'm just wondering if you have a large glass of water to give me so I can wash down that large, 'red pill.' Very good stuff, Gos!



Peace,
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how would you describe God in relation to these three quotes? The first is easy...fits everything God does including Love but what about the other two? Can you really explain God? Is God clear and simple given this passage...1 Corinthians 13:12?

The same way the Scriptures do:

1. Judge
2. Creator
3. Father
 
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Hey Zoey.

I wish to discuss this reply. I realized I needed to go back to it. But I don't know if you're still watching this thread.

Are you?
 
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Hey Zoey.

I wish to discuss this reply. I realized I needed to go back to it. But I don't know if you're still watching this thread.

Are you?

Yes, I am still watching this thread I am unsure of what you wish for me to say, as I have already explained love.
 
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Someone Once Said, "All humans act out emotion, because we are all emotional beings. The question is...'are we stable or unstable when we act?'"

With all due respect, my obedience or disobedience to God (Lord knows I do both. ), is BASED on how I feel about and towards Him.

If you don't or can't do that.....okay.
 
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A...thesaurus? (Dont' mind me, I just had to get a little quip in there at least once...)

LOL!!! I don't mind at all because I do the exact....(pause, to laugh)....same....(pause, to laugh even harder).....thing!

(Now I'm on the floor......rolling! )
 
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Ok....acronym time. Let's get cheeky!!

L = Loyalty
O = Obsession
V = Values
E = ECommerce


Couldn't have done it better myself xD
 
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The same way the Scriptures do:

1. Judge
2. Creator
3. Father
okay, that isn't a definition nor is it concise or complete. In fact, while we are on the topic of Love, there are at least 13 different ways God shows His Love to man, these are 3 there are at least 10 more what are you going to do with them? Why should we leave them out when they are who God is?
 
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Someone Once Said, "All humans act out emotion, because we are all emotional beings. The question is...'are we stable or unstable when we act?'"
we all have emotions but we don't all act out of emotion. This is something you have yet to grasp. In each and every situation we have a choice to either act on our emotions or act toward the situation. I have taught my children and try to practice it myself that we act do not react to every situation out of emotion but rather out of Love. In fact, the believer is called to act in self control. Self control is a fruit of the Spirit and should be in every single believer. If we are acting in self control we are not acting out of emotion but rather out of obedience. See, what you are preaching is emotionalism what scripture teaches, what Love teaches is obedience.
With all due respect, my obedience or disobedience to God (Lord knows I do both. ), is BASED on how I feel about and towards Him.

If you don't or can't do that.....okay.
but you are missing the point. Our obedience should flow out of Love for God amen but it does not mean that everything I do is spurred by "love" but rather is spurred by what scripture calls "fear of the Lord". We could argue that fear is an emotion and to a point one would be right but the fear talked about here is whatever it takes to obey not fear in and of itself. Psalms 34 (I believe I got the right Psalms) teaches us how to fear the Lord and it has nothing at all to do with emotions but obedience.

The child that wants to run out in the street to chase the puppy down will be in huge trouble if he runs in front of a car because he didn't "feel" like looking for cars. In fact, when he decides he should look for cars he doesn't do so because he loves the parents who taught him to look out for cars but rather because he was taught to look for cars no matter what his emotions tell him to do. Likewise, our obedience to God though rooted in Love is not an emotional reaction but rather one that is taught and equipped by the HS within.
 
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(There's that smoke, again. I wonder if he's using a machine. Maybe I can find the power cord.... )
 
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