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I've been thinking of this passage recently:

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 17If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? 18Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.
1 Jn 3:16-18 NIV

and also:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres
1 Cor 13:4-7 NIV

So love is both action (such as taking food round to someone self isolating) and also a quality of relationship e.g. treating others kindly.

So one can practice love even on this forum in the way you communicate with others. Of course I feel I haven't always lived up to this in my posts! But, for someone with a disability, the practical action type of love may not be possible - though one might be able to give to a suitable charity like the Salvation Army.

But for those who can't get out much and who mostly interact with people online the second type of love is possible, In other words the "actions" of 1 John can include kind words on a forum like this.
 

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I've been thinking of this passage recently:

This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers and sisters. 17If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but has no pity on them, how can the love of God be in that person? 18Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth.
1 Jn 3:16-18 NIV

and also:

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres
1 Cor 13:4-7 NIV

So love is both action (such as taking food round to someone self isolating) and also a quality of relationship e.g. treating others kindly.

So one can practice love even on this forum in the way you communicate with others. Of course I feel I haven't always lived up to this in my posts! But, for someone with a disability, the practical action type of love may not be possible - though one might be able to give to a suitable charity like the Salvation Army.

But for those who can't get out much and who mostly interact with people online the second type of love is possible, In other words the "actions" of 1 John can include kind words on a forum like this.
Love is putting someone else's needs above your needs, I know what it is but doing it can be so difficult because I do things and say things before I consider the needs of the other person. I do not take that little moment of time to put myself in their shoes before I act.
 
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So one can practice love even on this forum in the way you communicate with others.

Thanks for this encouraging reminder, Vanellus. I have some pretty strong opinions and often feel guilty (afterwards) about the way I've responded to others, here, but, I feel like I've learned a lot through those interactions. Keep up the good work. :)
 
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Thanks for this encouraging reminder, Vanellus. I have some pretty strong opinions and often feel guilty (afterwards) about the way I've responded to others, here, but, I feel like I've learned a lot through those interactions. Keep up the good work. :)

This is why I am here. Usually, I feel attacked when discussing issues with atheists, especially science since I am YEC. I hope reading this thread would give a better attitude towards people who are not going to agree with you. Both school such higher levels of learning like universities have eliminated God and creation from science as well as society. Less and less people think about God anymore. I think we have become a more atheist society from our science. It wasn't like this before the 1850s. Even growing up, I saw Nativity scenes outside peoples homes and in stores during Christmas. Not anymore.

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Less and less people think about God anymore. I think we have become a more atheist society from our science. It wasn't like this before the 1850s. Even growing up, I saw Nativity scenes outside peoples homes and in stores during Christmas. Not anymore.

There certainly is a lot of animosity in the world today, but I don't think it has come from a better understanding of how reality works (i.e. science). A lot of Atheists frame the argument as God (or faith) verses science and they often use ridicule to do it, which, in turn, makes a lot of Christians feel defensive to the point that they also start to believe they must argue against science in order to defend their faith.

Another reason why there is less faith in the world today is because we Christians really have put forward a bad testimony to the world. I don't think it is as simple as blaming Atheists for their lack of faith or even their tendency to ridicule. We Christians are supposed to be the spiritual leaders, or, if you will, the spiritual parents. In any family situation, it is up to the parents to provide an example for the children to follow; they are responsible for providing discipline and correction, but also patience and care, even when the children are obnoxious.

There are times when we need to rebuke, but have we really offered them proper guidance, first? There's nothing wrong with setting up a nativity scene to remind people about the birth and significance of Jesus, but, that isn't really what Jesus told us to do. In other words, Atheists get a lot of exposure to religious rituals and pleasant activities, but they're not seeing much of the teachings of Jesus.

There really is very little practical difference between the average Christian and the average Atheist; they both love their family, obey the laws of the land, go to work, pay their taxes, and are faithful consumers, so when Christians talk about God and suggest that they are somehow different, the Atheist will see it as self-righteousness; from their point of view you're not really different.

But, the way Jesus and his disciples lived was very different. They forsook person ownership of their stuff and shared all things in common. They lived, traveled, and worked together. They quit their jobs and started working for love full time. The account in acts says they, "turned the world upside down".

Christianity today isn't turning the world upside down because it is mostly complicit with the worldly system.

Anyway, in conclusion, I do still feel bothered by some of the obnoxious attitudes thrown at us by some Atheists, but I also understand that we Christians aren't doing much to give them a reason not to.
 
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Why accuse Christians all the time. You can’t change a mind. They can’t do everything

I don't know if you were responding to me, but the context suggests so. I think there is at least some difference between an accusation and a rebuke. We're supposed to rebuke one another and hold one another accountable. Ideally the rebuke should be accurate, and in the case of my comments about Christians ignoring the teachings of Jesus but still promoting a semblance of righteousness, I think it is.

I realize that comes across as offensive but it's a situation where the alternative is to either offend or keep quiet regarding a genuine problem, and I don't think keeping quite about this particular issue is the right choice.
 
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Everybody accuses Gods people. Satan is the accuser of the brethren’. The end is going to come anyway. Why not build up Gods people. They on whole are doing a fine job. They don’t need to bring down every atheist. If the didn’t believe Jesus just let them go their way and warned us what was coming. They killed Him, they will kill us. Don’t mean to sound like I’m railing.

I admit we need to witness the simplicity of the gospel, those can match wits with scientists. But to place the whole burden on the church? The world is not listening. Their going to have their way right up to the Antichrist. The time of the Gentiles is not over and the trampling of the city underfoot. I can only reach who I can reach. I have heard a lot of rebukes and nothing seems to be happening. The best way for most people is to live a good life, it says a lot.

Focus your thoughts on the untrained masses or the new age church or emerging church. But rebukes can lead to wrath of the children. What about Joel’s mega church. What are they doing? The real Israel doesn’t need to be lumped with those who are not going in the same direction. @JohnHelpher
 
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John Helpher said:
There really is very little practical difference between the average Christian and the average Atheist; they both love their family, obey the laws of the land, go to work, pay their taxes, and are faithful consumers, so when Christians talk about God and suggest that they are somehow different, the Atheist will see it as self-righteousness; from their point of view you're not really different.

But, the way Jesus and his disciples lived was very different. They forsook person ownership of their stuff and shared all things in common. They lived, traveled, and worked together. They quit their jobs and started working for love full time. The account in acts says they, "turned the world upside down".

Christianity today isn't turning the world upside down because it is mostly complicit with the worldly system.

I think you have a point here John but it needs some careful thought. Jesus was an itinerant teacher or rabbi whose disciples followed him from place to place, on foot we assume. Yet in the early churches set up by Paul et al the Christians mostly stayed in one place. Lesson: don't imitate the practical aspects of the lifestyles too much. Jesus disciples didn't use the Internet. Christians in the early churches were encouraged to work diligently in their jobs. Having all goods in common in Jerusalem later became making a collection for the poorer church in Jerusalem due to the later general economic hardship in Palestine.

I agree that Christians and non Christians can be similar as far as loving family, going to work, obeying the law and paying taxes. But there still can be differences. Not using foul language, always telling the truth, not engaging in office politics, speaking about your faith when appropriate, simple acts of kindness done without expecting anything in return, being nice to people, willing to see things from the other pov - even in party politics!, not getting angry, putting family above career, being honest in your dealings, admitting your mistakes, not taking yourself too seriously.

Paul put it more succinctly with the fruit of the spirit in Galatians!
 
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I think you have a point here John but it needs some careful thought.

Thank you, Vanellus.

Jesus was an itinerant teacher or rabbi whose disciples followed him from place to place, on foot we assume.

Most likely on foot. Certainly they didn't have cars, and probably they didn't splurge on horses and chariots, even though this raises a rather fascinating question; why didn't they? I mean, if the idea was to spread the gospel as quickly and as far as possible, why not buy horses and chariots? We don't see anything like that in the record. I'm guess that's because Jesus thought it would be better spiritual conditioning not to use community resources on extravagant expenses like horses when walking would not only present a more humble testimony, but would give the disciples practical experience with denying themselves.

I am reminded of the account from Luke where Jesus and his disciples had been traveling throughout the day and found themselves without any shelter at night (Luke 9:58). They petitioned a nearby village for shelter, but the village rejected them (Luke 9:52-53). James and John were so upset by this that they asked if they should call down fire from Heaven to destroy the village. Jesus rebuked them, saying they had a bad spirit and that he had not come to destroy men, but to save them (Luke 9:54-56).

And, sure enough, later that night some villagers came to Jesus secretly to find out what he was all about (Luke 9:57-62).

Yet in the early churches set up by Paul et al the Christians mostly stayed in one place.

This is partially true. We have 14 accounts of Paul's actions/writings, and in most of them there's a lot of travel, not only from Paul himself, but he regularly refers to sending people here and there. In the book of Acts, there's a lot of travel, to cities all over the place, to the point that they cause riots and the people say, "The people who have turned the world upside down have come here also" (Acts 17:6).

I'm not saying a large portion of them didn't settle for periods of time in one place or the other, but rather that the point is they were living by faith, rather than continuing their participation as loyal consumers in the world's system of wages.

Lesson: don't imitate the practical aspects of the lifestyles too much.

Pardon me if I sound a bit crunchy here, but this is totally opposite to Jesus' message. He said, "follow me" (Mark 8:34-35). He said we should take up our cross and deny ourselves. He said that if we follow him, we will be persecuted the same as he was persecuted (John 15:20). He said we should obey him (Luke 6:46). He said we will be judged by his teachings (John 12:48). He said there are many people who will honor him with their lips, but who's heart will be far from him (Matthew 15:8).

His followers said he gave us an example to follow (1 Peter 2:21) . They said we should imitate him (1 Corinthians 11:1). They said we should walk as he walked (1 John 2:6).

Jesus disciples didn't use the Internet.

This is a weird argument; the internet did not exist at that time. It's hardly fair to make an argument that people did not use something which did not exist. I think this might be an example of protesting too much...

Christians in the early churches were encouraged to work diligently in their jobs.

This is inaccurate. They were encouraged to work diligently, yes, but when you ad, "in their jobs" the implication is "for money". That is not Jesus' message (See Matthew 6:24-34). People tend to to interpret any instance of "work" in the Bible as "for money", which is an assumption they make because they themselves are lovers of money.

Having all goods in common in Jerusalem later became making a collection for the poorer church in Jerusalem due to the later general economic hardship in Palestine.

There is no formula which can guarantee faith. Jesus said his followers should forsake all and share all things in common (Luke 14:33). We see examples of that from Jesus and his disciples (Matthew 4:20, Luke 5:28) and later with Paul and thousands of new disciples (Acts 2:44-45 and Acts 4: 32-37), but this does not mean no one ever deals with greed again.

The church was constantly struggling with their fears about materialism and very real persecution, which resulted in a lot of poverty. Paul regularly encouraged and, in some cases, admonished the churches to remember that they need to share with one another, especially from those churches which may have had more opportunity and resources at the time.

I agree that Christians and non Christians can be similar as far as loving family, going to work, obeying the law and paying taxes. But there still can be differences.

Those differences are usually quite superficial. When the Atheist and Christian both work 40 hours per week in the same job, what difference is there, really?

Not using foul language

This is a superficial issue. God doesn't care about the words we use, whether we consider them bad or not; he cares about the motivation behind why we use them. I'm sure you've experienced situations where people have not used "bad" words, and yet you knew they were still being mean and hateful, right?

always telling the truth

No one always tells the truth and in some cases telling the truth would be immoral. Hiding Jews from the Nazis is a classic example of this. A less intense example would be saying, "Fine" when someone asks how you're doing, but you don't really feel fine; you just say you're fine because you understand the exchange is a pleasantry rather than a genuine inquiry into your psychological state.

God isn't looking for people who always tell the truth; that's a self-righteous image of respectability that we have created. What he's looking for are people who are sincere, even when they're telling an untruth or leaving out information, etc.

simple acts of kindness done without expecting anything in return

Of course, this would rule out working for money, since the whole point of working for money is an expectation of payment for services rendered.

not getting angry

I would amend this to, "not getting hateful" since both Jesus and God expressed anger and Paul makes it quite clear that it's okay to be angry, so long as we don't sin (Ephesians 4:26). The implication is that anger is not wrong in itself, so long as your anger is justified; we should never let that anger tip over into hatred.

putting family above career,

I don't disagree with this, but it's a false equivalence; Jesus said we're supposed to put him before both.

The kind of Christianity Jesus preached is so different to most of what we see in the world today.
 
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