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I understand you here as saying that they are allowed to have their beliefs not that you think they are correct that Allah is the one true God
Well God thinks He is the Christian God so I'll go with Him.

I think they do not know the identity of the one answering the prayer.

On what do you base your thoughts upon? What makes you feel that when a Muslim reads the Q'uran that Allah speaks into her life that day?

If a Muslim about to be in a horrific car accident prays to Allah and feels a peace come over her and walks away from the wreck with only a few bruises, that she has had a personal interaction with Allah.
I think they do not know the identity of the one answering the prayer.
They well could be but like I said above...I think they are unaware of the identity of the one answering the prayer.


I was wondering more about the part about it is always part. Well thank you for being concerned about causing offense, I didn't find it offensive and don't when someone is just having a conversation and not being rude or being disrespectful to me. You seem to be a sweetheart and I appreciate that.



Hate to be redundant but...they are unaware of the identity of the one answering the prayer. This is such a busy weekend, it doesn't even seem like it to me. Oh yeah, what's with the name change?
 
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They well could be but like I said above...I think they are unaware of the identity of the one answering the prayer

Absolutely this is a possibility, although couldn't a person who believes in a different God simply say the SE of your experience? That although you were praying to your God, it was actually theirs that was answering? How would we be able to tell who is correct?

Name change... No particular reason, just wanted to change things up a bit. Cheaper than a new sports car as a midlife crisis change
 
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We as unbelievers, we as who exactly? We including me? However, God thinks He is the God of the Bible and I am going with Him.

Came back again to this because it seems dismissive and I don't want to do that to you. If I exclude the ways that can't really be shared, the fact that there were numerous ways that God has revealed His identity to me I can share some very physically available ones. In the Bible God said He would preserve the Jews throughout time until the very end as a specific and "set aside" people. That HE would disperse them throughout the world but they would always be a unified people, which they are. He also said He would bring them back into their land back into Israel, which He did in 1948. He said that they would come from the North, South, east and west.
Isaiah 43:5-6,21 - "Do not be afraid, for I am with you; I will bring your children from the east and gather you from the west. I will say to the north, `Give them up!' and to the south, `Do not hold them back.' Bring my sons from afar and my daughters from the ends of the earth..."

Not only did they come back in this order East then West, then North and then lastly south and Russia and Ethiopia refused to let them go but later gave in just as it foretold in the Bible. Now Jews have arrived back in Israel from all over the world.


Name change... No particular reason, just wanted to change things up a bit. Cheaper than a new sports car as a midlife crisis change
I really laughed hard at this one. Thanks, I love to laugh and love those who make me laugh.
 
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I agree about weekends being super busy so as not to really feel like breaks. I assume this only gets worse as the kids get older and involved in more things.

We as unbelievers, we as who exactly? We including me? However, God thinks He is the God of the Bible and I am going with Him.
We as in you and I You mentioned this before, that God thinks he is the God of the Bible, I guess I am not sure how this moves us along. How do you know if that this deity thinks this? Again couldn't a Muslim say "well Allah believes he is the God of the Quran so I'm going to go with him". I guess I'm just not sure how that helps us figure out who is more correct. I just typed all that out and only now realized that you were probably saying it tongue in cheek and didn't intend it to be taken as actual support for your confidence in your beliefs (sigh) I will think before I type one of these days

If I exclude the ways that can't really be shared, the fact that there were numerous ways that God has revealed His identity to me I can share some very physically available ones.
By "can't be shared" do you mean literally not possible to describe to another human, internal witnesses that would not be compelling to someone who did it experience them first hand or something else?
So I am going to go out on a limb here... From the way this post was structured and where it occured in the context of our other comments it seems to me that you are to some extent conceding that we need something beyond personal experiences and assertions of truth, to determine which beliefs are correct. It seems that we might both agree that your experiences won't convince me and my experiences won't convince you, while the Muslim's experience won't convince either of us. Likewise your simple assertions that your God is real and true, me simply asserting that no he is not and the Muslim asserting Allah is God, don't help us determine who (if any of us) is correct. It does, however, set the foundation for a delightful argument that I hear in the backseat of the car in the way quite often... (at what age do they stop arguing by saying "yes I'm right, no you're not, am so, are not, am so, are not, yes, no, yes, no...."?). Joke aside it seems like we have moved past that point and you have determined that perhaps the best way to decide who is correct is to offer evidences that can be examined by all. In this case you are offering a Biblical prophecy and I think the implied argument runs something like this :
The Bible makes this prophecy
The prophecy came tue
This shows that the Bible is divinely inspired,
If the Bible is divinely inspired its claims about God are true
If the Bible is true then because it says Yahweh is the one true God then we can know both that Allah is not God and that the atheists are incorrect.
Did I more or less get that right?
 
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I agree about weekends being super busy so as not to really feel like breaks. I assume this only gets worse as the kids get older and involved in more things.
For sure.


No, it wasn't tongue in cheek. How do you know if I am not just making a claim that has no proof? You don't. IF a Muslim said, "well Allah believes he is the god of the Q'uran" I would do just as you have done. How do you know? I would then discuss with them their own view of how this information came to them. It doesn't stop there. Belief/faith is either discovered by the person themselves or they are raised to believe what they believe. There are so many factors in why people believe what they believe and if they believe due to discover themselves generally is more convincing than what they were raised to believe.

That being said, you are not going to be able to figure out who is "correct". You don't have a real desire to know if a Muslim could be right or if I could. You have already made up your mind that we are both wrong.


By "can't be shared" do you mean literally not possible to describe to another human, internal witnesses that would not be compelling to someone who did it experience them first hand or something else?

How many experiences can really be shared and how compelling are they when we do. I would take personal experiences as evidence in something I didn't think was true. Personal experiences are for our own benefit and that is how we find truth and how we gain knowledge.

Absolutely.

It is a step towards that conclusion.
 
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It doesn't stop there. Belief/faith
So I just clipped this bit because I am not sure if you are saying that both beliefs and faith are formed in this way or if belief=faith and is formed in this way. What in your mind is the difference between belief and faith if there even is one?
There are so many factors in why people believe what they believe and if they believe due to discover themselves generally is more convincing than what they were raised to believe.
As a teacher I absolutely agree. I can tell a student the answer but it won't stick the way it does if they work it out themselves. I hold this hope for my own kids as well. I want them to be free to make a choice about belief in God for themselves. As long as they really take the time to think about it and investigate all sides of the question I am convinced they will be happier people. Even if they end up having different beliefs than I do!

That being said, you are not going to be able to figure out who is "correct". You don't have a real desire to know if a Muslim could be right or if I could. You have already made up your mind that we are both wrong.

I have of course heard this kind of thing before and I would both agree and disagree. My ideal version of me would reply that if what you believe is true then I would want to know about it. I want to believe as many true things and as few false things as possible so if Jesus is God then I want to know it. Realistically, I was a believer (not raised as one but converted in my early 20's) and after looking at the evidence found myself unconvinced that there is sufficient evidence to support the God hypothesis. So at this point in time my atheism has a kind of inertia that would be difficult to overcome. Another way of thinking about this is the idea of weight in the philosophical study of epistemology. A belief is reasonable if there is evidence to support it. So if I flip a coin twice and it comes up heads once and tails once it is reasonable for me to believe that the probability that the next flip will be heads is .5
But because I have very little evidence (2 flips) my belief while reasonable has very little weight (synonymous with confidence in the belief). If I flip that coin 1000 times and it falls within the normal distribution pattern for a fair coin then my belief that the next flip is heads being at . 5 is still just as rational but now has much more weight. Weight of evidence effects what we do with disconfirmed data points. So if I flip that same coin another 5 times and it comes up tails each time it would not be reasonable for me to change my belief that the probability of heads on the next flip is . 5 because of the weight of evidence. This is where I think both believers and non believers run into trouble. We each have a world view and in your world view there is a God that interacts meaningfully in the world and in mine there is not. But because of confirmation bias we both tend to see and remember evidence that agrees with the beliefs that we already have and ignore ( Or not seek out) evidence that disconfirmes our current beliefs. So the longer one is in a world view the more weight the world view's foundational beliefs have and the greater the amount of disconfirming evidence would be required to push us past the belief threshold for an opposing world view.
All that to say I like to think I open to changingy mind and new arguments and evidence but I am aware (as much as I can be) of my biases.
This is why I like asking lots of questions about why people believe what they do, how they know, how certain are they? I think the more we confront our ideas and the less certainly we hold them the more likely we are to be receptive to discovering truth.

I would take personal experiences as evidence in something I didn't think was true. Personal experiences are for our own benefit and that is how we find truth and how we gain knowledge.

I think you make a good point here. We can't experience everything personally and so we will need, at some point, to incorporate the experience of others into our modle of reality. Good point... although it has some tricky implications for what counts as knowledge

Absolutely
So I think it is safe to say that the majority of your reasons for believing that Christianity is true as opposed to other briefs reside in the Bible. So maybe if we start there you may have heard this question before.... On a scale of 0 to 100 where 0 is all doubt and no confidence and 100 being all confidence and no doubt where would you put yourself on the scale when describing your belief that the Bible is divinely inspired and is an accurate representation of your God, his ideas, desires and plans?
 
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So I just clipped this bit because I am not sure if you are saying that both beliefs and faith are formed in this way or if belief=faith and is formed in this way. What in your mind is the difference between belief and faith if there even is one?
Belief is separate from faith. Belief is something that you think is probably true but you are not sure. Faith is what you have once you know God and begin to trust Him.

Well that is very commendable, I hope that they have someone equally as strong with their convictions for God as you are against.




I like your honesty. Most people on here only believe confirmation bias effects the believers.

Had I frequented this site many years ago, before this rather completed journey, I would say I was open to any evidence that might be brought forward opposing God/gods. I understood confirmation bias, I understood Science as Science is very important in our household. My husband taught Biology at the high school and college levels. Our children's favorite game when they were younger was what we called "what is that animal". They would ask questions such as, "is it a mammal", or is it North American, and continue to question until they were sure what animal we had in mind. The favorite book in the house was a book on animals around the world with all the details about them. At five my son knew most of the names for the Dinosaurs and whether or not they were "meat eaters" or "plant eaters". That was before all the dino movies were popular. Science has been a great part of my journey as well. So you and I, fairly staunch in our views probably don't have a snowballs chance to change each other's mind and that is ok. I'm not here for that. I'm here to bring logic and reason in defense of Christianity and God is the one that changes people's minds.

Yes, and once you've asked all the right questions and have spent years and years researching our views and observe solid confirmation on those views you feel you have reached the truth.



I wrote that wrong. I wouldn't believe just on someones personal experience.


So I think it is safe to say that the majority of your reasons for believing that Christianity is true as opposed to other briefs reside in the Bible.
No, what I believe about the Bible is not responsible for being a Christian.

See above.
 
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Belief is separate from faith. Belief is something that you think is probably true but you are not sure. Faith is what you have once you know God and begin to trust Him.
So using our see for you a belief is >50 confidence interval that the belief is true but I am still not quite sure what you mean by faith. Could you help me by putting it in other words, what is your personal definition of faith?

Well that is very commendable, I hope that they have someone equally as strong with their convictions for God as you are against.

They do, my lovely with is a strong Christian and they all go to school at a private Christian school. If anything it is my skeptic views that are severely underrepresented The things we do for love!

So you and I, fairly staunch in our views probably don't have a snowballs chance to change each other's mind and that is ok.
I agree, what I consider a step forward is really just having someone (me included) look at the reasons they hold a belief and having them evualuate thier own reason for holding thier beliefs. Ideally this leads to people holding thier beliefs a bit more tentatively even if they don't change or even waver in that belief. In my experience people who hold thier beliefs with a little less certainty, even if the are entirely convinced the are correct, tend to be less dogmatic and more compassionate towards people who believe differently than they do.


Yes, and once you've asked all the right questions and have spent years and years researching our views and observe solid confirmation on those views you feel you have reached the truth.

Again I am currently convinced by the evidence that there is no God but since I do think think we actually choose our beliefs that is up for revisionnif the evidence changes.

I wrote that wrong. I wouldn't believe just on someones personal experience.

I understood you to mean that you would allow someone's personal experience to be included in the larger data set that you would consider evidence for a proposition. Not that someone's experience would by itself be convincing, simply that it would be noted (not summarily dismissed) when making up your own mind on whatever question was at hand.

No, what I believe about the Bible is not responsible for being a Christian.

So this I find really interesting. Would this mean that if hypothetically I could prove to your satisfaction that the Bible was not the inspired word of God and that Jesus never existed, that the whole thing was made up (obviously not at all saying I can do this!). Do you think, in that hypothetical world, you would still call yourself a Christian? If so, why?
 
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So using our see for you a belief is >50 confidence interval that the belief is true but I am still not quite sure what you mean by faith. Could you help me by putting it in other words, what is your personal definition of faith?
Having faith is not about having doubts about God's existence. Faith comes after you know God exists and then putting your trust in Him. It is having faith that God is working towards your good. That whatever happens God has a plan. It is having faith that even when it is a small prayer for something that in the long scheme of things it is important to God too.



They do, my lovely with is a strong Christian and they all go to school at a private Christian school. If anything it is my skeptic views that are severely underrepresented The things we do for love!
So I will venture a guess that your wife doesn't find the evidence lacking as a Christian?


I agree, what I consider a step forward is really just having someone (me included) look at the reasons they hold a belief and having them evualuate thier own reason for holding thier beliefs.
Most people do this at some point in whatever they believe. I understand there are people who just live their lives I suppose without questioning their beliefs but I find that there are not that many really.

If what you are dogmatic about is all about being more compassionate towards people who believe differently than they do, it seems like the best reason to remain dogmatic in the first place.


Again I am currently convinced by the evidence that there is no God but since I do think think we actually choose our beliefs that is up for revisionnif the evidence changes.
What evidence convinces you that there is no God? You have vaguely answered that researching the Bible and Science were contributing factors but you haven't really said what you find as evidence against God's existence.



I think I'm rarely just dismissive towards other people's experiences. I'm not sure how much consider their proposition within my own when I am diametrically opposed to it however.



First and foremost I am a Christian because God has convinced me that He is the God of the Bible and there is enough evidence to confirm for me that Jesus did exist and that the whole thing was not made up. If you could hypothetically show me how a Being could be communicating with me through multiple ways, has the power to affect the natural world at His whim and who can know the future before it happens is not God but someone or something else then you have a shot at changing my views. I would be open to evidence that would explain all this.[/Quote]
 
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So for you having faith is not about having doubts. Do you mean that once you have faith will will not have any doubts or were you just referencing doubts because it was in my post and you were responding to that?
You also say that faith is something that comes after both know owing God exists (meaning 100 on our scale?) and also putting your trust in him, is that right, so faith is a third step after those two or perhaps a gift you are give after doing those first two things?
The last bit was faith is having faith ( believing or maybe trusting?) that God has a plan and also that he cares about the details of our lives.
I know faith is a tricky subject to define and of course I am curious how your idea of faith interacts with the definition we find in Hebrews.
So I will venture a guess that your wife doesn't find the evidence lacking as a Christian?

She does not find it lacking at all

What evidence convinces you that there is no God? You have vaguely answered that researching the Bible and Science were contributing factors but you haven't really said what you find as evidence against God's existence.

Hmmm good question. Generally things like the problem of divine hiddeness , the problem of suffering make at least a small positive case that the Christian God specifically does not exist. I truth though my atheism is more a product of not being convinced by the evidence that has been presented to me in support of the claim that God exists. That said there is always more to learn and consider or different angles to approach things from so I would love to hear what you consider the most compelling evidence that should make the atheist reconsider their position.

What if I could show you (again hypothetically) that it is possible that you believe because of the way our brains evolved and that as a result of some of the inherent weaknesses in the way we perceive and explain the world around us, that it is at least possible that the no God hypothesis is true?
 
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So for you having faith is not about having doubts.
Right.

Do you mean that once you have faith will will not have any doubts or were you just referencing doubts because it was in my post and you were responding to that?

No, I am saying that you can't have faith that God is going to work in your life if you don't even know if He is real or not.

Faith comes after recognizing who God is and understanding who He is. Although, thinking back there was a time when I didn't know if God really existed that I gave Him the benefit of the doubt and that made all the difference...it is hard looking back from where I am now. It was at that moment that I did have faith without knowledge and I could have gone either way.


Fits very well.


She does not find it lacking at all
You have not convinced her that she is mistaken? Have you tried?



Hmmm good question. Generally things like the problem of divine hiddeness , the problem of suffering make at least a small positive case that the Christian God specifically does not exist.
How does it do that?

Experience from this site has garnered me a new insight in atheists and evidence. It is how one interprets the evidence that causes the divide.


If the God belief is not as what the Bible claims..God putting it in our heart to desire God and is through evolution as you would hypothesize, it would be the same for you. You only believe what you can believe and what you have evolved to believe and truth is not on either side really.[/Quote][/QUOTE]
 
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No, I am saying that you can't have faith that God is going to work in your life if you don't even know if He is real or not.

Makes sense. In this instance you seem to be using faith as a synonym for trust or maybe confidence.

thinking back there was a time when I didn't know if God really existed that I gave Him the benefit of the doubt and that made all the difference
Is that what faith is? Giving God belief the benefit of the doubt based on the evidence you have, rather than requiring certainty?


Fits very well.
Do you mean to say that the passage in Hebrews is your definition of faith as well, just in different words?


You have not convinced her that she is mistaken? Have you tried?
I made that mistake when I first came to the conclusion (after a 2 year journey of discovery) that I considered myself an atheist. I have not convinced her and the two times we have really had it out about belief in God have been the only tow major arguments of our 10 year marriage. I still think she is mistaken in her belief but I also love her unconditionally and respect her enormously. She believes she has good reasons for her position and so I am content to leave it alone. Maybe that's why I spent time on these forums just so that I have someone to talk to about it without the emotional element that is inevitably part of things when I talk with my own wife.

ow does it do that?
I think there is a degree of inconsistency between the idea of a loving God who desires relationship with us and the reality of sincerely seeking non-believers. Likewise with a God who has all possible power and loves and cares about each of us yet also commits, orders and allows genocide, who causes natural disasters and mandates terminal cancer in children. This is not to say that these things make the idea of the Christian God logically impossible but in my mind they go some way towards making the case that God as described by many Christians is not likely to exist.

. It is how one interprets the evidence that causes the divide.
This seems to be true. We all have the same data set to look at but a portion the evidence differently.
I think I seem you point, but the problem here is that the extent to which your view of the world corresponds to reality does actually confer (in more cases than not) a survival advantage. So we would expect evolution to select for those who have an accurate view of reality.

Also as I mentioned before, I would love to hear what you consider the strongest evidence in favour of the belief in the Christian God
 
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Makes sense. In this instance you seem to be using faith as a synonym for trust or maybe confidence.
Yes, trust and confidence play a large part in faith.


Is that what faith is? Giving God belief the benefit of the doubt based on the evidence you have, rather than requiring certainty?
You seem to want a simple answer...this is faith. Faith is as complex as is religion. IN the instance I was talking about it was indeed something like that. I could look at what seemed like evidence against God's existence and I could go with that and determine that I was wrong about God possibly being real. I decided not to shut the door but to pray about understanding about it. He gave it and much much more. It was after that that He revealed Himself in numerous ways over and over again.



Do you mean to say that the passage in Hebrews is your definition of faith as well, just in different words?
I don't really define faith. It is an ongoing experience that grows in its definition.



Sounds like a good idea.


I think there is a degree of inconsistency between the idea of a loving God who desires relationship with us and the reality of sincerely seeking non-believers.
How do you know how sincere they are about their sincerity? Also, God has plans for people and timing is an important part of that.

Likewise with a God who has all possible power and loves and cares about each of us yet also commits, orders and allows genocide,
Do you think there is ever a reason for someone to die for something they have done, say for instance do you think that someone deserves to die if they rape, mutilate and kill a child for fun and would continue to do so?

who causes natural disasters and mandates terminal cancer in children.
Causes natural disasters...mandates terminal cancer in children...What if hypothetically, we as souls prior to being born determine what happens in our lives here on earth? What if we plan with God what types of situations we will put ourselves into to bring us to either acceptance of God or what might break us away? It might go like this, God says, "okay "your name", when do you wish to live?" "Where do you wish to live"? "What events do you wish to use to bring you to a relationship with me on earth?" You say you wish to live in this time period, in the US, to a family of non-believers (guessing after what you had said). "Now, God says, "there will be a point that I will call you and you will either take that path to the end or you might chose to go off another way and into unbelief with this scenario, are you sure that is what you want?" And you say, "yes, I know that I won't go the other way, I will always want to go with you" but you get here and of course you don't remember the conversation and you did chose that other path. So say Sally, sets up her path and she chooses to have a terminal illness. God says, "Sally are you sure you want to spend such a short time on earth?" She answers, "yes, God I don't want to be away from you for very long but maybe if I can live my life a short while and show love and be loved on earth and help others on earth to find you, I want to do that".

My point is this, we don't have all the answers. God set up the universe to work a certain way and for seasons and elements to behave certain ways and in that we have hurricanes, tornadoes and floods. It is the effect of how the elements on and around earth work and sometimes it causes these things to occur. God uses these to illuminate His existence, either in the outpouring of love to others, to confirm Himself to some and like the same as forest fires to refresh the land. We can't know because we don't know why certain things happen in the world but that doesn't disprove God's existence when in these same things you claim make it impossible for God to exist actually bring many to Him in their need. I think that God holds back much of what could be many many more natural disasters. He allows some for reasons unknown. I do know that when we were a young country and most of the population were either deists or Christians we suffered a limited number of natural disasters but as our nation became more and more anti-God He removed His protection against them and has allowed more to hit our nation. Statistics confirm as time has gone on, more frequent disasters are occurring and they are becoming much worse.

This is not to say that these things make the idea of the Christian God logically impossible but in my mind they go some way towards making the case that God as described by many Christians is not likely to exist.
Sounds like you are judging God, because you can't "think" of anyway God can allow these things and still be loving and caring He must not exist. I know what suffering I have had in my life has made me stronger and has actually brought me closer to God.


This seems to be true. We all have the same data set to look at but a portion the evidence differently.
And no one can actually say that the evidence doesn't support God's existence either, they just "think" that natural explanations must be the only explanation.

So do you believe that religion being the majority's worldview is more accurate in terms of reality? I mean, the majority of the earth's population are religious and those who do not hold that view are a strong minority.

Also as I mentioned before, I would love to hear what you consider the strongest evidence in favour of the belief in the Christian God
Ok, if I have time today I will present what I think is the strongest evidence other than God's revelation of Himself to me.
 
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How many years does a person have to seek God before he/she can give up? What if a person prays, reads, converses, all that, but receives no answer?

Hi,

Some have sought for forty years, and not been answered.

It is a woman of whom I am speaking.

Still alive, God answered her. She was satisfied with the answer.

I was 60, no it was 52, before God answered me.

I AM SATSFIED WITH my answer from Him.

LOVE,
 
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Do you think there was a reason, that you are aware of anyway that God waited until then? I ask because sometimes we will after the fact understand the reason.
 
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I could look at what seemed like evidence against God's existence and I could go with that and determine that I was wrong about God possibly being real. I decided not to shut the door but to pray about understanding about it.
I find this both laudable and concerning all at once. I think that when we are presented with evidence that disconfirmes a current belief it is wise not to immediately abandon our position. I can't remember who said it but it is a great quote: the mark of an educated mind is to be able to engage with an idea and to consider it deeply without agreeing with it.
On the other hand there is the worry of appealing to our confirmation bias or perhaps in light of our recent conversations of depending overmuch on the weight of our current position, rather than following the evidence where it leads. For example, if I believe that all apples are green and all my experience in life has confirmed this, giving the belief a lot of weight, what do I do if someone presents me with a red apple? My first step would be to examine the evidence of this new apple, consider its source etc. Once I have verified that it is indeed a red apple would I be justified in changing my belief that all apples are green? Or should I meditate on the problem for as long as it takes to come up with an idea that allows the red apple to fit my current belief that all apples are green? Maybe I decide that on a quantum level it is not actually an apple or that what I perceive as red is in fact an ultra rare shade of green that my eyes are misconstructing ( other of those are testable hypotheses at least) or maybe the apple is green but a Cartesian demon is fooling my brain to make it appear red. These are possible solutions to the datum and allow me to maintain my original belief. The question is are they probable? Is it more probable that there exist red apples of which I had previously been unaware or is it more likely that one of those other explanations are correct. This is where the weight of our beliefs make things difficult. On a question of apples overthrowing my belief has few consequences whereas for a belief in God the consequences (even setting aside spiritual consequences) would be enormous. Thus when a data point disconfirmes a strongly held belief like mine in evolution say, it is almost impossible, on the basis of that single datum, to overturn the entirety of the belief and the ideas that are associated with the belief in a coherentist net.

How do you know how sincere they are about their sincerity? Also, God has plans for people and timing is an important part of that.
I don't think we can know for certain. All we can say is that their actions are consistent with what we would expect of a person who is sincere and give that belief a high confidence rating. In the same way that you can't know for certain that God is good, but that in your best judgement his actions are consistent in your mind with what a good God would do.
Do you think there is ever a reason for someone to die for something they have done, say for instance do you think that someone deserves to die if they rape, mutilate and kill a child for fun and would continue to do so?
Wow that is quite the set up The short answer is no, I don't think killing them is the way to go. In this scenario you have added a couple conditions, doing it for fun (to establish it as a moral transgression in an objective sense?) and will continue doing it (presumably regardless of efforts to rehabilitation irate the individual). In this ultra specific case, I as a human, would advocate a life prison sentence. If, however, I was a God I would know exact what it would take to rehabilitate this person and would have the power to help them in this way. So as a deity who wanted both the good of this individual and the society around her, I would be able to intervene to accomplish this.

Well fair is fair I guess... I have asked you to consider enough hypothetical situations
So in this situation, I am sitting with God, as a soul, prior to being born. He asks me what circumstances I want to face that will draw me to him. Am I allowed to answer riches, health, love and acclaim? These good things and having a blessed life will convince me that a God exists and loves me in the life to come so I could choose that right? Why does there have to be suffering? Is suffering a necessary condition for belief in a loving God? I will await your thoughts on that, but let's say that for some reason it is the case that a soul has to suffer in order to choose God. When we are having this conversation I say "OK God, test me by giving me an atheist roomate in college". God responds "that is a really clever idea, as you learn more about belief to resist this atheist you learn more about me.... Um
...one problem though.... You know I can see the future and I know that if I test you that way you are actually going to end up disowning me and end up in hell for eternity... Did you want to pick something else maybe? "
So in your hypothetical scenario the presence of people in hell (broad is the way and many are they that find it) means that either God simply let them choose whatever trials they wanted and didn't stop them from choosing trials that he knew ahead of time would damn them to hell or the souls had that conversation with God and knew that they were choosing hell and chose it anyway. Both these seem unlikely.


My point is this, we don't have all the answers. God set up the universe to work a certain way and for seasons and elements to behave certain ways and in that we have hurricanes, tornadoes and floods.

Well you assert that God set things up this way. We do have naturalistic explanations for all those things. Why invoke God?


God uses these to illuminate His existence, either in the outpouring of love to others, to confirm Himself to some and like the same as forest fires to refresh the land.

So in your view, God is so kind that he will cause death, suffering, both physical and emotional on a huge scale, to some of the creatures made in his image, so that others will have to opportunity to console them in the face of the horror He has just visited upon them? Are you saying the point of Job was to give his friends an opportunity to be generous?
As for refreshing the land what you are saying seems to be that in the communities where natural disaster hits, God with all possible power, can only help a society start fresh by using massive death and destruction. What is more likely, that God can only build them up by causing mayhem, death and suffering or that the event was a purely natural one with no spiritual significance?

We can't know because we don't know why certain things happen in the world but that doesn't disprove God's existence when in these same things you claim make it impossible for God to exist actually bring many to Him in their need.
Actually that is exactly what I didn't say. I admit that it is logically possible for God to exist and to do these things for morally sufficient reasons. It is just that for me such explanations (it could be the case that, maybe God just..., if there is a reason) seem like a stretch. To me the hypothesis that bad things happen as a result of natural events makes more sense than that a loving, caring, intervening God would set things up to cause such suffering.
As for people coming close to God in their suffering we are back to the problem of different beliefs. Muslims in their suffering draw strength and reassurance from Allah, they become closed to him. Since you have said before that Allah can not in any way effect this world then there must be some natural explanation for why the Muslims are able to draw strength and comfort from their beliefs. If there can be a natural explanation of why it works for those of other religions there is no need to suppose that it is any different for Christians who suffer.


Is there a natural explanation that makes sense of this pattern or is the idea that God is angry and so is punishing America with natural disaster the only possible solution? Is this same correlation present in other countries where Christian belief is on the decline? What about the inverse.. Is there a correlation between the increasing brief in Christianity in some countries, with a lessening of natural disasters?

Sounds like you are judging God, because you can't "think" of anyway God can allow these things and still be loving and caring He must not exist. I
As I said above that is not at all the case. I ha e a great imagination and can come up with all kinds of possible scenarios. All I saying is that it seems incredibly unlikely that a being as described by Christians would choose so much pain and suffering for the creatures that he loves.

And no one can actually say that the evidence doesn't support God's existence either, they just "think" that natural explanations must be the only explanation.
This is true but I still find it problematic. It seems to me that God is defined in such a way that any and all possible le evidence an just be subsumed. If it turns out that that abiogenesis happened on earth and we discover the mechanism Christians will just say that this is how God decided to start life. If we discover that the universe is past eternal or that string theory is correct then Christians can say that God planned it that way and is God of the other universes too. The problem is that there is no way to falsify the God hypothesis. Another problem is that God is not the only hypothesis of this kind. It could be the case that transcendent, immaterial, universe creating pixies exist and created our universe and life on earth. How would we disconfirm this?

So do you believe that religion being the majority's worldview is more accurate in terms of reality? I mean, the majority of the earth's population are religious and those who do not hold that view are a strong minority.
This would seem to follow from what I said, that since having beliefs correspond to reality confers a survival advantage that if most people believe in a God then it is likely to correspondence do to reality. One problem with this from your end is that most people today, and even more so in history, don't believe in your God and you hav said that these other gods can't effect this world in any way. This would imply that it is not belief in a real God that confers an advantage but rather belief in any kind of God, including gods of the land, rivers, the animal spirits etc. There are some scholars who make the case that belief in a God was a very useful construct in early human societies, uniting people and providing an us and them distinction. I won't outline the entire argument here but it is an interesting one.


Ok, if I have time today I will present what I think is the strongest evidence other than God's revelation of Himself to me.

Awesome I will be looking forward to that. Hope you are having a good day. Thanks again for taking the time to share your thoughts on all of this.
 
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So your concern is due to what exactly? Let's say that when this evidence arose that could have meant that God didn't exist, I refused it out of hand and remained in my current view; I would be dismissing anything that didn't fit with my current view. I could change my view and not allowing confirmation bias to enter in, I decide that this piece of evidence is too important to dismiss and it and the current view couldn't work together. Remember, I only believed God existed and didn't yet have His personal revelation to go on. I decided rather than immediately changing my view, I would put my trust (faith) in God to give me understanding in the issue. I didn't just sit on my hands and wait, I did plenty of research and so forth but ultimately, if I had not had the actions of God afterward I don't know if I wouldn't have been right there with you and thinking that God really didn't exist.


We can't, that I agree with. Since we can't, and if what we are told about God knowing our every thought is correct; I think God would be the judge on that one.

I see you feel that no crime should be punishable by death. My point here and I think you might have not understood is that if someone rapes, mutilates and kills a child for fun and would do it again (meaning he doesn't feel any remorse or guilt for the acts) is his crime worthy of Justice and is that justice should be death. You say no, he should be locked up for life. Now, that is fine if that is truly how you feel. IF my child was raped, mutilated and killed for fun I don't think I would be that charitable. But that is me. However, you feel that God knowing what it would take to force that individual to be rehabilitated, should do so. You feel that God having the power to control us should do so. He should make us all robots to His will so that all are peaceful and loving. You don't want to be free to do something that God doesn't want you to do...right? You want to be forced to follow God's dictates so as not to be responsible for any wrong actions?


Well fair is fair I guess... I have asked you to consider enough hypothetical situations
Seems fair.

Absolutely.

Why does there have to be suffering? Is suffering a necessary condition for belief in a loving God? I will await your thoughts on that,
So again, you want God to not allow any suffering. You want a beautiful Garden of Eden. Yet, in this Garden of Eden you want God to not allow anything other than His dictates and His rules with all rainbows and butterflies. You would like Him to force you to love Him.

So in other words, God shouldn't allow them to be born and if He does He should not let them make their own choices on earth, or He should stack the deck and tell them exactly what they need to do to make sure they get to go to Heaven? Do you think there would be any reason, any reason you could think of for a soul knowing the risk would feel it was worth living on earth and having a free choice in their lives on earth?




Well you assert that God set things up this way. We do have naturalistic explanations for all those things. Why invoke God?
I don't invoke God, He created the universe where naturalistic explanations can be discovered and understood.




Do I detect a note of bitterness? I didn't say that. God uses all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons and much of that we simply can't understand because we don't have that information available. We know that pain is an essential part of the human condition and needs to be present for our physical survival. Everything is linked in one way or another and what we view as suffering...getting a bad burn from something or even cancer is connected to our own human bodies and the way we reproduce. We see God's mercy as well as His justice. Suffering is not something that the Christian has to explain in regards to their faith and a loving God. We understand from the relationship we have with Him and knowing that sometimes even a nation has to suffer for transgressions that go against God's commandments. He is serving Justice for others when suffering happens on a huge scale in many cases we see in history. God could do many things that "we" think would be "better" but we don't have all the pieces to this great puzzle.

See above.


Yes, you do. You think that we live just as a comic accident that has no purpose or reason if I understand you correctly. Natural answers don't cut it for me.

Why would Muslims not draw strength or comfort in their beliefs? You too must draw strength and comfort in some way for your lack of belief. That doesn't make either accurate with reality.

If there can be a natural explanation of why it works for those of other religions there is no need to suppose that it is any different for Christians who suffer.
Same as above.



It seems you don't feel God would have any reason for punishing wrong doing?


Science isn't about truth or even proof. Why do you think Science must determine God?


You have just changed one story (the Bible) for another (Evolution). It is perfectly cohesive with Christian thought that God calls all to Him spiritually and that this call can be taken by a different path.




Awesome I will be looking forward to that. Hope you are having a good day. Thanks again for taking the time to share your thoughts on all of this.
I'm thinking it should be a new thread or even in the Sciences forums.
 
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This is what meant... You already believed that a God existed. So instead of counting a piece of evidence against that worldview it sounds like you went looking for a way to make it fit and we're ultimately successful. What did that research process look like? What kinds of questions were you asking, what sources were you leaning on, what authors were you reading? Probably awhile ago but it would be really interesting if you could recall any of that stuff.

We can't, that I agree with. Since we can't, and if what we are told about God knowing our every thought is correct; I think God would be the judge on that one.
Are you agreeing that we can't know God is good because that was part of the quote as well. The rest strikes me as an example of the if/then defense. If God is real and if he is what I believe him to be then it is possible that God has reasons that I don't know. To be fair this is logically possible, for me though it is not very compelling.


You say no, he should be locked up for life. Now, that is fine if that is truly how you feel. IF my child was raped, mutilated and killed for fun I don't think I would be that charitable
I wonder of this is a product of our different views on the afterlife. I believe that this life is all there is and so killing the offender ends his life and also puts him beyond the reach of consequences. Alive and in prison the only life he will ever have is a restricted and unpleasant one. On your world view there is eternal judgement so killing him just sends him to that outworking of Justice. That seem likely?


However, you feel that God knowing what it would take to force that individual to be rehabilitated, should do so. You feel that God having the power to control us should do so.
Suppose one of my children becomes addicted to hard drugs. I see this destructive behaviour and know for certain that if no intervention is done my child will die on the streets as a homeless addict. Luckily I have the resources to intervene. Moreover, I can, without my child's consent have them placed in a rehab centre that has a 100 percent cure history. I can choose to allow them total autonomy allowing them to suffer and die or I can temporarily restrict their free will in order to help them beat the addiction.
What does a loving parent do?

I think perhaps there is perhaps some hyperbole in there... Robots... Let me ask this. Do you believe that there is free will in heaven?
As for being forced, I dont see why a God would need to force anything. A God could simply set things up so that the choice I want to make of my own free will is also the best one. An example would be the Damascus road experience. God didn't force him to convert but he absolutely knew how to reveal himself so that the conversion would happen. Another question though, do you believe that God can and has in the past overridden the free will of humans to achieve his purposes?

Absolutely
So in that hypothetical scenario why would any soul chose to be given cancer rather than health and wealth, knowing that either choice will lead to a life with God in eternity?


I am not sure why the word force keeps being used... Why not persuade, convince, we worthy of etc. And to the first part why not? What is wrong with the idea of a paradise?

So in other words, God shouldn't allow them to be born and if He does He should not let them make their own choices on earth, or He should stack the deck and tell them exactly what they need to do to make sure they get to go to Heaven?

If God knows that the soul he is about to create is going to spend eternity in hell, why create it?
We were not talking about choices on earth, the situation you posed was of a discussion prior to a soul being born.

As for stacking the deck, yes this makes sense to me. Wouldn't you do the same for your child. Believing as you do that God is real, that heaven and hell are real did you make an effort to influence your children at the most impressionable time of their lives, when they are dependent on you for food, shelter, love, knowledge and wisdom? Didn't you teach them that God is real and to a certain extent hamper their ability to freely choose later in life? For the record don't read that as a condemnation, it is what a loving parent, who believes as you do, should do The point though is that you were willing to curtail the ability to freely choose in favour of guiding your children towards the most desirable outcome and away ffrom the abyss of an eternal punishment. Why should God be any different than a loving parent?

Do you think there would be any reason, any reason you could think of for a soul knowing the risk would feel it was worth living on earth and having a free choice in their lives on earth?

Honestly I can't, perhaps you could offer one?

I don't invoke God, He created the universe where naturalistic explanations can be discovered and understood.
I simply meant invoking God as an explanation, as you have done here. Why do we need God as an explanation if the scientific explanation is sufficient? Again it is not logically inconsistent to say, here is the scientific explanation... And that's how God did it, but what does adding God to the explanation actually add?

Do I detect a note of bitterness? I didn't say that. God uses all sorts of things for all sorts of reasons and much of that we simply can't understand because we don't have that information available

Nope no bitterness at all. I have been fortunate never to have been in a natural disaster nor had anyone I know of die or suffer from same. You said that one reason for natural disasters (which cause all those things I described) is that God is providing others an opportunity to be generous and helpful to those in need. Would you break someone's arm to give a doctor a chance to set it?

We know that pain is an essential part of the human condition and needs to be present for our physical survival.

How do we know of that? We know of that pain is a feature of our current existence but on what basis do you claim that this is the only possible way for humans to exist? I believe it is the only way because we are the natural products of unguided evolution but on your world view God could have set things up differently.

even cancer is connected to our own human bodies and the way we reproduce. We see God's mercy as well as His justice.

Cancer is God's way of showing mercy and justice?

We understand from the relationship we have with Him and knowing that sometimes even a nation has to suffer for transgressions that go against God's commandments.

Seems a bit off topic from the questions I was asking about correlation between disasters and belief in God both in America and in other countries....is that correlation not present in other places?


He is serving Justice for others when suffering happens on a huge scale in many cases we see in history.
So I catch a student in my class cheating on a test. The consequences for this have been clearly laid out ahead of time. Cheating = automatic F grade. So I catch this student cheating and as a result I give the entire class an automatic F. Is that justice?

God could do many things that "we" think would be "better" but we don't have all the pieces to this great puzzle.
Mayne there is no great puzzle, maybe bad things happen to people because the world is a random, unguided place?

Yes, you do. You think that we live just as a comic accident that has no purpose or reason if I understand you correctly. Natural answers don't cut it for me
I do believe those things but that doesn't mean that I think God is a logical impossibility, those beliefs are a product of me interpreting the data of my experience in life while also being unconvinced that a God exists.

Why would Muslims not draw strength or comfort in their beliefs? You too must draw strength and comfort in some way for your lack of belief. That doesn't make either accurate with reality.

That's the point I was making you had said that in suffering people can be drawn close to God, as a possible explanation for why God allows so much suffering. My response is that suffering draws people close to all kinds of things and so the fact that some Christians feel it draws them closed to God does not really get us any closer to truth.

You have just changed one story (the Bible) for another (Evolution). It is perfectly cohesive with Christian thought that God calls all to Him spiritually and that this call can be taken by a different path.

For sure they are different explanations about how we get our God beliefs. Do you think that all religious paths eventually lead to God?

If you do post a new thread please let me know.

Have a great day!
 
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To you, believed that God existed is the same as what I now claim as knowing God exists. That is not the case. Like the apple example. I might believe that all apples are red and there are no other color for apples. I understand that I only have a limited understanding of apples due to the fact that I live in an area where only red apples are grown and I've never ventured out into the "real" world. Now I venture out and lo and behold I experience a green apple. Now I know that not all apples are red. It doesn't matter how many other apples there are and what color they may be, I know that not all apples are red. That is 100% confirmation that not all apples are red. So belief went from a belief to knowing 100%.


[/Quote]Are you agreeing that we can't know God is good because that was part of the quote as well. The rest strikes me as an example of the if/then defense. If God is real and if he is what I believe him to be then it is possible that God has reasons that I don't know. To be fair this is logically possible, for me though it is not very compelling.[/Quote]

I know from my experience that God is good. If I know from my personal experience that He is good then it logically follows that there are reasons that are ultimately good.


I think that might be the case, I think that there is a deep seated need for justice in us all. We down deep know if someone does an objectively wrong action that it deserves justice, whatever that justice is might depend on our own view of life and the after life. I feel if this was my child, I would want him to fear death the way my child did. I would want him to Feel the dread of knowing that he was going to die.



Suppose they don't get onto drugs until they are of legal age? You have no legal right to force them into rehab. They choose "even if they know they are possibly facing a long hard life leading to possible overdose and death" to continue to use. They are legal adults and you can do nothing, nothing that it until they ask for help. That is all they have to do is ask for your help and give you permission to help them. You didn't love them less when they were content to steal and use and live their life the way they wanted to but you were there when they asked.


I think perhaps there is perhaps some hyperbole in there... Robots... Let me ask this. Do you believe that there is free will in heaven?
Yes, or the angels would not have rebelled.

He has hardened the heart of humans for his purpose.


So in that hypothetical scenario why would any soul chose to be given cancer rather than health and wealth, knowing that either choice will lead to a life with God in eternity?
I am going to ask you something here first and remind me to answer this question once you have allowed me to ask you something first. Do you think that true good and evil exist? Do you think that to know what love is, you have to know what love isn't?


If I am right and the Christian God does exist as I claim, would you rather not have existed yourself if you will spend eternity in hell? Would you have rather never known the love of your wife and your children or how it is to forgive someone for something they have done that hurt you deeply? Its a good question and one I just don't have an answer for. Would I have wanted to live my life even if I knew I would not spend eternity with God and be sent to hell? I just don't know. I love to love. I love the way love makes me feel. I don't like the idea of me never existing.

We went to church and my first child went to Sunday school and could read the Bible at age six. When my second child was born we moved when he was just a year old and didn't go to a church again during his childhood and the same with the third. During the time between the first and the first years of my third was the journey from Christian theology to the all religions are man's creation to worship God to the new age stuff. Religion of any sort was really not very prominent in our home. My husband still was a Christian but I was all over the place. I read everything I could get my hands on about religions and beyond (new age stuff) and my kids were just kids and didn't think much about God probably at all. I finally came to rest in Christianity by way of God's revelation. By that time my oldest daughter was anti-God pretty much and very rebellious, my son was completely turned atheist by the time he was like 15 or 16 and my third daughter did decide to be a Christian on her own during a Bible camp at 13. I never made them follow my lead, or their Dad's for that matter. They all made their own choices. Now all three of them are Christians. My son who was the most avid most outspoken atheist has actually became the most spiritual of all. My dad I believe died an atheist and so did my brother. My mother became a Christian on Mother's day when she was around sixty or so. I wasn't brought up in a religious home to say the least.





Honestly I can't, perhaps you could offer one?
No, honestly I don't.


I don't think it is sufficient. Science is fantastic and we discover so much and it has improved our lives in so many ways but it is limited. I just don't think it is sufficient for the questions we are discussing.



Did I? Did I say one reason for natural disasters was for people to help others? I don't think that is a reason for the disaster. I think it is an opportunity to help others, and we learn to put others before ourselves in cases such as this which is what God desires us to do.



God chose to set it up as it is. How would you have set it up? Do you think you could do a better job? It seems that you seem to think you would be a better God than God. Would you have rather Him zap each and everyone of us into existence rather than devise a plan where life could replicate life? Would you rather Him put us in a protective bubble so we wouldn't need to face any pain? I mean, what would YOU do?



Cancer is God's way of showing mercy and justice?
Hmm, really? This sounds rather snarky as I think you realize that I don't believe that Cancer is God's way of showing mercy and justice. God works within all circumstances of life and death.



Seems a bit off topic from the questions I was asking about correlation between disasters and belief in God both in America and in other countries....is that correlation not present in other places?
Its a global situation.



What is this scenario being shown to be like in the Christian position?


Mayne there is no great puzzle, maybe bad things happen to people because the world is a random, unguided place?
Maybe there is?


I do believe those things but that doesn't mean that I think God is a logical impossibility, those beliefs are a product of me interpreting the data of my experience in life while also being unconvinced that a God exists.
You don't think God is a logical impossibility? Why not?



That is why no one thing, no one piece of evidence, no one experience brings us closer to truth. It is in one thing that leads to another, one experience leading to another and confirmation of those things that brings us closer to truth.



For sure they are different explanations about how we get our God beliefs. Do you think that all religious paths eventually lead to God?
No.

So in conclusion, what we have in this conversation is why do I believe that human suffering and God are not contradictory when you clearly feel it is. I find God good in my experience, suffering has many causes and good things sometimes comes out of it. If good can come out of it at all means that good is possibly the reason for some suffering if not all suffering. Is that your take on all this?

If you do post a new thread please let me know.
Ok, but in reality, we view the evidence in our own worldviews. What I find obvious in my position you clearly don't see it the same way and vice versa. You aren't looking to change the way you see things and I'm not looking to change the way I see things...so where do we go from there?

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So belief went from a belief to knowing 100%.
This makes sense to me my understanding is that knowledge is a subset of belief. Specifically knowledge is a justified true belief. You and I will disagree about whether your current belief in God counts as knowledge because I don't see it as true or justified, whereas you do see it as justified and true... Fair enough.

I know from my experience that God is good. If I know from my personal experience that He is good then it logically follows that there are reasons that are ultimately good
I find this interesting when considered in the historical context of the Bible. You are saying that in your experience God is good. Let's say (here we go with analogies again! ) that one of you children has a significant other. They tell you all the awesome things about this person, how good and kind this person is to them etc. When you meet this person you find out that while all of those things are true, they treat your child with goodness and respect, they also have a few people locked up in chains in their basement and they punish them constantly. Does the personal experience of your child, that this significant other is a good person, trump the other actions that this person has done and is continuing to do?
I know the Bible says God is good, and so does your experience of this being. But when we look at the actions of this being past and future it seems to me that we might have reason to be doubtful about this claim to goodness. What do you think?

Suppose they don't get onto drugs until they are of legal age? You have no legal right to force them into rehab. They choose "even if they know they are possibly facing a long hard life leading to possible overdose and death"
OK well if we change the scenario as you suggest, let's say that they are legal age and have chosen to continue this life path but I do still somehow (not under the law but by other means) have the ability to have them go to rehab regardless. In this new scenario what would you as a parent who loves them do? Leave them to their decision knowing it will lead to a short brutish life. Or curtail their free will to have them go through rehab?

That is all they have to do is ask for your help and give you permission to help them. You didn't love them less when they were content to steal and use and live their life the way they wanted to but you were there when they asked.
Why would a loving parent wait for them to ask for help? If your child was drowning and didn't even realize it, would you wait for them to ask for help (knowing ahead of time that they never would) and let them drown, or would you reach in and help them out?

Yes, or the angels would not have rebelled.
OK. Do you think there will be free will for the humans who end up in heaven for eternity and if so the follow up question is do you believe that there will be sin in heaven?

He has hardened the heart of humans for his purpose.

So there are times when God will override our free will to accomplish his purpose. Meaning that at any time, as long as it suits his plans, he can take away our free will. In what sense then do we really even have free will. It seems to me that we are free to go along with his plan but of we go off script God can and has forced us to get back on track.

Seems to me that these are different questions. No I don't believe in good and evil as an objective binary pair,simply because of the ideological baggage that accompanies the terms used that way. I do believe in good and harm though if that helps.
As for knowing what love is by knowing what it is not... Hmmm if I am trying to describe a cow to you and I tell you that a cow is not a non-cow, what have I added to your understanding of cow?

Would I have wanted to live my life even if I knew I would not spend eternity with God and be sent to hell? I just don't know. I love to love. I love the way love makes me feel. I don't like the idea of me never existing.
Fair enough. This might again depend on your view of the afterlife. If I believe in eternal conscious torment, I would rather skip the life on earth bit. If I believe in annihilation maybe I would choose life on earth, maybe not.

never made them follow my lead, or their Dad's for that matter. They all made their own choices.
Cool Of you could do it all over again but beginning as a strong Christian as you are today and never wavering from that do you think you would want to encourage them to believe in Jesus or would you try not to influence them one way or the other?

I don't think it is sufficient. Science is fantastic and we discover so much and it has improved our lives in so many ways but it is limited. I just don't think it is sufficient for the questions we are discussing.
Fair enough

God chose to set it up as it is. How would you have set it up? Do you think you could do a better job? It seems that you seem to think you would be a better God than God.
Maybe but I think you could too If I were writing the Bible I would have added a few things, for example "you shall not own other humans as property" and just like that the Bible is a better book. What would you change or add?

This sounds rather snarky as I think you realize that I don't believe that Cancer is God's way of showing mercy and justice. God works within all circumstances of life and death.
Wasn't trying to be snarky at all. You were saying that the way we reproduce allows the possibility of us getting cancer and then linked that though with us seeing god's mercy and justice. I didn't see how that made sense and so I threw a question mark at the end so you cod help me see what you meant by putting those two ideas together.

Its a global situation
I thought you were specifically talking about the states... Are you saying you believe or that you know that the increase in natural disasters in the u item states is part of a global trend that parallels the decline of Christian belief worldwide?

What is this scenario being shown to be like in the Christian position?
We were talking about God's justice and you said that the judgement sometimes has to fall on the entire nation. I am asking you if you think it is just that for the sins of a few, the entire country deserves a natural disaster that kills men, women, children, infants and embryos?

You don't think God is a logical impossibility? Why not?

Because it is actually possible that I am wrong, that an invisible, transcendent being exists, who has set things up to look exactly like it doesn't but has chosen to reveal themselves in the hearts of certain chosen people of which I am not one. This is absolutely possible if God does indeed exist and has all possible knowledge and power. I just think this is unlikely but again not impossible.

That does seem to be the question we are exploring. So far I have really enjoyed engaging with your thinking on the subject and am hoping we can continue to flesh out our beliefs

You aren't looking to change the way you see things
Actually I am... I don't think it is likely that I will suddenly convert back to Christianity but I am open to the idea that my thinking on these subjects is incomplete. I am certain that I will come away from our conversation having modified some of my previously held beliefs, maybe about faith or about Christians in general. I am always open to new perspectives even though I recognize that that idea of weight that we discussed earlier is at play along with confirmation bias. I can't do anything abkut the fact that confirmation bias is a part of human thinking and therefore present in my thinking as well. What I can do is aknowledge it and do my best to seek out sources and people who disagree with me and interact with them in a serious, respectful way. My thought life would get pretty boring if I never interacted with people who see the world differently!

I was supposed to remind you to answer a question after your follow up question
I am sure you are super busy but again if you do decide to post some of what you find compelling I would love to read it!
 
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