What I really think about Valentine's Day?

[Happy Celibate Single]

I think Valentine's day is over rated and is just another commercial day for companies to sell more chocolate and Jewelers to sell more jewelry.

 

[public hermit]

I think Valentine's day is over rated and is just another commercial day for companies to sell more chocolate and Jewelers to sell more jewelry.

Of course, it is. But if it helps couples reignite that smoldering fire, or if it fans the existing flames, I think that's wonderful.

How to undercut the commercialization? That's where the smart money is. Guys, usually, don't care about Valentines. But she probably does. If he makes her a homemade Valentines and takes her out for a good meal, she will either be smitten or upset, which is a good barometer for knowing if it should be broken off before the next Valentines rolls around lol. So, you either undercut the companies that are trying to profit off your love, or you gain wisdom and drop her like a hot potato.

UnsurprisIngly, perhaps, I haven't had a reason to be concerned about Valentines for years, and I don't plan on having one anytime soon.

 

[Going_Nowhere]

A day to remind me that I am

 

[Sketcher]

What do I think of Valentine's Day? Not much at all.

 

[RayofSun]

Such a positive outlook and I agree!

Winner, winner


Chicken dinner

Of course, it is. But if it helps couples reignite that smoldering fire, or if it fans the existing flames, I think that's wonderful.

How to undercut the commercialization? That's where the smart money is. Guys, usually, don't care about Valentines. But she probably does. If he makes her a homemade Valentines and takes her out for a good meal, she will either be smitten or upset, which is a good barometer for knowing if it should be broken off before the next Valentines rolls around lol. So, you either undercut the companies that are trying to profit off your love, or you gain wisdom and drop her like a hot potato.

UnsurprisIngly, perhaps, I haven't had a reason to be concerned about Valentines for years, and I don't plan on having one anytime soon.

 

[GodAndChocolateVanilla]

 

[Saucy]

Such a positive outlook and I agree!

Winner, winner


Chicken dinner

It's Ray! Hello Ray

 

[Somber]

I think that companies will commercialize almost anything though. I don't think the holiday is a problem in and of itself, it is more up to the individual to decide what they do with it and what tends to be their focus... is it family, friendships, connection, or just expensive things? I am starting to realize how some traditions can help keep us more grounded and connected amidst this very disconnected world. To me it really doesn't matter if it is a calendar holiday, or if you make up your own holidays and traditions to create a special bond with others, just whatever works to help you pause amidst the busy months and have special time with those you care about. It is our own individual responsibility what we decide to focus on and what is important to us. Although I myself tend to prefer quality time over gifts, I also don't think there is anything wrong with buying things for those you love. The problem isn't the money or the gift, it is when things become more important than people or the relationship.

 

[Saucy]

I think that companies will commercialize almost anything though. I don't think the holiday is a problem in and of itself, it is more up to the individual to decide what they do with it and what tends to be their focus... is it family, friendships, connection, or just expensive things? I am starting to realize how some traditions can help keep us more grounded and connected amidst this very disconnected world. To me it really doesn't matter if it is a calendar holiday, or if you make up your own holidays and traditions to create a special bond with others, just whatever works to help you pause amidst the busy months and have special time with those you care about. It is our own individual responsibility what we decide to focus on and what is important to us. Although I myself tend to prefer quality time over gifts, I also don't think there is anything wrong with buying things for those you love. The problem isn't the money or the gift, it is when things become more important than people or the relationship.

I agree. Christmas is probably the most commercialized holiday ever lol, but we still celebrate it.

 

[Sif]

Like @Sketcher I do not think much at all about it.

 

[Niels]

I view Valentine's Day much like I view anniversaries. If you're in a good relationship, and you're not overly fixated on the commercial side of things, it's a fun excuse to celebrate being a couple. I can appreciate that, regardless of whatever my relationship status might be. If you're single, however, it's just like any other day.

Jokes about being "forever alone" aside, if other people being happy makes you sad, you might want to work on developing a better attitude. One that doesn't get you down.

 

[sunshineforJesus]

I like valentines day,Even though I am single my dad surprises me every yr with a box of chocolates.
This yr my mom got me a cool goody bag at a craft fair which im looking forward to getting.

 

[SarahsKnight]

I think that companies will commercialize almost anything though. I don't think the holiday is a problem in and of itself, it is more up to the individual to decide what they do with it and what tends to be their focus... is it family, friendships, connection, or just expensive things? I am starting to realize how some traditions can help keep us more grounded and connected amidst this very disconnected world. To me it really doesn't matter if it is a calendar holiday, or if you make up your own holidays and traditions to create a special bond with others, just whatever works to help you pause amidst the busy months and have special time with those you care about. It is our own individual responsibility what we decide to focus on and what is important to us. Although I myself tend to prefer quality time over gifts, I also don't think there is anything wrong with buying things for those you love. The problem isn't the money or the gift, it is when things become more important than people or the relationship.

Well said, Somber.

And on a personal note, might I say, would that the affection I felt towards you were romantic in nature rather than a treasured friend, that I might have the honor of using V-day as a chance to dote on a good lady in some way. ^-^

 

[SarahsKnight]

I like valentines day,Even though I am single my dad surprises me every yr with a box of chocolates.
This yr my mom got me a cool goody bag at a craft fair which im looking forward to getting.

That is very nice to hear, Nicole.

 

[sunshineforJesus]

Thanks so much Sarahs Knight.

 

[ozso]

Valentines day is those little Necco hearts and those big dark chocolate covered marshmallow hearts.