What Does This Mean To You?

[~Beauty_from_Pain~]

When a guy tells you that you are the MOST attractive woman to him, what does this mean? Is it the truth that he can see you this way, or is he just saying what men are supposed to tell you?

 

[~Nikki~]

Well, I am the hottest woman alive to my hubby.

Of course he likes my looks, but he loves me too...and all added together it makes a package which to him is the most attractive in the world.

It wouldn't be the most attractive to someone else because I wouldn't necessarily be what they were looking for, but to my hubby (and he's the only one that matters) I am the most attractive. And I know he doesn't just say it, but he means it too...

 

[MN John]

When a guy tells you that you are the MOST attractive woman to him, what does this mean? Is it the truth that he can see you this way, or is he just saying what men are supposed to tell you?

All I can tell you is that it can be true. I don't know if it is because God gives us this extra gift of attraction to the one He has chosen for us or what. But I know that someone can become the most beautiful, most attractive, most lovely, person in the world to you. Even while at the same time, you can admit that they might not be a "10" to anybody else but you, you just can't imagine anybody else measuring up to them. I only know this from experience, this is how it is with Jan. She is the most perfectly beautiful and gorgeous woman in the world. I know that she doesn't thnk that she is, and that there would be people who would agree with her, but in my eyes (beauty is in the eye of the beholder) she is unsurpassed and unsupassable!

So ladies, when you are told this, take it as a truth, as long as it is coming from a man whom you trust not to be giving you a line.

Adding "for me" or "to me" to the statement just lets you know that it's a personal viewpoint or opinion. After all, probably only Miss Universe would take "you are the most beautiful woman in the world" as a statement of pure fact.

I know this is how I feel about Jan. Nobody could be as attractive as she is. But nobody has to agree with me on that if they don't want to. Having the most gorgeous girlfriend in the world is reward enough!

 

[Johnnz]

Unless you have good cause to suspect something false you should not be trying to second guess his comments. Perhaps your own self image and/or self confidence is the real issue?

Many of us needed to learn to accept other's words, love and affirmation. We became much healthier when we did.

John
NZ

 

[Chan1976]

When a guy tells you that you are the MOST attractive woman to him, what does this mean? Is it the truth that he can see you this way, or is he just saying what men are supposed to tell you?

I would think he is telling the truth, especially since I feel the same way about him (he's the most attractive man to me).
Love does things to people .

 

[radhead]

It's possible.

 

[Alenci]

He could very well mean it. Although you should be glad that he is trying to compliment you and not second-guess his words. It is a lot to be grateful for.

 

[none the wiser]

My boyfriend says this about me...believe it when he tells me