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Gods4me

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Me and my man are getting fed up of doing thesame old stuff. if we ever go out we will get dinner and go to the pics and if we have our son with us we go to bowling.
we dont like drinking and pubs or clubs.

but just for those nice we night to spend together. wwhat is something diffrent that we could do.
 

Monaleezza

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Try the theatre now and then.


With your son, try a theme park. or a playground.
They even have children's theatre.

Have dinner parties. Invite people over and cook a huge feast. Have different themed nights maybe, so that there are different topics of conversation.

Have competitions so that once a month you and your partner take it in turns to arrange something "special"
Trust me, when you're trying to out-do each other the ideas will flow.
 
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Stolic

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Try the theatre now and then.


With your son, try a theme park. or a playground.
They even have children's theatre.

Have dinner parties. Invite people over and cook a huge feast. Have different themed nights maybe, so that there are different topics of conversation.

Have competitions so that once a month you and your partner take it in turns to arrange something "special"
Trust me, when you're trying to out-do each other the ideas will flow.

*takes out notebook to get all this down*:thumbsup: Good advice Monaleeza - Gods4me - thanks for the post - I think there will be a lot of people with the same dilemma:wave:
 
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ilovelucyMT

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We sometimes go fishing and drink while doing that!
We ride fourwheelers.
We go hunting.
We go for walks.
We play volleyball.
We go to the rodeo.
We hang out at his house with his brother and usually drink.
We ride dirt roads.
We go mud riding.
We play playstation.
Watch movies.
 
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ilovelucyMT

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Ilovelucy you are lucky to have space to do so much. Variety is the spice of life as they say;) But take it easy with the drinking - you sound like you get so much fun without it anyway:thumbsup: :wave: :)

hehe! We don't drink that much. But we always have fun when we do!! :D
 
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faerieevaH

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- Have some friends over for a boardgame night.
- Play a boardgame among you two
- Spend an evening listening to the radio and reading, crafting, or anything instead of watching tv.
- Check the local newspaper for free concerts or events
- Go for a late night walk

With your son:
- go fly a kite
- go feed the ducks
- have a waterballoon fight in the backyard
 
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