What attracts men???

[loved]

??

 

[Saviot'Valuan]

Lets see...

I like it when my girlfriend cooks for me...
Sweethearted...
she has a relationship with god...
Is somewhat dependant on me...

for meeting someone...
has an interest in me and is willing to show it..
not outgoing, more reserved..
dresses respectfully, not in sweatshirts, but more 'dresses up'
doesn't gossip

 

[lonnienord]

Loves GOD
accepts me
Loves children especially my boys

 

[SirKenin]

http://www.christianforums.com/showthread.php?p=14189345&postcount=6

 

[Cherub8]

1. Fears the Lord
2. Is sexually pure (I don't necessarily mean virginity.)
3. Dresses modestly.
4. Respects her parents' authority.
5. Respects men.
6. Speaks respectfully and has good manners.
7. Cares deeply for others.

I think #4 is probably the hardest to find, even in the church. I think it's great when the father is involved in his daughter's life (including her love life) and when the daughter respects that. It is a rare quality I watch for.

God bless

 

[HelpingHand]

hm.... non of you other men have a say in this? I'd really like to know as well. I'm curious.

 

[MrDude]

Well, this is what I like it a girl, but it certainly doesn't apply to all men.

Spiritually:

1. Loves Jesus, has a genuine relationship with him, but isn't cheesy about it.
2. Doesn't take anyones "word for it", someone who questions anything and everything to make sure they believe what's right(just like me)
3. Like to help people out when they need it.

Personality:

1. Likes ALL genres of movies
2. Enjoys all genres of music
3. Can appreciate the wonders of creation (like a nice sunset or bright full moon)
4. Enjoys physical activites like running, swimming, and wakeboarding
5. Isn't afraid to get dirty when she needs to (I mean this literally and metaphorically)
6. Remains calm and cool in bad situations
7. Sarcastic sense of humor

Physically I'm not too picky, but these are things that definitly catch my eye.

1. Short brown hair. Not boy short, but like Mandy Moore's hair was when she cut it real short
2. Medium to long red hair
3. Nice lips
4. Slim and toned body, especially the legs
5. Smells nice
6. NICE TEETH!!!!! (this can make or break the attraction totally)

 

[Sketcher]

Is obedient to God, even when it's tough.
Loves Him, loves people.
Respects the Bible.
Respects men.
Respects people in general.
Is compassionate.
Is trustworthy and honest.
Is intelligent, yet humble.
Is responsible & prudent.
Is not lazy - is always prepared.
Loves children and will make whatever sacrifices she needs to for their good.
Is a good cook and actually likes to do it.
Is creative.
Takes good care of herself.
Is sexually pure.
Is friendly and fun.
Shares at least some of my taste in entertainment.
Shares my sense of humor.
Shares my values.
On top of that, looks great.

 

[HelpingHand]

Mrdude you scare me....

 

[MrDude]

Why do I scare you?

 

[Hark3N]

This is a question in the same line as "What food is nice" or "What music is nice"
It depends from person to person.

 

[Wakeup2god]

The question being 'what attracts men' and not 'what do men like'

I find a Godly woman very attractive.
A confident woman but not overly confident.
Bright happy eyes (the windows to the soul so they say).
Dresses and acts like a lady
Compassionate but not a complete soft touch.
Long hair is attractive.

 

[traingosorry]

Bright happy eyes (the windows to the soul so they say).

Compassionate but not a complete soft touch.

wow. I like these two! You don't hear that too often.

 

[FatBurger]

The question being 'what attracts men' and not 'what do men like'

I was thinking the same thing, as an example, sexual purity isn't something that attracts you to a woman, it's something that affects how seriously you approach a relationship with her. Quite different.

Great smile
Nice eyes
Talkative
Good sense of humor

After that, it starts getting into mixed territory for what's attractive and what's deeper.

 

[HelpingHand]

Why do I scare you?

Cause that sounds like someone I know.....

 

[MrDude]

Cause that sounds like someone I know.....

But what is that scary? Did I say something wrong?

 

[Fatolia]

Three words: At-ti-tude

 

[waterbear]

All equally important

- Virgin (i.e. has not had consensual sex with anyone)
- Physically appealing
- Responsible. By this I mean she takes responsiblity for everything she consents to doing, even if she didn't intend for the effect that happened.
- Interested in modeling phenomena (i.e. generalized philosophy)
- Idealistic (i.e. equates how she will act with how she should ideally act)
- Similar values/priorities.

 

[Living Stone]

??

What kind of man?


Some like the silly type who seem to be brainless and giggle a lot, but look real puurdy.

me, I like the tomboy type who dont like to wear makeup and dress up a lot.
Tennis shoes, jeans (modest, not painted on) and an old shirt are fine.....actaully, VERY cute if you ask me

I like complete modesty, not extra skin showing.
I do NOT want to see breasts (cleavage) of any kind.
I dont know why, the its just terrbly disgusting.....maybe some childhood trauma or something

I love intelligent conversation.
I love to listen and to know the she is listening too.
Ill take conversation and companionship over looks anyday.

I really like to get little cards that are handmade. Much more thought and love go into those

Honesty.
that is number one.
If I even catch of a hint of a dishonesty it is very disillusioning.
An obese woman whos completely honest is much more desireable than a shapely one whos a habitual liar.

I love that I get all this from my honey.....shes the best

 

[Jon_]

Femininity.