Jesus makes it clear that if we really love him we will keep the commandments.
How do you keep the commandments in your daily busy lives?
The bible tells us to:
1Co 14:1 Pursue love, and earnestly desire the spiritual gifts, especially that you may prophesy.
There are two key areas, that I see in the word regrading God's direction for us:
1) Love and serve other people. The KJV of the bible says "follow after charity", instead of the word love. In our modern world love can be confused with lust, even our best intentions to show love can come from emotions, and desires. Love in the Godly sense is to help the poor and be kind and generous in relationships, James said it this way that "true religion in the sight of God is to visit widows and orphans in their time of need, and keep your self un-spotted by the world". There are so many verses that encompass what love is in the bible, it is putting others first, giving preference to one another, submitting to one another, etc, and many more. But also to keep oneself un-spotted by the world involves obeying the word.
2) The second key area is a little harder, it requires obedience to God, and the Holy Spirit. It is enabling God to work through us in miraculous ways. Such as healing the sick through prayer, seeing miracles in our daily lives. This step requires daily prayer, and dedication to the ways, and word of God. I find in my life that I only have a few examples of God working in this way. If I were more obedient to the Holy Spirt I am sure I would see more.
But the basics are:
Rom 14:17-19 For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking but of righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. Whoever thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and approved by men. So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.
Basically what God approves of is when our lives are filled with peace, joy, and love. Having faith in Jesus, not our own efforts, but living in a way that we attempt to move closer to Jesus every day. Denying sinful and worldly lust, but not being so full of fear that we feel we can not do anything natural. By that I mean we should not feel afraid to watch a movie, see friends, or do what we enjoy.