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What are some questions I can ask myself everyday to be better accountable to God?

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What are some questions I can ask myself everyday to be better accountable to God?

I've thought of a few but I need 10
Do I have any sin to confess?
How have I shown love to God today?
How have I shown love to others today?


I'm looking for harsh deep questions that lay bare my motivations and make me humbly want to love God more.
Scripture references that relate or questions poised in scripture would be incredible.
 

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Thanks for the suggesstions I'll read Malachi and I'm still looking for more questions.

Here's one that I may or may not use as it is a deep tough question that I can't yet see asking myself daily. I do hope all reading this will ask themselves this question at least once.

What would the world be like if all Christians were just like me?
 
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What are some questions I can ask myself everyday to be better accountable to God?

I've thought of a few but I need 10
Do I have any sin to confess?
How have I shown love to God today?
How have I shown love to others today?


I'm looking for harsh deep questions that lay bare my motivations and make me humbly want to love God more.
Scripture references that relate or questions poised in scripture would be incredible.

Really, just are you following and always keeping in mind the words of Jesus.

As for "have I shown love to God today" or "love to others today", I do not like those questions because we should be walking in love all the time... and deeds of love are by no means so plain or obvious.


From my perspective, really, what God is asking for is not focusing on the outside of the cup, but the inside. So, on love: do you love in your heart. Then, do not worry about deeds for they come naturally from the heart.


So, along those lines - and I do ask myself questions - are more like:

"Am I praying for my enemies and those who abuse me"
"Do I have any debt I am holding against someone I need to let go of?"
"Do I really care about sinners being saved, about people being cured from diseases, about widows, orphans, people getting killed in some far flung country"... and so on...

"Am I considering such and such issue from God's perspective, rather then man's perspective or some group's perspective"


"Am I interpreting something Scriptural correctly, am I sure"

"Do I turn the other cheek, how do I turn the other cheek, where is it good to do that, what does that mean to do"


And so on and so on...


That said, Paul pointed out he does not "even judge myself". This implies he felt he was walking and talking in the Spirit. And the Spirit is not good to second guess. If one "does not judge" and "does not condemn" one is "not condemned" and "not judged".


So, questions along those lines are critical: "Am I judging this person correctly and what they are saying and doing"

(Because there are matters we are asked to judge.)


Many times I see people get caught up in making judgments against others they do not understand and these are wrong judgments. You see this everywhere. For instance, in politics.


Another thing I constantly strive for is "what is God's will in this situation", and really, that is what it all boils down to, seeking God's will on all matters through the above... and not our own.


But, trying to grasp your own deeds or follow it from what comes out: I do not recommend that.

Look at the Prophets whom were sent to serve as role models. Consider their deeds as if in vacuum... how did they show love of man or God... it was by no means always obvious at all.


(They were considering the bigger picture, so what was right and best for the short term was not right and best for the long term, as Peter pointed out, they all knew they were preaching for us in the future... otherwise, why destroy Israel or fling her off into captivity, for instance? Or why would Abraham almost sacrifice his child? Or Moses have his tribe kill their own people? And so on.)


And God does have a bigger picture for us today: sometimes it is right and best to give a homeless person ten bucks... sometimes it is not.

Real good is spiritual, not physical -- very hard to classify and quantify, so best to go by our heart.


This especially means going over - in our hearts - the words of Jesus to try and understand them. They should always be there in memory.
 
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As for "have I shown love to God today" or "love to others today", I do not like those questions because we should be walking in love all the time... and deeds of love are by no means so plain or obvious.
From my perspective, really, what God is asking for is not focusing on the outside of the cup, but the inside. So, on love: do you love in your heart. Then, do not worry about deeds for they come naturally from the heart.
Jesus asked people a lot of questions to lay bare their motivations.

We are told to love with action and truth. God's love was expressed in a recountable way and so should ours.

Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. -Philippians 4:5

I do agree about focusing on the inside of the cup and that is what these questions are for as well as self-control and to increase my value that I have for God.

Look at the Prophets whom were sent to serve as role models. Consider their deeds as if in vacuum... how did they show love of man or God... it was by no means always obvious at all.
It was very obvious. They showed love to God by trusting Him and acting upon that trust. Their "faith made them righteous"


That said, Paul pointed out he does not "even judge myself". This implies he felt he was walking and talking in the Spirit.
I agree that we should walk in the spirit but questioning oneself is a good thing.
Each of you must examine your own actions. -Galatians 6:4


Thank you (and the others) for your questions. I'm not looking for relationship/conflict/forgiveness questions because I am treated well in all of my relationships.
 
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Jesus asked people a lot of questions to lay bare their motivations.

We are told to love with action and truth. God's love was expressed in a recountable way and so should ours.

Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. -Philippians 4:5

I do agree about focusing on the inside of the cup and that is what these questions are for as well as self-control and to increase my value that I have for God.


It was very obvious. They showed love to God by trusting Him and acting upon that trust. Their "faith made them righteous"



I agree that we should walk in the spirit but questioning oneself is a good thing.
Each of you must examine your own actions. -Galatians 6:4


Thank you (and the others) for your questions. I'm not looking for relationship/conflict/forgiveness questions because I am treated well in all of my relationships.


The Galatians verse, I see as speaking to each of us personally:

4Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in himself, without comparing himself to somebody else, 5for each one should carry his own load.
Okay, so you already know to love in the heart and then from that outwardly comes deeds of love from your own matters God gives you to do.


For instance, how can a taxi cab driver express love, or a person that works on an airport tarmac? Or someone at a restaurant?

I know how I show love in the security field I work, because my motives are right, my will is good: I know that from the thoughts in my heart, and have already tested my deeds.


Forgiveness does not usually involve so much people you know, as people you do not know: the rude guy that cuts in front of you in line at the store. The chatty person on the phone next to you. The person that cuts you off while driving or tailgating.

Maybe a politician. Maybe a boss. Maybe a subordinate.

I see it as a state of 'easy goingness'.

Being easy going really keeps the peace.


"My way is easy and burden light", Jesus really took everything that came.
 
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Forgiveness does not usually involve so much people you know, as people you do not know: the rude guy that cuts in front of you in line at the store. The chatty person on the phone next to you. The person that cuts you off while driving or tailgating.
Maybe a politician. Maybe a boss. Maybe a subordinate.

I see it as a state of 'easy goingness'.

Being easy going really keeps the peace.

"My way is easy and burden light", Jesus really took everything that came.
These things rarely happen to me as well. I am quite laid back and not easily angered/offended by such things of course I do attempt to keep myself in check when i do encounter things that anger me and thankfully God has given me grace to grow less angry about things.

Thanks for your great post
 
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Before I write down a few things, I would like to add: fall in love with God first, and then you won't have to ask yourself these questions. You will just want to naturally please Him in any way you can and you will just start doing them. Because it is God who works in us:

PHI 2:13 for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.

Our job is to draw close to God and fall in love with Him (in other words, with all your heart, soul and mind) and then it is God's job to make sure we do everything to please Him, to make sure that our desires line up with His.

To fall in love with God, you need to study more about Him, meditate on Him day and night, think about Him all the time. Talk to Him in your thoughts. And you will get to know Him better and you will be blessed in every way.

Here are some:

Have I loved God with all my mind, heart and soul?

LUK 10:27 He answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'"

Have I lived for God today or for me?
1PE 4:2 As a result, he does not live the rest of his earthly life for evil human desires, but rather for the will of God.
MAT 16:24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.
25 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it.

Have I made God the master of my heart and let Him be involved in every single area of my life?
PRO 3:6 in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Have I "come out of the world"?
2CO 6:17 "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you."
Have I been seeking the kingdom first?
MAT 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
 
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Have I loved God with all my mind, heart and soul?

LUK 10:27 He answered: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'"

Have I lived for God today or for me?
1PE 4:2 As a result, he does not live the rest of his earthly life for evil human desires, but rather for the will of God.
MAT 16:24 Then Jesus said to his disciples, "If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross and follow me.
25 For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it.

Have I made God the master of my heart and let Him be involved in every single area of my life?
PRO 3:6 in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.
Have I "come out of the world"?
2CO 6:17 "Therefore come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you."
Have I been seeking the kingdom first?
MAT 6:33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.
Thank you very much, very useful :thumbsup:
And of course praise God for giving us His word to live by!:clap:
 
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