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What age would you want to be right now?

heartnsoul

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While I was chatting with a friend several months ago, she asked me what age I would want to be right now? It didn't take me too long to think about the answer. I said that my age 41 is just where I want to be right now because I wouldn't trade my walk with Christ now with what it was like when I was younger. I actually surprised myself when answering because I would always kid around about wanting to be younger, but when really thinking about it, I really value the age I am at now.

What age would you want to be right now and why?
 

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Youth? OVER? PFAH. I ain't givin' in to nothin' of the kind. In my head, I'm no older than 25, and if my body argues with me, I argue back. Yes, yes, my metabolism changed, too, about 4 years back, but I don't give in to it; I run, to beat it into submission. Just THINKIN' about givin' to old age makes my blood boil.

Would I be 25 again? Sure, but only if I can take the lessons I've learned with me.

But frankly, I don't care how old I get. I plan to outlive the lot of ya....
 
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maxmerc said:
But frankly, I don't care how old I get. I plan to outlive the lot of ya....
That's a great attitude.

When I was in my 20's, I used to view people in their 40's as old. I'm 40 now, but don't feel old at all. In fact, I seem to be hitting my stride; I'm comfortable walking in my shoes. I couldn't say that when I was 25.
 
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andry said:
That's a great attitude.

When I was in my 20's, I used to view people in their 40's as old. I'm 40 now, but don't feel old at all. In fact, I seem to be hitting my stride; I'm comfortable walking in my shoes. I couldn't say that when I was 25.
Isn't it funny how we all thought being 40 was old? So now we're all in our forties and we think 80 is old! And on and on it goes...

I, too, would not want to be back in my twenties. I value the wisdom I have now and am content with who I am now.
 
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I would love to be 12 again...The world was a small place only worry you had was what you were going to play that day...You knew God but werent corrupted by the world..Over time ive just seen and heard to many things that i wish i would of never know about..I feel my mind has been poisoned even tho we dont want to think of bad things once youe exposed to the evils of this world its hard to erase it from your brain.
 
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Remember that wisecrack I made on the first page about outliving everybody?

Be careful what you say.

I just got a call from the wife of one of my oldest friends, about an hour ago. He died this morning, of a heart attack. We had just talked on the phone Tuesday night, the first time I've talked with him in over a year. He told me he had been on heart meds, and they had talked about putting in a pacemaker, but he seemed so happy. His life was really going well. His marriage was a good one, and he was so very proud of his son, who is 5, and doing really well in school. He had gotten reconciled with one of his daughters from his first marriage, and was looking forward to walking her down the aisle at her wedding in a couple of years. He was getting on well at his business, and finally getting a profit from it. His Christian walk was a good one. He was even thinking of finishing his ministry schooling. He was 42.

It still seems like a bad dream. But. I know where he's at, now, and I know I'll see him again. And we'll laugh and talk and walk those streets of gold together.

Funny. Tuesday I talked with him, and with two other old friends, and then the next morning I heard from another old friend, that I used to work with. And I started to wonder what was up; even asked my best friend if he had ever felt like he had just been moved on the big chess board.

Guess now I know. God moves. We are the pieces. Praise God. And I thank God that He gave me one last conversation with my friend before He called him home.

Mood? Sad, for my friend's family, and because I miss him already. But happy for him. He is now perfect.
 
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Wow, I am so sorry to hear about your friend. You're right, life is just too short and one never knows when his/her time is up. How sad. Like you said, at least he is in a better place now. May God comfort and lift you up as you grieve over your friend.
 
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24. I was still "young", full of life & strength. And remember how 30 was a big milestone? Well at 24 you are still closer to 20 than 30. I remember on my 30th birthday my brother got me a coffee cup that said "Somewhere between 30 and death."

At least now we understand the phrase that "Youth is wasted on the young."

Pax;

Bob
 
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